Psychology Psychologist Mikhail Labhkvsky anoti: "Kana munhu achinge azvikwira, hupenyu hwake hwakazara kuchinja chose." Anyanzvi anotenda kuti zvinodikanwa kutanga kushanda nazvo kubva mariri - kuti udzidze kuzvida iwe pasina zvinopesana, asi zvakadaro. Vamwe vanorapa vanobvumirana nechinzvimbo chayo, vachifunga kuti izvi ndizvo chaizvo izvo kusavapo kwematambudziko. Nekudaro, havazi vese vanogona kuzvida - uye ndosaka.
Chitarisiko Chete
Sosaiti yakarongedzwa kuitira kuti ari kuedza kukwana ese ari pasi peimwe standard. Ichi chiitiko chekutarisa uye kuona mamiriro ekunyaradza - vanhu vakaoma kugamuchira kuti vamwe vanogona kuve vakadzidza, vakasimba kana kuti vakasimba. Kubva pano kune mirairo semunhu anofanirwa kuzvibata, zvekupfeka izvo kuda kushamwari uye zvichingodaro. Uye zvakanaka, kana kubudikidza paudiki chete mabhegi kubva muchivanze chinoita kuti mwana arege "kusadaro." Zvakaipa kana zvatsoropodzwa mumhuri: inonzi benzi, kuzvidza mukuzara kana zvisina kukodzera chitarisiko. Zvichakadaro, ndidzo mazwi evapedyo vanhu vanomiswa mune zvekutanga zvakadzika uye kukanganisa hupenyu hwakazotevera hwemunhu. Iva wakarongeka nevana uye usaedze ulce navo kubva pakutadza kwako kuburitsa pfungwa nemutauro wakadzikama.
Tsigira mwana uye umupe rudo
Mufananidzo: Pasina Kurege.com.
Chiitiko chakaipa
Tevere mushure mevabereki vanogona kumanikidza kusanzwisisika kwakakomba pamunhu kunova mudiwa. Mukuyaruka, ndiko kutaridzika kwakawanda kunobhadharirwa kuongororwa kwehunhu hwemukati, vazhinji vachakura zvakanyanya gare gare. Saizi yechipfuva, kutenderera kwebhazi, kureba kwebvudzi uye kunyange kuongororwa kwekuona - zvese zvichashoropodzwa. Kana iwe uine mwana wekuyaruka, nyatsotevera mamiriro ake uye edza kuchengetedza hukama hwepedyo, uchitenderedza kutarisirwa uye rudo. Saka hazvizovhara pamberi pako, uye iwe uchave uchikwanisa kubatsira panguva chaiyo, zvinoodza kusahadzika mukusagadzikana kwake. Kana iwe wakambosangana nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, funga nezve izvo vanhu vanokuudza iwe kuzviuraya? Munhu anofara anoda kugovera mufaro, uye kuti arege kutuka vamwe vanhu vakaremara nepfungwa vari kuyedza kukunda simba uye kuvanza kusagadzikana.
Tsvaga mumwe wako anozokukoshesa, asina kugumburwa
Mufananidzo: Pasina Kurege.com.
Kukanganisa kukanganisa
Njodzi inotevera kune psyche ichakutora pakupera kweyunivhesiti. Pano vanhu vakakamurwa kuita mapoka maviri: Vamwe vanosarudza mauto ese kuti vape kutsvaga kune mumwe mudiwa uye wobva waziva mumhuri, vamwe vanonyanya kunetseka nezvebasa. Kana iwe uchinzwa nezve yekupedzisira, zvinoreva chero kutadza munzira yekushanda mabasa kunogona kukubata zvakanyanya. Tarisa uone zvakaitika kune kubudirira kwevanhu kubudirira kwevanhu: Verenga zvinyorwa zvavo, tarisa mafirimu emakiromita. Iwe uchanzwisisa kuti yavo trajectory yekufamba yakananga kune chinangwa yaive yakaputsika, kwete tambo yakatwasuka. Mumwe muzvinabhizinesi akataura chirevo chakanaka chekuti hapana vanhu vaive kamwe chete pamapenzi. Mumwe nemumwe wedu anogona kukanganisa, asi izvi hazvireve kuti hatigone kuzviziva uye tidzidze pakubata kwedu pachedu. Izvo zvakafanana zvinokuvadza zvikanganiso: zvinoona zvese zvakadzikama uye ziva kuti zvakanyangadza iwe kumberi.
Usatsvage kuzivikanwa mune vamwe vanhu - munhu wese anofanira kutanga azvitarisira, obva aziva nezvemuvakidzani. Zadza uzvida iwe - dzidza kushandisa nguva wega newe, usazvikumbira usazviwanira pazororo, asi kugadzira zororo kubva pazuva rega. Iva shamwari yako yepamoyo uye gamuchira kuti uri munhu akaita sei. Ipapo ndipo pandakabva kwauri zenuya kwauri - iwe unoziva kuti iwe unongozvida iwe.