Bvumirana, kazhinji pazuva rekutanga tinoshanyirwa nemifungo, murume uyu angave ari pamubhedha mumubhedha here? Kunyangwe nanhasi, vakadzi vakatarisa nzira dzakadai sekuverenga saizi yekuremekedzwa kweanogona kumubatirana nehurefu hweminwe / mhino uye huwandu hwezvisikwa zviri pamuviri. Zvakakodzera here kutaura kuti nzira dzakadai hapana chinhu chinovimbisa nezvazviri. Nekudaro, ve psychologists vakaratidza maitiro akati wandei anogona kuita kana kusataure nezve mukana webonde, wozopora mharidzo yemuenzaniso.
Ini uye ini chete
Pasina hunhu hupi husingagone kuita zvepabonde zvakanaka? Ehe, pasina hanya yevakabatana navo kune mumwe nemumwe. FUNGIDZIRA kuti iwe wanga uri kufamba kana kuenda kuCozyestoresitorendi inotonhorera. Chii chinoitika chinotevera? Iye anokufarira, anobvunza mibvunzo, anoda kuziva zvakawanda nezvako? Kana zvirizvo, iwe une mukana wekuti murume achava mukomana webonde. Asi kana iwe usingakwanise uye isa mazwi uye unotanga kuita seyakaitika pakudziya kwemitambo yeHamlet's monologue, murume anozvitsvakira - uye izvi zvinoratidza kuti ichangobva kusarudzika manzwiro ake.
Teerera maitiro ake
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Usandibata
Chero munhu chero upi zvake anokufarira, kunge mukadzi, aanofanira kukunda, acharwira kuti ubate, uye kwete, haazove kusarongeka kubata, iye anongoda kunzwa kuvepo kwako. Ichi chiratidzo chakanaka. Asi kana munhu achivanyengerera kuswededzwa kwako nepese, haatsvage kupinda mukusangana zvakanyanya kunyange mushure memazuva mashoma, mirira hunyengeri - zvinogona kuve zvekushanduka-shanduka kana dzidzo yechitendero. Sezvaunonzwisisa, mumwe wacho haana kudzidza kukufadza iwe pamubhedha.
Vakadzi vese vakafanana
Hauna nguva yekuziva nezve, uye iwe unotoziva kuti mukadzi akaipa aive ani? Alarm bhero. Iko hakuna vimbiso yekuti murume anogara achifeferera nekadzi pasi haazotanga kuratidza kusagadzikana pane yako kero. Uye zvakare, nguva dzose dzinotsoropodza mazwi akananga kune vakadzi vanotaura nezvematambudziko ekuzvivimba uye kazhinji nezveMamiriro ekunze. Iwe unoda here "adventures" uye uchave wakambogadzirira kuve panzvimbo yeiyo inotevera yakaipa?
Ndinogara ndichiitwa
Taura zvishoma, shandira zvimwe. Asi kwete pane varume vakadaro. Munhu asingakwanise kurarama asingazivi nyika kuti azive nezvekukunda kwake pabonde, aine mukana mukuru haazoshamisi mumubhedha, sezvo mazhinji e "fora" akajekeswa zvakajeka. Munhu anovimba nemano ake uye anonyatsoziva kugona kwake, haazombosimbisire izvi, asi achangotora gadziriro yako yekurara mumaoko ake.