- Maxim, chii chaive chikonzero chekugadzira yako nzvimbo?
- Yaive muna 1996. Isu takabva tabata kabhokisi diki mune yedu yemucheto kolids Center. Nei muCardiology? Ehe, nekuti zvinoitika kuti huwandu hwekurwiswa kwemoyo muvanhurume kanokwana kupfuura muvakadzi, kudzokorora kwavo kune katatu kakawanda, uye kufa kubva pamoyo kune kanenge ka4. Heino kurwa uye kunotikoka kuti tikudziridze uye tishandise zvirongwa zvakakosha zvepfungwa kubatsira kudzivirira kudzokorora moyo kurwiswa kwemoyo.
Izvi zvinosiririsa statistic zvinotsanangurwa zvakareruka - chinhu chezvemagariro, maitiro evarume: ivo vari kunyanya kunwa, vanoputa zvakanyanya, zvakanyanya muhupenyu hwavo hwekushushikana. Panguva imwecheteyo, ivo vari pasi pavakadzi, ivo vari kuita mhuri, uye mhuri inonyanya kutsigirwa mupfungwa.
- Pane mafungiro ekuti mhuri haimbombomira varume pakutanga. Asi basa racho, basa ...
- muSweden, akaitisa zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti varume vakasurukirwa vaiwanzo kurwara kupfuura mhuri. Kunyangwe zvichiratidzika kuva munhu wese anogara nyore nyore uye akadzikama. Hapana chakadai! Kusurukirwa pasina kutsigira kwemanzwiro maitiro. Nenzira, vana kune varume vane kukosha kwakanyanya kwekutsigirwa kwepamoyo pane vakadzi. Pano pano chete kwete zvese izvi zvinoziva nezvazvo.
- Ndezvipi zvinetso zvese-zveRussia?
- Pazera redu, makanga matove nehondo mbiri - yekutanga neyechipiri cheche checan chengetedzo. Nzvimbo yedu yakangoumbwa pavakatanga kudzoka kubva kuCaucasus yakaremara mune zvese pfungwa vakomana - vezera redu, shamwari, vaunodzidza navo. Uye takatanga chirongwa chesimba remagariro uye hwepfungwa rakadzoka kubva kuhondo.
Uye pakati pekutanga uye yechipiri mushandirapamwe takaenda kune imwe dambudziko rakakura rechirume - vanababa vakasurukirwa. Patakaverenga huwandu hwenhamba (uye takanga tisashandiswa chete mapepa manhamba, uye makumbo edu akafamba nemakero ese uye akatarisa chokwadi chemamiriro acho), vakashamisika. Bhanauul akawana mazana matanhatu emhuri dzakadai! Nekuti guta rine vanhu vagari zviuru zvina mazana matanhatu negumi, kwete vese vashoma. Vanonyanya kusurukirwa vanababa chirikadzi. Zvakajairika, varume vane tsika dzakanaka vaida vakadzi vavo. Uye mukadzi paakafa, uyu mufananidzo wemukadzi waaida waivadzivirira kuti vagadzire mhuri zvakare. "Kuzivana Nyowani? Iye ndibatanisi akaipa, amai vasina kukodzera vevana vangu, "vanowanzove nerondedzero yakadaro.
Zvakanaka, uye takasvika mumibvunzo iyi, takasvika kumatambudziko edambudziko rezvemagariro enzvimbo: Zviitiko zvekuzviuraya, kushaya kwehupenyu hwekutarisira, zvinoreva hupenyu. Ndokunge, chizvarwa chakarasika chakabuda (mushure mekudonha kweUSSR). Yaive 1998. Ndiwo maratidziro atakatanga basa redu. Ikozvino tave nematare mazhinji; uye tinoshanda nemadzibaba, uye nevarume vakaratidza utsinye. Isu tine zvakare nhungamiro yakasimba kwazvo pane yakaderedzwa. Isu takatotenderana nematare edzimhosva kuti vese vanoendesa chikumbiro chekurambana, vanotumira kwatiri, munharaunda yakaoma. Semhedzisiro - 30% yemhuri dzinogona kuponeswa.
Zvidzidzo zveSweden zvakaratidza: Varume vakasurukirwa vanowanzo kurwara kupfuura mhuri.
- Varume vanofarira zvepfungwa zvepfungwa pasi pamwe navo kana kuti vachiri vakadzi?
- zvinopfuura vakadzi. Asi pakati pedu musina medu hapana chete psychologists, yakakosha nyanzvi - zvepabonde zvepabonde uye neanorologists. Nekuti kumurume, chikamu chebonde chakanyanya uye chakakosha uye chakakosha, chakanyanya kukosha, chakanyatsorongeka nezvimwe zvinhu zvese zvehupenyu. Yakarasika basa kana kutanga kuwana zvishoma - pakanga paine matambudziko muhupenyu hwepabonde nekukurumidza (kusavapo kwemari hakubatanidzwe mune pfungwa yehushuwa). Kukurukurirana - matambudziko ane hutano hwechirume anotsigira uye matambudziko emagariro, kusvika pakuzviuraya. Saka izvo zvinonakidza - uye zvepabonde vatengesi. Vatengi vedu vanofarira mukadzi.
- Sei?
"Nekuti kuudza mumwe murume nezvematambudziko ako zvakanyanya kuoma, iye haasi shamwari, asi anokwikwidza." Uye apo mukadzi atora, iyo archetype yaamai inovakwa, inogona kuvhiringidzwa pazvinhu zvese uye ugoverane nemunhu wese. Kunyangwe paine kutungamira kwemafashoni kunze kwenyika kunze kwenyika - nzvimbo dzepfungwa dzeVarume vanoshanda chete vamiriri vevamiriri vakasimba. Vakadaro, vanababa vane tariro, vatongi. Vanoita kunge muenzaniso wekutevedzera. Asi mumamiriro edu ezvinhu hazvina kushanda.
- Saka varume veRussia vanosiyana kubva kune vatorwa?
- zvakasiyana. Kutanga, isu hatina tsika yekurapa munzvimbo dzepfungwa. Uye chechipiri, varume vedu vanonzi vanonzi vanonzi chinhu chechirume pseudooptimism. Ndokunge, chivimbo chekuti "hapana chichaitika kwandiri, ini handina basa uye handidi rubatsiro." Anotova neicho yakagadzirwa chernobyl (takashanda nechikamu ichi). Kunyangwe ivo vaizoita kunge vanonyara kureururwa pakurwara, nekuti iyo ukuraation yakanga yakasimba. Asi kwete: "Ini handitsigire chero chinhu uye kuramba kurapwa." Takaona zvakajeka kwazvo. Ichi chinhu chechirume pseudooptimism, kunyanya, chikonzero icho munyika medu kune varume vazhinji vakawanda vane hutachiwana.
- Zvakaitika sei kuti nzvimbo yako ndiyo yega yega yeRussia yeRussia?
- kunge yakakura, yakatetepa yakakosha uye yakagashirwa rutsigiro rweNyika - hongu, iyo yega. Asi nyaya yacho yakatanga kutendeuka kubva pane yakafa point. Ndakaverenga mapurojekiti gumi nemashanu kuyambuka nyika yakazvipira kuvanhu. Asi kazhinji ivo vese vanoitirwa basa nemadzibaba: vakasurukirwa, vadiki, vakasiyana. Surgut ndiyo nzvimbo yeZasomrikal. Vologda - "Varume vanobvumira kufadza vane hutsinye", muStrersburg - "Papaskola" ...
Ndine zano - neimwe nzira ese aya nzvimbo inobatanidza uye kuronga musangano, ruzivo rwekuchinjana. Nekuti varume vanofanirwa kuita uye kuvabatanidza muhupenyu hwemhuri, mukurera kwevana. Ipapo nherera dzinozove shoma uye vakadzi vazhinji, uye saka mhuri dzakasimba, hushamwari. Mukuwedzera, pane chakakosha chinhu chekusimbiswa kwehutano hwechirume. Mushure mezvose, vese vamiririri vebonde rakasimba pazera ramakore makumi mana vanotanga dambudziko rechigoma pavanotanga kufunga nezvebasa, mari, kazhinji mota, asi nezvaTom: "Zvandinogara uye zvandichiri Zvisiye izvozvi? "Ipapo varume vanotanga kuyeuka vana vari vaviri, uye mhuri dzakaparadzwa. Asi zvakanonoka. Saka tine chimwe chinhu chekushanda!