Panguva ino ini ndichatora muenzaniso wekurota, asi kuchema kwakazara kwemweya mufaira muFacebook.
"Hupenyu hwepasi pano huve nehafu, ndakawana iye munzvimbo imwechete painenge iri. Ndokunge, pasina peni yemari. Uye zvese nekuti ini ndine imwe yeiyo yakafanana nyaya kubva gore kusvika gore. Zvishoma nezvishoma ini kubva kune yekupedzisira simba, ndinowana iyo peni yekuwedzera uye ndatova nemufaro ruzha maoko angu, ndichimiririra nzira yekumutumira pazuva dema, kamwe kamwe chimwe chinhu chinoda nekukurumidza mari. Uye yangu yekuwedzera penny inonyangarika pasina.
Saka ikozvino. Mushure mezuro nezuro manheru ndakarota kuti mangwana ndichaenda kubhengi nekuisa mari. Nechiroto ichi chakarara pasi pemanzwi asinganzwisisike, rakabudiswa nefiriji. Mangwanani anotyora. Uye kwete kunge freon kubuda kana sensor yakabhururuka, asi chete iyo kirdyk firiji, kamera yakafukidzwa. Zvino, turura huchi, ini ndinoenda kunotenga firiji. Akashanda makore mana chete. New yaive firiji. Nekuda kwevafiriji izvi, handingavi nekuungana kwezuva dema. Ini ndinofa, uye hatitomboviga. "
Kupfuura zvese, zvinozivikanwa, handizvo here? Uye pfungwa yacho haina mufirigers, yekugeza michina kana chero imwe inoungana. Ndakatendeukira kune chokwadi chekuti musikana akanyora iyi posvo akataura kakawanda kuti anoda mari muuchi hweuchi kwezuva dema kana mariro. Mufananidzo unonakidza wekudhirowa. Sokunge kuti acharota nemariro ake kana chero dambudziko remunhu, rinova dema masikati.
Isu tinoratidzwa nefungidziro dzakasiyana-siyana: uye pink, murarinbow, tarisiro, uye isina tariro yekufungidzira nezve njodzi yavo - hurombo, kurwara, kusurukirwa, kusurukirwa. Vazhinji vava kufunga "kujairika": "Chii chichaitika mumakumi mashoma emakore, kana ndikaramba ndichirarama sezvazvino?"
Asi hazvisi zvese zvekufungidzira zvinova hutungamiriri hwekuita. Zvichida munyori weiyi post haazivikanwe kuti kuunganidzwa kwe "pazuva dema", zvinoita kunge zvinoita kuti fungidziro iyi chaiyo. Asi zvakaoma munhu ane hutano zviroto zvekutadza kwake, kukuvara kwemuviri kana mamwe matambudziko anogona kureva kwaari "zuva dema". Kusarara pazuva dema, uye kushandisa mari kune zvinodiwa chaizvo, saka anozvibvisa kure naye nzira ye "zuva dema".
Zvichida kana zviroto zvainge zvichimutswa, zvaizove nyore kune yake mari. Semuenzaniso, iwe unogona kurota uye kumisikidza mari pakufamba mukweguru, hupenyu hwakasimba uye hune hutano, nezve imba yako, nezve kubatsira vazukuru vako mune ramangwana.
Pano, sezvavanotaura, vanonzwa mutsauko!
Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin