Nhasi, zera repakati remukadzi kuronga mwana wekutanga ane makore makumi matatu. Kunyangwe pakutanga kwezana ramakore, pakanga paine mumwe akafanana muchiriyo - sekutonga, nemakore makumi matatu, mukadzi aive atove mwana mumwe chete. Nekudaro, zvinhu zvazvino zvemazuva ano zvinotaura mamiriro avo pasi pazvo vakadzi vanofanirwa kujaira, uye kazhinji maamai vaifanira kudzora pazuva rinotevera. Vakadzi vazhinji, vanofara vakadaro vari muhupamhi hwekushungurudzika, nekuti vazhinji vevasikana vakareba vachitora mifananidzo nevana, vachivanyengedza mumugs uye chikoro. Usakurumidza kugumbuka, maererano nenyanzvi, mukubata paunenge uine zvakanakira zvatakafunga zvekuunganidza muchinyorwa chedu.
Mumwe wako anozova mubereki anotarisira.
Kana baba vechidiki vasingaone zvizere chinzvimbo chavo chitsva, varume vakakura vanokwana basa rababa zvakanyanya zvakanyanya mutoro - kutanga nekuronga kusvikira mwana azviratidza kuchiedza, munhu anopfuura nomukadzi uyu, saka kubatana kwake na Mwana naamai vake vanowedzera kuwanda, ivo madzibaba ava vadiki vasingawanzo kuzvitsaurira mucheche zera renguva yavo yese, makanga musina vese vasina nguva yeku "kubhururuka kure", uye murume anotanga kutsvaga a Chikonzero chekubuda kunze kubva kumba kana kunonoka kubasa, nekuti chengetedzo yevana mutambo wakakomba wemurume. Ehezve, zera haiwanzo kuita sechinhu chisarudzo, zvisinei, huwandu hwezvisinganzwisisike kazhinji kazhinji vaine vabereki vane mutoro, uye kunyanya vanababa vemakumi matatu.
Iwe uchave uchiziva nehana kusvika kune basa raamai
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Uri kuronga nhumbu
Izvo hazviwanzo kusangana nemukadzi uyo, mushure memakore makumi matatu, akave amai nemukana. Kune zera rino, mukadzi anonzwisisa zvaari kuda, rudzii rwemurume anodiwa, kazhinji mukadzi anongori pamakumbo "muchirongwa chezvinhu, zvinoreva kuti anokwanisa kusarudza zvakanyatsofunga kuti anoronga sei Kuzvara kuti ndiani achamuperekedza pane iyi nzira yakaoma uye nzira yekuzviona iye nemwana wake, kana mucheche asingashande nababa vemwana.
Uri psychology yakagadzirira kuberekwa kwemwana
Sezvatakati, mukadzi "ari kukura" nenzira yemagariro ari pedyo ne30, uye panguva imwe chete pane kudzikama pane mweya uye kuvimba kwemukati. Vanaamai vechidiki vanowanzogadzirira kubuda kwemwana nekuda kwehudiki hwemuviri, hwakanga husina nguva yekuwana zvimwe zvirwere, asi mamiriro epfungwa-mukadzi anoenderana nemakore gumi gare gare. Naizvozvo, iwe haugone kusangana nawo amai vekutya kwemazuva makumi matatu - yatogadzirira kutora imwe yakaoma, asi pamwe imwe yemabasa akakosha muhupenyu hwake.