Zvinoitika kuti murume wacho akafanana, asi nekukurukurirana kwepedyo iwe unonzwisisa kuti munhu haana chokwadi nezvake ... asi kwete nguva dzose. Dzimwe nguva mukadzi anokapofumadzwa nemanzwiro, ayo haangokwanisi kupaza mumwe wake wemunhu asingazotsigire akasimba, uye kazhinji nzwisiso kunonoka. Kana iwe wakazvidzidza pachako mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, tinopa kudzidza zvakakwirira zvekuti zvakawanda zvichazivisa zvakawanda nezve kuzvivimba kwewakasarudzwa.
Kwaari, kuratidzwa kwacho kunoshamisa.
Uye isu tiri kutaura nezvechitarisiko chayo. Iwe ungangodaro wakaona kuti vazhinji vevarume vemazuva ano - vagari vemumaguta vanoteverwa nemaitiro, vasingarombo munhoroondo muBarberShop uye kutarisa mugirazi shopu nekupfuura. Zvakanaka, uye mune izvi zviri nyore kwazvo kuverenga murume haana chokwadi chekuti - achazvitevedzera kungoita manic. Kazhinji, vasina chokwadi vanhu vanotenda kuti ndezvavo chete pakuonekwa kwavo, uye saka "kupomba" izere.
Haataure mafungiro
Mota yemurume akadaro "kunyarara, kuti auye." Asi kwete, nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero nzira iyi isingashande. Mune chero kambani yechirume, munhu akadaro haambotora pasi, anogona kungobvumirana nemutungamiriri wekambani, asi kwete zvimwe. Chinhu chisingafadzi zvakanyanya kuti murume akadaro asingakurumidzi kuita nhanho dzekutanga muukama nemukadzi anodiwa, zvinoreva kuti uchafanirwa kugadzira zvirongwa zvese zororo, pamwe nekuzvisundira kune zviito zvine manyawi, uye mune chero munda.
Asina chokwadi haazomboratidza mafungiro ake
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Matambudziko Nekuzvishingisa
Chinhu chacho chinoyerera zvakanaka kubva pane imwe yapfuura. Mumwe murume anoona matambudziko nekuzvishingisa haazombobvunze nzira kubva kune mutorwa, haazofonera nhamba isingazivikanwe uye haizogamuchire kuwedzera kwebasa nekuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete - haatendi nesimba rake. Kubva pane kudaro munhu, unogona kunyatsonzwa mitsara nenzira: "Zvakanaka, hazvisi kwandiri," ini handisi Sasha / Vasya / Peter, handigari kubudirira "uye ndizvozvo nemweya wakadai. "Kuisa" iwe pachako nemifungo yakadaro, munhu pachezvake anokwanisa.
Akavharwa
Semutemo, murume asina chokwadi haatombove neshamwari dzinoverengeka. Ehezve, iwe uchakuudza kuti akatengeswa / hapana nguva yekutaurirana / munhu wese aidzinga, etc. Mukuru, munhu anongoomerwa nekuvimbika, asi kufunga kwakadaro, kunyanya kufungidzira, zvakaoma kushamisika kwazvo . Munhu asina kuchengeteka anongova anochengetedzwa pane uye akashandiswa izvozvi shamwari. Kuora mwoyo muvanhu, munhu asina chokwadi haanzwisisike mhedzisiro kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu, anongovhara.