Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinofunga kuti munhu wese anorega kuita zera nematambudziko, anozivisa nezvehupenyu - kuzviziva, hukama hwemhuri, kutsvagirwa kwehupenyu uye zvichingodaro. Muvana, dambudziko rekushamwaridzana rinopera pa7 ne14-15 makore: Panguva ino iyo Ego iri kunyatsoumbwa, kuzviziva zvakasiyana nenharaunda. Ukasashanda musoro wekuzviongorora uye mamiriro ezvinhu munharaunda, mune ramangwana mwana anogona kuve nematambudziko nekuvaka vashandi uye hukama hwega.
Izvo zvese zvinotanga nemhuri
Sezvo mwana ane chikamu chakakosha chenguva chinoshandisa kumba uye kugara achitaurirana nedenderedzwa rehama, zvakakosha kuti unzwisise kuti vanhu ava pakutanga vanomuita kuzvivimba. Kune maviri maviri asina hutano hukama hwemhando, asi zvese zviri zviviri zvine hukama nekuteerera. Mukutanga, mwana anogara achidzora: Ipa rondedzero huru yemirayiridzo, usabvunze mafungiro ake, usasanganisira vakuru pakukurukurirana, vakatsimbirira kutaurwa zvishoma, vanodzora kutevedzera kwezuva. Mune yechipiri nyaya, vanonyudzwa. Tenga mbatya, gadzirirai chikafu, sangana kuchikoro, ita zvidzidzo pamwe chete, tevera zuva rezuva. Nenzira kana imwe sarudzo inopa mhedzisiro yakanaka - mwana anogona kunge achigara achimirira kurangwa uye anoregedza kuti afunge nezveupenyu hwake, kana kuti hupenyu hwake hwese huchamubatsira - kubva kune vepamoyo kune vashandi veimba. Kupfuura kupfuura mhuri, ari kutsvaga shamwari mune psychotica, uye kwete zvido, akagadzirira kuteerera.
Usatyaire mwana mukona, umupe rusununguko rwekusarudza
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Tora mwana Hobby
Mutambo kukurudzira zvine simba kwekukura kwemuviri, kwepfungwa uye kwepfungwa. Kwete pasina mubvunzo kuti kudzidziswa kunoomeswa. Kuzviongorora kunoumbwa, kugona kuramba kumanikidzwa kwepamoyo, kusunganidzwa kwemhedzisiro uye simba reChida - zvese izvi zvine mhedzisiro yemwana yemwana. Mukutaura nevezera ravo, haazotendeswi kuti avadzidzise, asi asi ichava mutungamiri weboka. Ivo havanyomba kuchikoro, asi varemekedze, nekuda kwekukurumidza muviri simba iro simba rakaenzana kune yakakwirira munharaunda. Mukuwedzera, pamakirasi ari muboka, mwana achazongana nevezera rimwe chete rinozova shamwari huru kwaari.
Kutaura Kazhinji
Kana mwana achivimba nevabereki vake uye anovaudza nezvekutadza kwavo uye kutya, zvinova nyore kwazvo kutsungirira navo. Tsanangura kuti mwana ari kuita zvisarudzo zvinofanirwa kutungamirirwa nemafungiro uye kusasungirwa nemanzwiro, hazvisungirwe kubvumirana pane "munhu wese ari kuita", uye urege kuumba denderedzwa shamwari, uye usamirira kufarira pazviri kubva kune vamwe. Mukuyaruka, tinokupa zano kuti urege kunyora mwana kuti abvunzurwe psycholigist uyo waachakwanisa kukurukura nezvematambudziko ake zvakadzama. Nyanzvi dzinonzwisisa zvinonzwisisika zvimiro zvehudiki hwemuyaruka, saka zvichakwanisa kumubatsira akazvimirira kutsvaga nzira yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma uye kudzidza kudzora manzwiro ake. Pazera ramakore 14-15, vana vatove neiyo yakaumbwa kukosha system, zvinangwa muhupenyu uye anomiririra, umo kutungamira kwavanoda kukudziridza, saka kubvumidzwa kuchangoita kujekesa kune izvi zvirongwa.
Dzidzisa Kuzvimirira
Iko kugona kugadzirira kudya kwemangwanani, kurongedza muchina wekuwachisa, kupinda mukamuri rako - kubva kune ino imba inochinjika mwana kujaira kuti uve mukuru unotanga. Kubva pazera ramakore 6-7, unogona kupa zvidiki zvidiki zvekutenga maswiti uye matoyi, tanga bhangi renhema yemari. Tevere zvinouya zvakananga kushamwaridzana Matanho madiki aya mune iyo huwandu anotamba chinzvimbo chikuru mukuumbwa kwemunhu. Chinhu chikuru pano ndechekubvuma kuti mwana anozokuzivisa nezvenzvimbo yekuwana kwake, kufona kana kunyora SMS nefoni kana kunyora. Kune vanonyanya kutyisa vabereki, "Smart" Clocks anoteedzera nzvimbo yemwana akagadzirwa.
Mwenje mwana wehusiku hunogara kushamwari
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Kana iwe uchida kuti mbudzana ichikura munhu akazara, kubva mukutanga, idzisha kuzviremekedza uye kuverenga nemafungiro ake. Mwana anga akurira mumhuri inofara, mune ramangwana haafambisiri matambudziko nekuzvivimba nekuvaka hukama nevamwe.