Mubereki mumwe nemumwe akasangana nemamiriro ezvinhu apo rwendo rwakajairwa kuchitoro kana zvimwe zviitiko zvinosanganisira kurwa chaiko pakati pake nemwana wake. Mams mazhinji uye baba havana zano rekuita uye maitiro ekumisa screech, inokwezva kutarisa kwevanhu vese vakatenderedza. Nomuzvarirwo, ini ndoda kuenda kumamiriro ese emanipulator diki kuti arege kubata maonero ekupa mhosva dzeanopfuura (ndezvemamiriro ezvinhu anovaka mwana uye anoda kutarisisa kuchema kukuru uye ruzha). Isu takasarudza kubatsira vabereki, kunyanya vadiki, uye nhasi tichaedza kufunga kuita zvekubatsira nemwana, uye mumamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka nehylteria, izvo zvinogona kuitika.
Kushivirira, Kushivirira chete
Regedza zvizere kurwiswa kwehasha yemaba haashande. Nekudaro, ichi hachisi chikonzero chekuti "hutachiona" mamiriro emwana, anoziva kuti hauzove asina hanya. Iva nemwoyo murefu, vana havakwanisi kudzora manzwiro ane simba anovanyungudza nguva nenguva. Mwana haagari achiedza kukusvitsa pamanzwiro, asi anofanira kuziva kuti Amai kana baba vachamubatsira kurarama neiyi mamiriro, uye havazoregi kugutsikana kwavo.
Kwete nguva yekukurukurirana
Isu takajaira kuti mukukurukurirana nevanhu vakuru, chero mhirizhonga dzatinogadzirisa zvakabudirira nekukurukurirana kwenguva refu. Nemwana haazomboshanda zvachose, kunyanya panguva yacho kana hysterics iri paPeak. Panguva ino mazwi ako kwaari anongova chete nemashure ruzha. Mirira mwana kana mwana akadzikira uye achange akagadzirira kuona mazwi ako, zvimwe uchashandisa nguva yekunyengetedza, chete kusimbisa hystia.
Ita shuwa kuti mwana haanetseki chero chinhu chakakomba
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Hapana hutsinye
Chinhu chakaipisisa chaungaita mumamiriro akadaro kuti utange kuratidza hutsinye mukupindura. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti mwana achaona maitiro akadaro sechiitiko chakadai seramangwana, mune ramangwana raunowana hutsinye hwake, izvo zvichaunza matambudziko makuru mukuchinja. Zvibate mumaoko ako uye usapfuure! Panzvimbo iyoyo, kumbundira mucheche uye edza kutungamira / kuitakura munzvimbo yaunogona kuikanda uye hapana anokukuvadza.
Goverana WHIMS uye Hurombo Huduku
Usati watora matanho, ita shuwa kuti mwana haanyatsonetsekana nezve chimwe chinhu chakakomba chekupisa kana kumwe kuratidzwa kusingafadzi. Kazhinji, vana vari kuyedza kuzadzisa zvavo - iwe hauna kutenga chinhu chaunoda kana kuti chisina kutora kune yako yaunofarira kukwezva. Mune ino kesi, zvakakosha kuratidza kutsungirira pakupfava - kana iwe uchienda kumamiriro emwana, ichanzwisisa kuti iwe unogona "kunyengetedza" seizvi.