Sezvaunoziva, mukadzi anoda nzeve, asi munhu haagoni kugara asina hanya nezvinotaurwa nemudiwa wake. Uye kazhinji pakutaurirana, isu hatidzore kuyerera kwemashoko zvachose, dzimwe nguva unogona kurwadzisa munhu zvakanyanya zvekuti kuzorora kuchave kwakasiyana. Nhasi takasarudza kuunza mitsara mishoma inozotiza nemurume chero munhu, iteerere kune zvauri kuzotaura mumwe wako kukosha.
"Ndipe, ndichatarisana neni"
Tese takaverenga zvichemo zvevakadzi munetiweki senge: "Handidi kuita chero chinhu!", "Vasikana, maitiro ekuita kuti akwire kubva pasofa?" Etc. Kana iwe ukazviwana mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana kana murume asingakurumidzi kugadzirisa matambudziko akaonekwa, rangarira, iwe ungamuudza mutsara uyu: "Ndichazviita, njere?" Zvakanga zvakadaro? Kana mhinduro yako iri yakanaka, haufanirwe kushamisika nemafambiro emurume uyo pane imwe pfungwa akafunga nezvake: "Iye ane simba, anoti," Zvinhu zvese zvinogona here, nei ndichifanira kuedza? "
Varume vane hanya kwazvo nemashoko ako
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"Wanga uripi kare?"
Murume ane rudo anogara achigoverana nemukadzi wake zvakaitika muzuva. Nekudaro, kana iwe ukamuka pachikumbaridzo mune yekutanga uye kubvunza mubvunzo: "Ungaita sei kuti unononoka, zuva rekushanda rakapera maawa mashoma apfuura, ndakaverenga." Unoda Sei? Iye murume, achiri panzvimbo yakanaka kwazvo yeMweya, nekukurumidza anokomberedza fart yake, uye kunyangwe akaronga kukufadza iwe nemanheru ano, nemashoko ake ekusavimbika iwe uchauraya chero chishuwo. Hapana chikonzero. Ngwarira zvachose kutonga.
"Zvakanaka, ndakati"
Mutsara wakadai wakakodzera chete kumusikana achiri kuyaruka, mukadzi mukuru anoshanda semitsara, uye nezvengozi yake inodiwa Iwe uri kutepfenyura kune mumwe wako, uchiti: "Nguva inotevera, teererai kuna iye akandiona, pachine njere kubva kwauri." Saka vanonzwa varume.
"Zvakanaka, iwe unotsvoda sei / kumbundira, usazive"
Varume havagone kuratidza manzwiro avo nguva dzose, mushure mekunge zvese, ivo vakashanda kuchengeta zvese kubva paudiki mukati mavo, uye mumwe chete ane ruzivo chete anogona kuchinja maitiro emurume kuda hukama. Kutsoropodza nguva dzose kwekugona kwekugona kwemurume kuratidza manzwiro avo kwauri kunogona kuuraya chishuwo chekuita chimwe chinhu musimboti. Kunyangwe iwe uchifunga kudaro, hazvina kukodzera kuyanana, chero musikana chero musikana angati. Kana chimwe chinhu chisingawani iwe, ratidza uye kudzidzisa, zvimwewo murume anogona kuenda kunodzidza kubva kune mumwe munhu.