Muhudiki, isu taingova nematambudziko kuitira kuti tiwane shamwari - nekuda kweizvi zvaive zvakafanira kuti muswedere mumwe mwana mumugwagwa uye kubvunza kuti: "Uchava shamwari yangu here?" Zvese, mumaminetsi mashoma iwe uri kugadzira mutambo mutsva. Kuva mukuru, isu zvishoma nezvishoma tichichinja denderedzwa ravo rekutaura, mumwe munhu anosiya hupenyu hwedu, vamwe vanhu vanouya kunzvimbo yavo, avo vanogona zvakare zvishoma nezvishoma "kuenda kuzuva". Asi zvekuita, kana iwe watove ne30 uye iwe unonzwisisa kuti hapana vanhu vakakukomberedza iwe waunogona kuvimba naye? Nhasi takasarudza kukurukura dambudziko iri.
Tiri kutsvaga shamwari matanho
Yekutanga, pekutanga, tarisa kumashure uye "tarisa-tarisa." Nenzira yakakura iwe uchaona kuti mumwe munhu mumwe waungataure naye kazhinji kana asina kutumirwa. Kana, kunze kwebasa, iwe hausi kungodaidzira chero chinhu, edza kunyora pane makosi mune zvaunofarira kana munzvimbo yekusimba, kwavakaunganidzwa kubva gore rapfuura - nzvimbo dzakadaro dzinowanzobatsira kubatanidza vanhu vazhinji.
Uye zvino wawana munhu anokufadza, pamusoro pazvo zvinoita sekunge zvakadaro hanya nekutaura nezve zvekuita zvinotevera? Chinhu chikuru, edza kusamanikidza kambani yako - inoda vanhu vashoma. Taura tisu tisiki dzezvinyorwa, zvishoma nezvishoma enda kunhau yezvinhu zvakajairika, zvakaoma kutaura kuti pano kuti murume uya achazunza mauri kana chii chichakufarira. Chero zvazviri, usanyarara, asi usamanikidza pasina chikonzero. Ita nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu.
Iva shamwari yangu yekutanga
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Kana zvese zvanaka, munhu wacho anotanga kutora danho rekutanga uye kukurukura nyaya dzakawanda kana nhau dzichangoburwa dzichava tsika yatojaira iwe. Panguva ino, iwe unogona kupa murume zviitiko zvakabatana, semuenzaniso, kuenda kumafirimu kana mu cafe pavhiki. Hushamwari vatevedzani vane hushamwari.
Edza kugara uchigadzira pfungwa dzakanaka iwe pachako, kanokwana kwenguva yakareba sezvaunongotanga kutaurirana nemunhu uye iye asati ave nenguva yekukuongorora. Chii chinosanganisirwa muchinhu che "zvakanaka?" Kutanga, edza kusanonoka, usakanganise, usashoropodza. Kechipiri, iwe unofarira hupenyu hwomumwe munhu, usataure nguva dzese pamusoro penyu uye nematambudziko ako, nekuti hunhu hwehushamwari hunofanira kutsigirana uye uchida kubatsira munhu wepedyo. Kukanganwa nezvazvo, iwe haufanirwe kushamisika kuti nei munhu akanyangarika pane imwe nzvimbo uye asingade kutaurirana.
Gara uchigara uchinakidza kupinda. Izvo zvakakosha pano kuti urangarira kuti vanhu vanowanzofarira kutaura nevaya vanogona kutaura chimwe chinhu, kudzidzisa kana kune avo vasingaverengeke navo. Izvi zvinogona kuwanikwa, kugara uchikura, uchishamisika chimwe chinhu chitsva. Ive nechokwadi chekuti nekukurumidza kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge usingaverengeki chenjera kuti usvike kwauri. "