Muna Zvita, ichi hachisi chekutanga kurota kwevaverengi nezvehukama nemurume wake. Nyaya yakajairika ndeyekushaikwa kwehusaruro, hukama hwekudyidzana. Zvinoita sekuti iyi ndiyo nzira inosiririsa. Nehurombo, isu hatina kudzidziswa kugadzira hukama hwerudo. Zvikoro zvinodzidzisa zvakasiyana-siyana zvinhu, asi hazvishande kuhupenyu hwemhuri. Uye vabereki vazhinji havazivi kuti zvidzidzo zvehupenyu hwemhuri zvinounzwa kuvana vavo. Somuenzaniso, kuraramira vana, kuparadza bonde. Mwana mumhuri yakadai, pane rimwe divi, haikoshese hukama hwehukama, nekuti anokanganisa mumaziso ake, kune rimwe divi, anonzwa uine mhosva yakadzika yeupenyu hwevabereki. Kungova nemhosva iyi, vanhu vanoramba vafa vabereki vavo uye vachiramba vari muzvikwereti zvisiri kuda.
About mwanakomana uya weHeroine yedu: "Ini ndinorota imba yedu umo isu nemurume wangu nemwana wedu pawiricheya, amai vedu, vashanyi, shamwari. Wese munhu anoda chimwe chinhu: Mwana - kuenda, amai - kutaura, shamwari dzangu dzinodaidzwa kumwe kunhu, mumba munofanirwa kubuda, gadzirira chikafu. Uye murume wangu neni takabvaruka pakati pezvinhu izvi nevanhu. Panguva imwe chete, mune kurota, isu nemurume wangu tinoda kuzvisunungura kubva kuzvinetso zvese uye kuita zvepabonde, kugara pamwe uye kusavhiringidzwa kune chero munhu. Uye ndinomunzwira tsitsi muchiroto kudedera kudaro, munyoro, ndakasimba, sekunge mumazuva emazuva edu ekutanga. Ini ndinosasa nepfungwa yekuti muhupenyu hwangu manzwiro edu akaramba zvakanyanya, pane zviitiko zvakawanda pakati pedu nevamwe vanhu. Uye ini ndisati ndanyatsogara naye uye nerudo runyoro. "
Kurara kunomuenzanisa kuti vangani vasina mavara asina basa iye nemurume wake: Vabereki, vana, shamwari, vaaidzikisi, vane hanya. Ivo havana kusiya nzvimbo mumwe nemumwe. Iko kurota kunoratidza kusuwa uye kusuruvara kweumwe wevakaroorana nezve chokwadi chekuti havazowanzowanikwa kune mumwe nemumwe.
Kunyangwe kana vakakwidza mhirizhonga yemhuri, saka, kazhinji, kutungamira kwebasa kwaizokwanisa kudzoreredza kusiyana kwekutadza. Kurapa kwemhuri kunopokana kuti kubatana kwedu nemudyikani kuri kwekutanga uye nekutanga, uyezve nevana nevabereki. Uku kubatana uku, kana kuri kusimba uye kusingawanikwe, kunoita kuti vade vamwe nhengo dzemhuri uye nekuvachengeta. Mutsika yedu, ino inyaya ine nharo, nekuti vana vaigara vari munzvimbo yekutanga kumhuri zhinji. Uye gamba redu richafanira kufunga nezve kufambidzana nemurume wake. Paanogara kwaari pane zvakasara, zvisina kunaka nekumuita kuti atarise. Haasi iye chete anotambura kubva pane izvi, asi iye, uye kubatana kwavo nemumwe.
Naizvozvo, hukama hachiwanzo kugara, ivo vanogara vachiiswa uye vachenjerere nemumwe wako. Hupenyu huri kuchinja, mhuri iyi inokura, hukama huchachinjawo iyo yekare shungu, unyoro uye rudo zvichapfuura. Naizvozvo, zvakafanira kuti uzvigadzirire nehana uye zuva nezuva. Uye izvi zvakafanira kushanda.
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin