Wakambomirira here gore idzva kuti "chena tambo" yakatanga muhupenyu? Kana kanokwana tambo yemumwe ruvara kunze kwetema? Iwe waive iwe kuti iwe uine hukama hwechokwadi hunoita chishuwo panguva yehondo yeKaras?
Iwe unoverenga horoscopes yegore idzva uye unozivisa mavari kuti gore rinouya rinovimbisa yako zodiac chiratidzo?
Mumwe nemumwe wedu mumwe wedu nenzira imwe kana imwe yekufungidzira kuti nekutanga kweGore Nyowani, chimwe chinhu chitsva muhupenyu hwedu chinotanga. Imwe mhando yekuchinja kwekuchinja ichaitika kana nhanho yakaoma ichaguma muhupenyu. Nechimwe chikonzero, tiri kuita izvi kwegore idzva, kunyangwe zvingave zvine musoro kuita pazuva rako rekuzvarwa. Asi pakambani yemunhu wese kutenderedza kuti zvive kuda kuti zvese zvichachinja pachako kuti zvive zvakanaka neimwe nzira zvakanyanya kunakidzwa, uye kwete kunyara. Zvese zvekuita zvimwe chete zvakatenderedza.
Saka maererano neiyo tsika midzi, tinobata kambani, tinobata, zvipo zvakatenderedza, vakadzi vari kupfeka pasi (mushure mezvose, kuti ungasangana negore idzva, saka iwe uchachiita iyo). Uye ivo vakamirira mashiripiti anokosha, ayo acha "basa" pagore reGore Nyowani.
Zvino ngatifungei kuti nei Pragmatic, vanhu vakuru, vane ruzivo, vane ruzivo uye vakatove vakarongeka vanogadzirirwa gore idzva neyekunyora nemashiripiti uye tsika?
Kutanga, mumwe nemumwe wedu Kusimudzira kunodiwa . Masero emuviri wedu anogadziridzwa zvizere kwemakore manomwe, asi iyo yekuvandudza mweya yakawanda zvakanyanya. Isu tinofanirwa kupedzisa mhedzisiro yeiyo yekugara nhanho, yakazunza kushushikana kwakaunganidzwa, kupera simba uye kutanga nepepa nyowani. New Year yeiyi masutu akakwana. Sezvo pasina anoziva zvatakamirira mune ramangwana, gore idzva rinowanikwa nemisangano dzakasiyana-siyana, "kukoka" kutsva kuhupenyu hwedu. Tsika idzi dzinongova dzisingaverengeki zvingorizi zvechishuvo chehondo yehondo yehondo, kuchekwa kweimba, sedimire rekujekesa nzvimbo kubva pane zvese zvinopesana uye zvisina basa. Nekuti hapana tsaona, tinoedza, kana zvichiita, dzosera zvikwereti, upedze nyaya yacho, iyo yakamhara gore rese. Kwatiri, uyu chiratidzo chisunungurwe chitsva.
Wechipiri, zvinoshandawo zvinonzi "Mashiripiti Kufunga" - Imwe yenzira dzekudzivirirwa kwepfungwa uye kuponeswa mumamiriro ezvinhu anoshungurudza. Iyi ndiyo nzira yevana iri nyore: kufungidzira kuti zvese zvichagadziriswa pachako kuti mumwe munhu anochengetedza kana kubatsira. Kufunga kwemashiripiti kunogoverwa uye kwakanyanyisa mukuda. Iyi ndiyo mienzaniso yake yemhando yepamusoro: "Pane imwe nguva ini ndichangosangana nehafu yangu yechipiri uye ndinokanganwa rudo rwechipiri." Rimwe zuva ndinopfuma ... ", kubva pane yekutanga yaJanuary ini ndichakanda kunwa / kuputa, ndangorasikirwa nehuremu." Kana vachipinda mugore idzva, isu tinoshandisa kufunga kwemashiripiti, nekuti zvinonyanya kushandiswa munzvimbo uye mibvunzo yatisingade kusarudza, kana mhinduro dzakapfuura dzairwadza.
Iyo New Year kazhinji kazhinji izororo remhuri uye denderedzwa reshamwari. Pangosvika iyo kambani yakatendeseka ichangopera pasi petafura, zvido zvinodzidzisa zvehutano, kubudirira uye mufaro zvinonzwika. Sezvineiwo mune imwe neimwe nyaya, "Mufaro" zvinoita kunge, hapana munhu mune ruzivo arikuenda. Kana iye anoda kana avo vanoda. Wadii kuda chimwe chinhu chakatsanangurwa? Sezvakaita Mikhail zadornov akati, "Kana suwo raputswa muchimbuzi, wadiiachida kuigadzirisa?" (Quote, yechokwadi, kwete chaiyo). Vana vaishuva, nenzira, Santa Claus anoita. Asi ivo vanokwanisa kuumba. Ivo havabvunze imwe mhando yembira, asi uchibvunza imwe yakatarwa. Naizvozvo, vabereki vavo, vachirega maziso, auye pamusoro pevaya veKisimusi yeKisimusi mukutsvaga zvipo zvakagadzirirwa.
Vakuru, vamwe vana vazhinji vanotenda mune chishamiso chemweya, icho chichazadzikiswa pachako, zvinongoita kushuvira nemazvo.
Nekuti kana mugore idzva rawakagadzirira ku "kutengesa kurota", handizoramba kubva Zvinoverengerwa Zvinokurudzirwa.
1) Ngazvirege kuitisa uye zvinoshandiswa nemabasa ese epfungwa, achiri kushanda. Kurota zvakananga: Chii chinoitika kana. Panzvimbo pe "Ndiri kuda muhoro zvakanyanya", ita chokwadi kuti izvi zvakananga: "naMarch 2016, muhoro wangu wakawandisa." Iwe haufanire kuziva kuti zvinoitika sei, zvakakosha kuti ugone kuguma.
2) Pamusoro pe "zvinodiwa" uye "chinofanira" chinofanira ", sarudza kuti uye chii chaunozvikurudzira iwe kwaunoenda kwauri kuenda, ungazorora sei. Uku kurudziro inonyanya kuita kuti iite anodzivirira anoshanda.
3) Isa ruoko pamoyo, haugone kuzadzisa zvishuwo zvausingakwanise kusatendera. Semuenzaniso, kunyangwe kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchirega kuputa, asi iwe pachako haudi kuenda, ipapo iwe ucharamba uchipfungaira. Kunyangwe iwe uine zvese zvakanaka uye "kurudyi" waida.
4) Ndokumbira utarise kana gore rimwe nerimwe zvido zvacho zvisina kufanira pasina kuurayiwa, zvinoreva kuti iwe unosindimara sabheti imwe chiyero chehupenyu hwako. Kunyangwe kana mangwanani kusvika manheru, tsvaga satellite yehupenyu kana nzira dzekuwana, uye dziripo uye zvino zviripo, kuti rutsoka rwako rwuri pamusoro pehupombwe. Zvichida zvakakodzera kuwedzera kukurudzira kwako kana nzira dzawakaedza kutsungirira kusvikira zvino.
5) Izvi zvinobva kune reverengi ye "kaputeni zviri pachena". Zvakanaka, kana iwe uchishuva, ipapo uchafanira kuita. Saka enderera kuurayiwa kwezvido zvako. Kubva muna Ndira 1, hongu.
Rombo rakanaka uye nekuuya!
Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin