Iyo psychology iri munyika yemazuva ano inorangarirwa kuwedzera, nekuti psychology isesa sainzi inoitirwa kudzidza nekuporesa mweya yevanhu. Uye mweya mune vazhinji vedu zvinorwadza. Sezvazviri, munhu wese angafara uye agutsikane nehupenyu hwavo ... asi, mwaka, vanhu vanofara zvakakwana munyika hazvina zvakawanda.
Hatizive kunakidzwa kwezuva nezuva kwehupenyu hwedu, tinosangana nematambudziko mazuva ese. Uye isu tinogara tichida kugovera zvatinoona nemumwe munhu, kunyangwe iri shamwari, vabereki, vashandirwi vanoshanda. Isu tinotsvaga vanhu vanotsvaga vanhu vanovimba navo vachanzwira tsitsi kana kupa zano rakamira. Saka wadii kuwana zano kubva kune munhu ari kupfuura shamwari yako yepamoyo, anonzwisisa zvekunyengera zvehukama hwevanhu uye hukama? Zvakanaka, isu hatifarire rubatsiro kushamwari kana amai, kana tine mota yeTurkey mumota kana kubata moyo ?! Isu tinoenda kune nyanzvi munharaunda ino.
Pachine mafungiro ekuti rubatsiro rwepfungwa runodiwa kune mumwe munhu anorwara "mumusoro wose." Muchokwadi, vanhu vane hutano vane hutano vanoda rubatsiro rwepfungwa. Vanorwara vanoda mamwe nyanzvi. Kana munhu ari mukukwevera kushushikana uye asingaone kubuda kubva mumamiriro azvino, anoda mumwe munhu kuti agadzirise dambudziko, akamisa kubuda uye akapa tariro yeramangwana rakajeka. Uye iri psychologist panguva yakaoma yehupenyu inogona kubatsira kukunda kushushikana, kupona pakuderera kwemanzwiro kana dambudziko repakati, romutsa hukama hwemhuri.
Ehe, chiremba wepfungwa haazokupa mhinduro dzikare uye dzisingakuitire sarudzo. Achakwanisa kupa rutsigiro rwemanzwiro, akatambanudzira mamiriro ako ezvinhu pamasherufu. Uye nekuona mamiriro ari pasi pekona imwe, unogona kuita mhedzisiro yakakodzera nerubatsiro rwepfungwa uye ona mhinduro yematambudziko ako.
CSYCHOLOGIST ichabatsira kuona mamiriro ezvinhu nenzira dzakasiyana uye kushandura mamiriro ezvinhu akajairwa ezviito zvako.
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Iwe unogona kubata psychologist paine chero mamiriro ezvinhu uye dambudziko "rinorwadza" uye rinodzivirira hupenyu. Nyanzvi ichakwanisa kubatsira kuunza kurongeka mumusoro, kuporesa maronda emweya uye kwemwoyo. Uye zvakanyanya kukosha, iwe uchave uine a algorithm iyo uye maitiro ekuita kuti ubude mumamiriro ekushandisa uye auya mumhedzisiro yaunoda. Mumwe nemumwe wedu akapihwa kodzero uye mukana wekuzvichinja iwe nehupenyu hwavo. Asi ibasa rinorema uye rinorwadza rinoda basa nezuva zuva nezuva, chishuwo chikuru uye kutsungirira. Nekuti nzira yekufunga uye tsika yakadzika midzi yemaitiro yakaoma kuchinja, asi pamwe.
Uye izvi ndeimwe yemabasa esimba re psychologist - kukutsigira iwe nekutarisirwa kwako uye kuvapo mune itsva kuedza. Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti unzwisise chinhu chakakosha: Iwe uchave nemakore pane izvo zvinogona kugadziriswa kwemasikati akati wandei kubva kune nyanzvi. Ini ndinofungidzira kuti mumwe munhu ane aya mamwe makore ehupenyu. Ehezve, munhu wese anofunga nezvake, zvinoda kuzvishandira iye kana kwete, kuzviita iwe pachako kana nerubatsiro rwepfungwa. Asi zvirinani kuti agadzirise rimwe dambudziko nerubatsiro rwepfungwa kuti vanzwisise kuti chii musiyano uripo pakati pevasikana uye basa rehunyanzvi. Kana iwe uine zvino muhupenyu hwomamiriro ezvinhu zvinoita sekusingaremekedzwe, kana kuti unogara mune imwe mamiriro, kusaziva nzira yekuchinja hupenyu hwako, edza kuchinja ichi chiitiko chine chiremba wepfungwa.
Ini zvakare ndakasangana muhupenyu hwangu nehuwandu hukuru hwezvinetso. Yakanga yakaremara mukati kuti kunyangwe pakanga pasina simba remisodzi. Inonzwa kunge ndiri chitunha. Uye kunze kwakataridzika kuva vakuru uye vakatove simba.
Kutenda ku psychology, ndakabatsira kubuda mugomba, ndo pachangu ndazvibuditsa. Zvino zvapera, ndakaona vanhu vazhinji kwakakomberedza, mamiriro ezvinhu akafanana neangu. Ndakabvunza makore mazhinji, ndakashanda semuridzi wepfungwa seaneta. Asi kana ndakangoziva kuti zvaive zvakafanira kutsvaga maitiro anogona kubatsira kamwechete nhamba yakakura yevanhu. Nekuti ndega hahusi huwandu hwakakura hwevanhu vandinogona kubatsira. Uye ichangobva kuwanikwa nzira iyo inokwanisa kupomba chero chiyero chehupenyu. Mukuita kwekufunda, iwe unotanga kunzwisisa kuti pfungwa dzedu dzinova dzechokwadi. Kupurudzira dzimwe pfungwa mumusoro, isu tinowana dzimwe nyaya. Uye nyika idzi dzinokwezva zvimwe zviitiko. Isu tinochinja kufunga, kuchinja hupenyu.