MuUnited States, maererano nemhedzisiro yekudzidza kweWilliams Institute, anenge 4,5% yevagari vari muongorori veruzhinji vakaudzwa kuti nharaunda yeLGBT yeLGBT Nharaunda. Kunze kwacho kwakatangira kubvira kare-soro-yebonde rudo rwechimiro uye ndokubvumira vakaroorana vakadaro kuti varoore, vanotora vana uye vanogaramowo nevamwe vanhu. Isu tinotsanangura kuti nei zvakakosha kugamuchira munhu nevamwe kubva kune ako anotarisa uye kuti ungazviita sei.
MuUS nedzimwe nyika ndiyo yakajairwa
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Unconventional kutarisisa - kwete vice
Iwe haufanire kuona kushuvira kwemwana kune vanhu vebonde ravo sechirwere kana mhedzisiro yedzidzo yakaipa. Ichi chingori chimiro chake, chaizvo chakafanana nemafuta pamhino kana imwe ruvara rwemaziso. Icho chete ichocho chinotanga kuradzika matiri, uye kwete iwo omnipotes yemhuri, iyo mwero wedzidzo, nharaunda, nezvimwe zvacho zvakavharirwa. Asi kusashivirira kwenharaunda yeLGBT ndeyenyika inosarudzika yemagariro, iyo isiriyo mune chikuru chikamu: Hapana munhu akakodzera kutonga avo vakavakomberedza kuti vadi vavanofarira.
Batsira mwana kuti avhure
Sezvo vakarera munharaunda yematare ine pfungwa yakatorwa yekuiswa kwemhuri, munhu ane unconventional kutarisisa kunogara kuchinetsa kutaura chokwadi. Kunyanya padyo nezvaanoda uye anoda chaizvo. Dai iwe wanga uri pedyo nemwana zvisati zvaitika, hazvina kuoma kunzwisisa mafungiro ake uye nekunyorovera kutaura nezvazvo, kutsanangura kuti vanomuda chero munhu uye asina chaainyara. Iwe haufanire kurumbidza kuti iwe uchave usingafadze kuchokwadi uye iwe ungada "kurapa" iyo. Ingonzwisisa kuti mwana wako ari kuenderera mberi newe, asi kwete iwe. Mupe iye mukana wekurarama hupenyu hwakazvimirira hunofadza.
Rudo rwakanaka mune chero kuratidzwa
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Usaende kunotuka
Ehe, iwe ungangodaro wakaoma kutora chokwadi ichi, kunyanya kana usati wauya neakadai zvinhu zvisati zvaitika. Nekudaro, iva nechokwadi chekuzvichengeta mumaoko ako uye usarega kuda kwemanzwiro, kuteverwa nekuzvidemba kuberekwa kwemwana kana kutyisidzira kuenda naye kuna chiremba. Tsanangura kuti hausi nyore izvozvi, asi iwe uchaedza kurarama nemitsipa uye uzvibatei pachako. Rega andiudze kuti akasvika sei pakuziva kweunhu hwake uye kunyangwe aive neruzivo rwehukama nevanhu vebonde rake.
Chenjera nezvevamwe
Kunyangwe zvakava nyore kwauri mushure mekutaura, usakurumidza kutaura nezvazvo kumativi ese. Munyika medu, zvinosuruvarisa, kwete dzidzo yakakwana munzvimbo ino. Vanhu vazhinji vakatsanangurwa zvisina kunaka munharaunda yeLGBT uye havadi kuona vamiririri vake vari pedyo navo, vasina zvikonzero zvine musoro zveichi. "Surchase ivhu" usati wataura nezve zvaunoda zvemwana kuhama dzake neshamwari dzako. Nekufamba kwenguva, vamwe vanozvikomberedza uye nevaya vanongoda mwana wako nemwoyo wose vanoramba vari pedyo uye vanokoshesa nekukurukurirana naye - zvinofanirwa kunge zviri.