Mhuri inzira, uye, se chero hurongwa, inoteerera mimwe mitemo. Iyi mitemo haioneke uye isina musoro, asi kutyorwa kwavo kunoonekwa kwazvo. Izvi zvinogunun'una maitiro ekutyorwa kubva kuakajairwa, uye huwandu hwepamusoro hwe voltage / alarm mumhuri, uye somatization, somatization, kureva zvirwere zvepfungwa, kusanganisira vana ).
Imwe yemitemo yekuvapo uye kushanda kwehurongwa ndiwo mutemo wehutongi, mhuri ine nhengo dzeGove dzeGous, kune main, uye kune vadiki.
Mhuri dzakakamurwa mu:
-Nyukireya (a) vaviri vakaroora vasina vana; B) Amai, baba, vana / vana)
— Yakawedzera (Vabereki vemhuri venyukireya + vevakaroora uye dzimwe nguva kusanganisira vabereki vevabereki).
Semutemo, vana vanowanzoshamiswa mumhuri yakawedzera, kunyange zvikaitika mune nyukireya.
Sei? Nekuti mumhuri yakawedzerwa, imwe yakagadzirirwa hierarchy chikamu. Ngatiedzei kufunga.
Semumutemo chero upi zvake, pane zvakawanda zvinopihwa / zvinyorwa mumutemo wehutongi.
1.1. Mhuri yenyukireya inonyanya kuwedzeredzwa, kunze ndeyekuti, kana mhuri yechidiki iine vabereki.
1.2. Vabereki vakanaka kupfuura vana (!)
1.3. Kune mwana, makuru makuru ari amai nababa.
Kana mwana achibata amai naambuya (kazhinji), izvi zvinofanirwa nekuti vanhu vakuru havana kusarudza kuti mukuru, vana vasingazive vanoverenga ruzivo urwu vobva vaishandisa nekuda kwezvinangwa zvavo.
Kwemwana, iyo huru - amai nababa, mukusavapo kwavo, vabereki vanopa masimba aya kune mumwe munhu (Sekuru / sekuru, mukoti, iwe unokurudzirwa kutaura izvi nemwana. Muenzaniso: "Amai vanoudza Mwanakomana wake kuti:" Ndichasendamira kubasa, iwe uchave neambuya. Kumibvunzo yese unomubata. Mukusavapo kwangu ari kumba. " Tevere, pane parari, zvingave zvakanaka kupedzisa maitiro, uye zvakare nemwana. Amai vazukuru: "Amai, ndinokutendai nekutsiva ini kuti ndakagara nemwanakomana wangu."
Saka, mwana haazovhiringidzwe mumusoro, uye pachave nemikana mishoma yekunyengera.
Dzosera mvumo yemwana haina kumbononoka! Usatya kumuudza kuti vakuru vakanyanya kukosha uye vakuru. Vana vanoda maitiro akajeka ekurara uye nhandaro, maitiro ekutenderera uye kudya.
Mukukura kwayo, nguva dzose dzichawedzera kuwedzera simba ravo nenzvimbo, zvikasadaro zvinetso munharaunda hazvigoneke, nekuti vana vanotora modhi mumhuri kugadzirisa kwavo mabasa uye munharaunda. Sezvo aimboita kunyengera mumhuri, mwana haazombozviita mubindu, uye kuchikoro, uye muhupenyu hwevakuru.