Dzimwe nguva muchiroto tinoona munhu asina kubatana naye. Haasi hama, kwete shamwari, kunyangwe munhu akakosha uye akakosha.
Muzviroto mune mifananidzo yekare, paudiki, pwere.
Munguva dzemweya dzakazara zvehupenyu dzinogona kushamwaridzana navo panguva imwe chete, asi, anopfuura makore, hazvireve chero chinhu kwatiri.
Nekudaro, kurara nerubatsiro rwemifananidzo iyi kunotitungamira kusvika pakadzika madzvuku ekunzwisisa uye kuitika muhupenyu hwezviitiko.
Ngatitendeukirei kurara mumwe wevaverengi:
"Ndakangoerekana ndarota rudo rwangu rwekutanga, murume. Akauya kwatiri (kwandiri nemhuri yangu) kumba kuneta. Right inteans, shangu dzakawira pamubhedha. Ndakamira mukuvhiringidzika. Saka urombo, ndinoda kubatsira ... ndinofunga kuti: "Murume anofanira kuita sei kana akangoerekana amuona mufananidzo wakadai?". Hapana chakafanofanidza muchiroto chemunhu akakanganikwa akadaro. Takasangana pandakanga ndichiri chikoro, ndakapedzisira kuona makore masere apfuura. Sangano rekutanga nemufananidzo wemurume uyu - pwere, rudo, kusava nemhosva. "
Pakutanga kutarisa - kurara kuri nyore uye kunonzwisisika. Kune gamba, pane rudo rwake rwekare, uye chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka naye.
Asi ngatiedzei kudzikisira kurara nenzira iyi: pachinzvimbo chekuratidzwa kune mumwe murume, isu tichaisa iwo masangano pamusoro peiyo DvyDitsa yakataurwa.
Ndarota rudo rwangu rwekutanga - pwere, kusava nemhosva. Akauya kwandiri nemhuri yangu kuimba. Ndaneta ndakawira pamubhedha. Ndakamira mukuvhiringidzika. Ndine urombo wechidiki, rudo uye kusava nemhosva. Ndiri kuda kumubatsira. Ini ndinofunga: Iye murume achati kudii kana achiiona? "
Saka iwo mufananidzo wekurara unova wakasiyana zvachose. Sokunge kuti anoona mwana wake mudiki, asina musoro, murudo uye anovimba nemweya wekutenderera haasi mune yakanakisa chimiro. Akaneta, aneta. Uye hazvina kukodzera kuratidza murume wangu.
Rutivi urwu runzwira tsitsi, zvakafanira kubatsira. Uye anoda kuzorora.
Zvimwe gamba redu rinofanira kuteerera nguva yakareba sei yairota, yakavezwa saizvozvo? Kazhinji zvinozvibvumira sei kuti vave vasina ruzivo, vasina ruzivo, vanonzwisisika?
Kazhinji vanhu vanodzora kwavo zvinonzwisisika uye vadiki kuratidzwa vanotaridzika kuneta. Zvichida Heroine yedu yaive nenguva yekusunungura masapu eSamokontrol.
Ini ndinokurudzira iwe, vanodiwa vaverengi, vanoedzawo kuedzawo nehope dzako. Izvo zvinodiwa kuti uite seizvi:
1. Nyora kurota kwako.
Nyora mifananidzo kubva pakurara uye kusonganirana nenzira iyi. Chinhu chakanyanya kunaka ndechekunyora chinhu chekutanga chinouya mupfungwa, pasina conenship.
3. Nyora zvakare kurara kwako, kuisa kushamwaridzana kwakabatana navo pane vanhu.
4. Kana iwe uine insignia uye kuvhura mushure mekuita uku - vanyore pasi.
Ndinokukoka kuti ugovane izvi zvakawanikwa pamapeji eColumn.
Nyora tsamba kune tsamba [email protected] - zvese zvinokurukura.
Ndokuwona manje manje!
Maria Zemskova, Psychologist, Mhuri Inarapist uye Zvinotungamira Zvekukura Kwemunhu Kukura kweKutengesa Center Milika Hazin.