Maererano nehuwandu, kurambana ndechimwe chemamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa ehupenyu. Vanhu vanopfuura nechokurambana zviso zvishoma nezvishoma nerudzi urwu rwekutambudzika sekupenda, kupatsanurana kwekunyepedzera, kusimbisa uye kuzviona kwehukama, kupatsanurwa kwezvinhu uye - uyo anoparadzanisa mabasa evabereki. Uye zvakare, iyo divergent para inopfuura kuburikidza nekutongwa kwepedyo nevanoshanda navo. Nhanho yakaoma yekuparadzanisa uye kusunungurwa inofanira kupedzwa zvachose mumakore matatu.
Tsamba iri pazasi yakatumira mukadzi achipfuura nekurambana mushure mewanano refu. Zvakakosha kutaura kuti kurambana kunorwadza, nekutyisidzira kwake kero uye kupomerwa mhosva yekuti njodzi yese yemhuri yakakodzera kwaari. Uyu vaviri ane mwana mukuru akararama zvakasiyana kwemakore mazhinji.
Saka: "Shamwari yakandipa envelopu, kwete kutaura kuti iye ndiani. Ndakaona kuti zvakabva kumurume aimbova murume, sezvakaita muhamvuropu kwaive nemifananidzo yangu nemwana wangu. Iyo foto stack yaive yakakura, asi mafoto angu anongova 5, uye mamwe maficha ari gadziriro yakaomeswa. "Ndinomuka zvinotyisa."
Zvirokwazvo, kurara kunomiririra paranoia uye kutya kwemurume waDhaisy uye nehasha dzake kwakaratidzwa kwaari nemwana wavo. Makore mazhinji evakadzi achiri mupenyu achityisidzirwa nehupenyu kana kuvimbika, ipapo kutya kwakadaro kwakazara kwakazara. Kurara kunobatsira snovicice kuburitswa kubva mukunetseka uye kusagadzikana maari akararama kwemakore mazhinji. Uye mune izvi, kurara kunoonekwa kududzira.
Asi zvakadaro, ini handina kuita netsaona takatungamira kumuenzaniso wehope idzi, sezvaungafungisisa pamusoro wenyaya yekurambana uye kupatsanurwa. Co Creak, asi iyo tsika yekuisa inoshandura hukama nenyaya yekurambana. About 100-50 makore apfuura raive kunyadziswa kukuru kupfuura izvozvi. Vaviri vacho pavakapera, chii chavakaita vasina chekuita, iko kurambana mukana wekuzvisunungura pachavo kubva kuchibvumirano chakakura.
Nekudaro, pane tsika yekurayira waunodzidza naye kuti: "Iye akadaro uye kuti, kundirova, haana kushandisa mari, haana kushanda." Kuteerera kune vaimbove vekare, iwe unogona chete kubata musoro uye kumhanya kuti unonzwisise mumwe munhu anotaura nezvazvo. Nekudaro, usandirega ndichitsausa. Nezvinotyisa zvese izvi, vaviri vacho vaigara pamwe kwenguva, dzimwe nguva ndezve makore mazhinji. Uye neimwe nzira iyo makwai machena mazhinji, padivi payokugara murume ane ngozi, akakwanisa kucheka uye kutsiva. Ukama hwemhuri hunoratidza kuti kutamba kwacho kwakapetwa pakati pevakabatana navo. Iye murume anorova, asi kudivi remukadzi, rutsigiro rwakazara uye nerudo rwevana, vakaroora vanokurangwa neisimbonzi uye kuramba vadiwa. Kana kuti mukadzi anoshanduka, asi anobatanidza nekuda kwekunzwa mhosva nehutano hwakakosha uye kusabvumirana kumurume wake.
Naizvozvo, ndinofunga kuti ndisatarisa pazvinhu zvinotyisa murume waTirani, asi pakuti mumhuri yake yese yemhuri, uye pakubata kwake mukadzi wake, kuratidzwa nemaitiro aya uye nekuzvidzora zvakashata uye zvakashata zvinoratidzwa .
Usazviisa mukukanganisa: Madzimai akadhakwa kana zvinodhaka zvinodhaka zvinoda murume, uye varume vanoda mukadzi asiri iwo kana mukadzi anovimba naye.
Uyezve, kana iwe ukaita kurwisa uye kushora mumwe wako, bvunza mibvunzo: Nei uchiida mune ino huwandu; Unonyatsoita sei iwe unogadzira zviitiko zvechisimba kana kutyisidzira muukama hwako?
Uye zvezviroto zvedu, izvi mibvunzo inobatsira. Izvi zvichaita kuti kurambana kurambana kwakanyanya uye hukama neaimbove hwakanyanya uye hwakacheneswa.
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Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin