Zvidzidzo zvichangobva kuitika zvinodzikisa stereotype iyo varume vane hunyanzvi zvakanyanya mukuvimbika kupfuura zvepabonde zvakanaka. Saka, vakadzi ina ka4 kakawanda kakawanda kudanwa sechikonzero chekutyorwa kwehukama hwenhamo muupenyu hwepabonde kubva kudivi remurume aimbova murume, pane matambudziko akadaro pane yavo1. Zvichakadaro, varume havawanzo kuziva zvavasingakwanisi mune zvepedyo nyaya uye vanogutsikana nehunyanzvi hwavo. Mukadzi haasati achibayira sei nemufaro wake kana hukama nemurume wake waaida?
"Zvine kusuwa, murume haazoshusiki uye kuita" kuwedzera "kuedza kukuru" kana akajaira makore kuti aite rudo pane chimwe chiitiko, uye zvese zvinomumuda. Haazonzwisisi kuti nei chimwe chinhu kuchinja, kana zvese zvakanaka. Kana murume akangoerekana afunga kuti kuchinja mairi kunodiwa pachako, kuchaita kuti vanetsekana naye, uye hazvifanirwe kuenderana nemifungo yebonde. Uchenjeri hwevakadzi ndechekuti murume haafanire kunzwisisa kuti ari kuedza kuchinja kana kuidzidzisa, "anodaro bonde coachr Ekaterina Lyubimov.
Nyanzvi inopa zano kuti vakadzi varatidze moyo murefu, kuti varege kuita tarisiro yakakura yemumwe munhu, iyo inogona kutungamira kugumbura, uye inonyanya kukosha - isingatore shanduko dzakapinza uye zvese zvitsva kuti zviunze zvishoma nezvishoma. Kudya kugumbura mumwe wako, vakadzi havawanzo kuratidza zvavari chaizvo, uye zvisingafungiri, saka murume anogona kunge asina kufungidzira paanenge achiita kuti mudiwa wake, uye paachinje maitiro. Asi ichi ndicho chinhu chakakosha kwazvo! Naizvozvo, basa rekutanga remukadzi ndewekupa murume waanonyatso kufadza, asingabati kudada kwake.
"Tinowanzo kangani, vakadzi, vanoedza kuvhara maziso ako kune chokwadi chekuti chatinofarira hachina kunaka pamubhedha." Kupfuura zvese, haina kuparadzaniswa nekuda kwe "zvinhu zvidiki" zvakadai uye kuti arege kuenda kuwawa, kana uchigona kudzidzisa bonde, "mamiriro eAkaterina Lyubimov Maonero.
Ekaterina Lyubimova, Kutungamira Russian Bonde Coach