Kana iwe ukaenda kune chero bhuku remabhuku, unogona kunyura mumabhuku ane mazita akafanana: "Vakadzi nevarume havana misiyano isingadzivisiki." Chisikwa chedu chakasiyana, asi zviroto zvedu zvichiri kupa kuti varume nevakadzi vakafanana newe unogona kuwana iyo nzira inoenda kumweya wemurume kuburikidza nezviroto zvake ari kupfurwa.
Kurara - senzira inosiyana-siyana yesyche yedu yekutsungirira nekukuvara, matambudziko nematambudziko, anozivisa pepa rose rezviroto zvezviroto.
Pamberi pedu, kurota, uyo akaudza mutambi weimwe yemapoka epfungwa. Isu takanga tine rombo rakanaka kuti haana kumugovana neuroto hwake chete, asiwo maitiro aakamuita nerubatsiro rweimwe nhengo dzeboka nemurazvo.
Saka ikozvino tinogona kuverenga uyu muenzaniso wekushanda nezviroto zveumwe murume wechidiki.
Rarai:
"Tiri kufamba neshamwari yangu, uye anotungamira paraki pane imwe leash." Pakarepo iyo Bartridge yakadonha kubva pamusha ndokumhanyisa munzira huru, yatafamba nayo. Shamwari yangu yakamhanyira kumubata, uye panguva iyoyo mota yake yakakura yakapfurwa pasi ndokudhonza tsoka yake. Anobva pakurwadziwa, uye ndinopopota mukuora mwoyo nekutya uye kumuka. "
Boka iri rakabvunza kurota, sezvaanogona kurota izvi kurota kwake.
Nerubatsiro rwehunyanzvi hunonakidza hwekutsanangura hope, uko vese vatori vechikamu muboka rakatanga kutamba hope, zviroto zvinorangarira nguva inorwadza kubva paudiki hwake, uyo anga asingamuchanetsi kwemakore mazhinji.
Akataura kuti paaive nemakore matanhatu okuberekwa, aive nembwa mumhuri yake. Imbwa iyi yaive mhuri yavanofarira, yakatamba naye uye yakafamba nemufaro. Nekudaro, imbwa yakanga isingatereri uye kazhinji yakawira pasi kubva pakutyaira katsi, dzimwe imbwa kana kuti dzive nemota inopfuura.
Mune rimwe remazuva ano, imbwa, iyo mhuri yese yaifamba nayo, yakadzokororwa zvakare neiyo leash. Kurota kwedu, kwaibva murume mudiki, akaona afarire kusvetukira munzira, uye akapfurwa pasi kurufu, kusave nenguva yekudzora.
Mukomana akadaidzira kubva pakutyisa uye kupererwa, asi hapana chaisakwanisa kuitwa. Muzvizhinji zvevana vake, aifungidzira kuti mutyairi wakaita kuti imbwa yake itamire. Asi pamusoro peizvi, hama dzake dzaitaura zvishoma naye. Nekudaro, iye akange asina munhu wekutaura pamusoro pekuti anokura uye anokanganwa zvavanofarira. Uyezve nevana pazera ino, nyaya dzezvose zvakasikwa, hupenyu nerufu, izvo zvakaitika mumaziso ake. Iye mukomana aifanira kutsanangura zvakaitika kune peturu, iyo rufuwo uye amupe kuti itinetseke chokwadi ichi uye kuchema.
Nekudaro, sezvaakaudza zvaakabvumiranwa kurota paboka, vabereki vanenge vakangoita imbwa nyowani uye havana kudzokera kunhoroondo huru.
Asi, sezvaunoziva, manzwiro asina kunaka kuti isu tisingafi takaramba tisina kugadzikana mundangariro dzedu, mune zvatinoziva uye tisingazivi. Nekuti kuburikidza nehope, gore rakatsikirira riri pa25, mukomana akakwanisa kupukunyuka.
Gare gare, uyu weboka racho akati ainzwa kunge mutoro nemweya wake mumwe munhu akabvisa, uye akakwanisa kutarisa nyika nyore uye aine tariro.
Ndiri kushamisika, uye zviroto zvako zvinobatsira kutsungirira matambudziko nematambudziko? Tumira zviroto zvako kune iyo tsamba: [email protected].
Maria Zemskova, Psychologist, Mhuri Inarapist uye Zvinotungamira Zvekudzidzisa Kwemunhu Kudzidzisa Center Mika Khazina