Vanodiwa vaverengi, isu tinoramba tichiongorora zviroto zvedu zvinotipa mifananidzo yedu yeBizarre.
Kuburikidza nezvematongerwo, mifananidzo, zvinomiririra vanotiyeuchidza kuti basa rakadzama repfungwa rinotipinda mukati medu kunyangwe isu tisingashande kune ino yekuziva.
Kukwazisa zviroto zvedu, tinogona kuvhura chidzitiro chezvakavanzika uye matambudziko okushanda kwepfungwa.
Nguva pfupi yadarika yakandiuya kwandiri tsamba inonakidza uye inobata yevaverengi vedu, yandakaputsa kupindura.
Saka, hope dzaakagoverwa.
"Ini ndinowanzo kurota hope dzakafanana, kana kuti, humbowo hwekurara hwakafanana, uye nzvimbo yacho yakasiyana. Ini handikwanise kuenda kumba, ndinokanganwa nzira yekudzoka, vanhu vandikomberedza kana kuti havanzwisisi, kana kuti havazivi kero. Ini handikwanise kufona kumba kuti tibvunze nzira, kana kukanganwa nhamba yefoni, kana bhatiri refoni rakabviswa. Ndine makore makumi matanhatu nematanhatu, uye kurota uku kucharota kwemakore makumi maviri. Uku hakusi kurota kwezvinotyisa, asi kunzwa kusingafadzi zvakanyanya. "
Asati apa hope dzeshanduro yake yekuongorora, ndichagadzirisa kuti hapana chandinoziva nezve mamiriro ehupenyu hwake makore makumi maviri apfuura.
Nekudaro, ini ndinofungisisa kuti hope idzi dzakatanga kurota nguva pfupi mushure meimwe chiitiko chakakosha muhupenyu hwake, chakaitika mumakore makumi mana nemakumi mana.
Sezvo iyi nyaya isingazivikanwe, unogona kungoita zvakawanda zvakawanda mhedzisiro.
Development Psychology ndiyo nzvimbo yePsychology iyo iri kuita mabasa emaitiro ekukura kwevanhu muhupenyu hwake hwese - akagoverwa zvakadai sechizvarwa chechiitiko.
Imwe yacho ichave nenguva yekuyaruka. Iyo iri kuburikidza nedutu remanzwiro, manzwiro, dutu reHormone, mwana watove akarega kuva mwana kwenguva dzese, akanyimwa mamwe marekodzero uye anowana mabasa uye akakura erusununguko.
Iyo inotonyanya kujairika nguva inozivikanwa nguva nenguva yehupenyu, i..anenge makore makumi mana. Vanenge zera rino kuongororwa kwepasirese kweanokoshesa, hupenyu hunokosha uye masaini.
Ambicious uye vanokwikwidza vanhu kazhinji mushure meizvozvo vanozvidzikisira uye vanoteerera kune vadiwa. Nhungamiro yavo ine kukunda kwese nyowani uye nyowani vertices inotsiviwa nekusimbisa hukama nevadiwa.
Kazhinji, mhuri dzakawanda dzinodonha kana varooreso vasingasvikwi nezera iri. Varume nevakadzi vanonzwisisa kuti vakave vabereki, mune zvakawanda neruremekedzo vanochengeta mhuri yevana. Uye kana vana vachikura uye vasingade hanya neawa, ipapo vabereki vavo vane mwero werusununguko, kufarira uye kunyange chido chekutanga kurarama zvakare pachavo.
Semutemo, nguva ino inosanganiswa nezviitiko zvakawanda, kusanganisira kusuwa uye kusuwa zvichienderana nekurota, izvo zvisisiri kuitirwa kuti zviitike, muhudiki hwake, izvo zvisingazokwanisi kudzoka, kunyangwe nekukurudzira kwekunze uye zviito zvechidiki.
Vanhu vazhinji panguva ino vanoshuvira zvekuti vanotanga kuenderana nehupenyu hwavo sekunge ari kuenda kuzuva, uye pakanga pasina chikonzero chekuichinja.
Muchidimbu, dambudziko reusiku kana dambudziko rine makore makumi mana iro chikamu chehupenyu, apo pakanga paine simba rakawanda, zvirongwa, mazano, mikana, hutano uye mikana, yakatopfuura.
Chikamu chezvakawanikwa muhudiki, kubva pachinzvimbo chevakuru uye vakuru, hazvicharatidzika sezvakakosha uye zvakakosha. Ndine urombo kuti woshandiswa pane zvisina chinhu, matambudziko, vanhu vaisareva chero chinhu muhupenyu. Kupfuura zvese, sezvaunoziva, nguva inobhururuka nekukurumidza, vakura tinobva.
Mushure mekunge mumwe nemumwe wedu ari munzira imwe kana imwe dambudziko iri, anowana imba yekugeza: Mirayiridzo yakakura, tsika uye nheyo dzinogona kuvimba. Somuenzaniso, hukama hwomweya uye hwakazara uye hwakazara uye kubudirira mumba, kuziva ruzivo rwavo, kugona uye matarenda, kutarisira hutano hwavo, kufadza kwemuviri nemweya.
Nenzira, izwi rekuti "dambudziko" rinowanzapa mumvuri usina kunaka, uye mamiriro acho ari kuedza kuti arege kuona uye kudzivisa. Uye zvakazara pasina: dambudziko nderimwe rematanho anodiwa ekukura kwedu, uye Shoko rine shanduro yakadaro se "bhiriji" kana "shanduko".
Zvino ngatidzokerei kuchiroto chemaroto edu. Panenge panguva dzinosvika makumi mana nematatu, akatanga kurasa imba, kanganwa nzira yomunhu, "uye kwemakore makumi maviri muzviroto, chiitiko ichi chinodzokera kwazviri.
Zvichida zvinomuudza kuti achiri kusangana nezvimwe chiitiko makore makumi maviri apfuura. Izvo hazvina kupfuura pasina trace, sezvo mukati make akapererwa kumba. Kana zvaakaratidza kusimba uye akavimbika, seimba.
Uye sezvo zvese izvi zvakaitika panguva yedambudziko kana shanduko, zvaisave kupfuura kana kusakosha. Kuburikidza nehope, muverengi wedu achiri kutsvaga nzira yekudzokera kuchokwadi kuti yaimbove imba yaive yakavimbika uye isingazungunuke. Uye zvino haangadzokeri kwaari, nekuti ikozvino imba yake inofanira kunge iri imwezve: zvimwe zvinokoshesa, zvimwe zvinokoshesa, zvimwe zvinokatyamadza, mafungiro akananga pachavo uye kugona kwavo. Izvi pano kurara kwehunyanzvi.
Uye zviroto zvipi kwauri? Yakamirira tsamba kukero: [email protected].
Maria Zemskova, Psychologist, Mhuri Inarapist uye Zvinotungamira Zvekudzidzisa Kwemunhu Kudzidzisa Center Mika Khazina