Manipulors anowanikwa muhupenyu hwedu munzvimbo dzose, asi ane njodzi ari pano, padivi pedu. Uye ava ndivo vabereki vedu. Kazhinji kazhinji murume wemubereki anobayira mubereki ari padyo - nekuti haashambi chero chinhu pamusoro pazvo uye, zvakanyanya kukosha, hapana kwaanoziva, uye vanhu vakuru vanozviziva. Mwana haanzwisisi kwenguva yakati kuti mamiriro ezvinhu ari mumba akajairika, asi mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu anonzwa kusagadzikana, zvaari kusangana nawo ari padyo nehama dzake. Mwana akadaro anokura aine bouque yemarudzi ese ekusagadzikana, kubvisa izvo zvisingasviki gore rimwe muhofisi yePsychotherapist. Nhasi takasarudza kufunga kuti mitsara inogona kuverengerwa mubereki ane muchetura uye maitiro ekutsungirira kwakadaro.
"Asi iyo tamnatshinin mwanakomana ..."
Funny Flash Mhomho, iyo yakaonekwa pane network yevana vaviri vevana vadzoka, muchokwadi hachisi chinonakidza. Upenzi ndiko kwaive "mwanakomana wemusikana waamai" kunogara kuri nani kupfuura iwe, newe, unoita munhu anorwara nechirambi. Schemi yakadaro kazhinji inoshandiswa nevabereki vane muchetura: "Unotarisa kuti Sasha apinda! Iwe haungatenderwa mukati. "Uye zvese mumweya wakadai mushure mekunge amai vachazotaura neshamwari yake, vane mwana akanyatsopfuudza bvunzo dziri muyunivhesiti yepamusoro yunivhesiti. Panguva dzakadaro, kuderedzwa kwakazara kwemwana kunotanga, mubereki ari kuedza "kufona kuti" mwana wekuparadza, nekudaro achigadzira kukuvara kwakadzama uko munhu mukuru anokurira nepfungwa.
"Ini ndinogara zvirinani!"
Manipulator emubereki anogara achidaro narcissus. Rudzi urwu haruwanzo, asi ingangove imwe yemhando isingafadzi dzevabereki vane muchetura. Mutsara chaiwo wehama yakadaro ichave: Hapana chakaipa pano - pane kuderera kwemwana wako wega, kuti zvirinani kuita kunge uri nani mumeso ake.
Mubereki ane muchetura anogara achiedza kuedza kwese kwemwana
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"Chii chauri kufara?"
Urwu rudzi rwevabereki runomutsa ramangwana neurotic uye zvakanyanya kuvhiringidza vanhu. Vana mumhuri dzakadaro vanenge pasina chingatadza, kunyangwe kushaya simba kweminiti sekudya maswemanheru vasati vadya, mubereki anodana kupara mhosva. Mwana anogara achitarisa zvese zvevakareva vemubereki, atove nenguva, zviri kuita saye, asi panguva ino, hazviwanzo kunzi naye - iye mubereki haatenderi imwe mhando yechiitiko pasina kuziva kwake.
Pane nzira yekubva kune hukama nehupfumi nemubereki wako?
Bata chinhambwe
Nzira iri nyore yekudzikisa kukanganisa kwakashata kwemubereki ndeye kure. Kazhinji, mwana akaoma kupatsanurwa nehama dzake, kunyangwe akatambura kuti atange kutsvaka nzira dzekuti dzibve hama dzepfumi, unotanga kunzwa zviri nani, uye pfungwa dzekudzosera zvakapusa haamuke.
Tsvaga rutsigiro
Sezvo rutsigiro uye kukurudzirwa kunogona kuita sevamwe hama, uye shamwari dzakanaka dzinogona kuwana mazwi akakodzera uye zvishoma nezvishoma, asi maronda ako achapora zvirokwazvo. Iwe unogona kugovana manzwiro nevadiwa muMweya wemunhu, zvinoreva kuti manzwiro asina kunaka haazokudya iwe kubva mukati.
Usatya kubata nyanzvi
Tichiri kutya mahofisi evanopokana uye psychoanalysts, kunyange kazhinji iyi ndiyo nzira chete yekugadzirisa matambudziko ako. Kana paine mukana wakadaro, taura neunyanzvi pamwe nevabereki vangu, zvimwe havazomboziva kukuvadza nguva yese iyi kwakakushandisa nenzira dzake dzekurera.