Nei vamwe vasikana vasingakwanisi kuwana mumwe wako? Kunyangwe zvinoita kunge tsvarakadenga, akangwara uye akabudirira? Calm-Psychotherapist, murai nechinangwa cheIlya Bearetsev uye rpt-Therapist, iyo Mukadzi weChikadzi Irina Irina
Tenga mukadzi uyu! Tenga murume uyu!
Isu tinorarama munguva kana tichiramba tichiedza kutengesa chimwe chinhu. Izvo zvinokanganisa zvinhu nemifananidzo. Kuburikidza nenhevedzano, magazini, instagram, munharaunda network muuropi hwedu ndege madutu emazita eruzivo rwatisina nguva yekudzokorora. Anoenda kune subconscious, kutendeuka mukuiswa. "Iye mukomana nemari ndizvo zvaunoda," "Musikana akamanikidza muhoro - roora." Wese munhu anonzwisisa uropi kuti mupfumi mukomana anowedzera, musikana wemitambo anozobereka mwana ane hutano, is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is is Cherechedza kusvikira pasina dambudziko.
"Ini handisi kuenda kuMifananidzo! Ini ndinosarudza vanhu vakaita seni ndinonzwa! "
Wataura chokwadi. Kuburikidza neSocial network, usapfuure mufaro wemusangano nemunhu wandinoda kushamwaridzana naye. Tsigiro, kurumbidza, kubatsirwa, kunzwa zvinhu, rudo, kuzivikanwa - kana chimwe chinhu kubva pane iyi rondedzero zvinodiwa kune wese munhu.
"Wakanganwa nezvazvo here?"
Chokwadi! Mukadzi anofanira kubika chikafu, uye murume wangu anofanira kunge ari murume wangu. Kudyira Kwekudya kunofanirwa kuve Korona nebonde risina kushamwaridzana. Zvese zviri zviviri zvinofanirwa kunge zvichitamba mitambo, uye kazhinji, zvitevere. Ah hongu, uye pfungwa yekuseka isingakanganwe!
"Ehe, kwete zvakaipa! Uye chii chinonzi hunyengeri? "
Kubata ndekwekuti isu tinosarudza mumwe wako kazhinji pamwe neuropi kana manzwiro kana muviri. Asi havasi vese pamwechete. Mushure mezvose, munhu wese ane "nzvimbo" yaanosarudza. Sokurwazve kweLeningrad: "Ane akadaro g. Uye, kazhinji, ndinomuda, "sarudzo dzemiviri yemuviri. "Uye ini ndinondiregerera, ndinomuregererazve, zvakare. Oo, ini ndinemi ... "- Pano ndicho chinhu chikuru chiri kuita, uropi huri kutora chikamu chete , "Uku kuverenga kwakasimba kwemusoro."
Saka, dambudziko ndere
Matambudziko anotanga kana nzvimbo yatinosarudza mumwe wako, "akafadzwa", uye vamwe vese vanosanganisirwa. "Mazuva ese anonyangarika pabasa redu, uye ini handipedze nguva neni," manzwiro aivatendeuka. "Takanaka muLadimi, nzwisiso yakazara, asi chimwe chinhu chakashata pamubhedha, uye hazvisi kugadzirira zvikuru," muviri wakashandurwa, wakatendeuka. Mienzaniso isingagumi yakaiswa.
Mubatanidzwa wakasimba - kana waguta kanenge kaviri. Asi kunyange zvakadaro pane kunzwa kuti chimwe chinhu chisipo.
Izvo zvinobuda?
Iva nekunzwisisa pachako uye kusimuka kwacho kana uchisarudza mumwe wako. Zvipe nguva yekuziva, kutanga hukama hutsva. Kana zvichikwanisika, famba kure neyakajairwa womurume waunofunga. Iwe unogona kuenderera mberi nekuedza uye kushandisa nguva kusvikira yave iri pachena yakakodzera sarudzo iwe yaunoda kuti upenyu hwangu huve hwehupenyu. Kune avo vakaneta nekukwikwidza pane imwe chete, kana kungoda kukurumidza kuzivisa uye nekukasira kufara, takawedzera "zuva rakawanda" - iyi yehupenyu "- Iyi ndiyo nzira yekuzvinzwisisa iwe pachako, zvaunosimbisa, munhu akakodzera, kupera kwehukama hwekare.