Zuva rakanaka, vaverengi.
Napfuura ndakatumira hope dzinonakidza, dzokorora kakawanda. Mukadzi wechidiki, anenge makore makumi matatu nemasere, akamutumira kune dekiphle.
"Ndanga ndichirota hope kakati wandei nguva pfupi yapfuura ini ndiri kumuchato wangu." Asi nguva dzose chete, asi mupfekero wakanaka. Usambofa wakarota kuti ndine fice. Muhupenyu, ini handina kumbobvira ndisina varume. "
Ehe, kurara kunoonekera. Mwenga pamuchato pasina chirahwe. Ehe, kubva pamashoko ekutanga zviri pachena kuti kurara pamusoro pekusurukirwa kwevakadzi. Mukuwedzera, kurara kunoratidza kuti kutota kwedu hakunomiririra mufananidzo wemurume anogona kuva pedyo.
Havasi vese vakadzi nevarume vanosungirwa kugadzira hukama, gadzira mhuri uye kubereka vana. Kune vamwe, iyi isarudzo yekuziva zvachose. Asi kazhinji zvinoitika zvachose. Vakadzi havagone kutsanangura chikonzero nei nedata rekunze, mutsa, runako, pfungwa uye kugona kuzvitarisira wega, kusangana, kurapa, kurera vanofarira. Kazhinji, isu tiri kudiwa kune varume. Ini handizive kana sarudzo yakadaro inoonekwa kubva kune yedu heroine. Ane chinangwa chakambogadzira mhuri here?
Kana aya mabasa anokosha achiri aripo, zvakakosha kuti uzive zvaanoona shamwari yacho.
Zviri pamusoro peizvi zvekuti kurara kwake kunoti: Pedyo naye hakuna nzvimbo yemurume. Uye iyi "nzvimbo" haisi kukosha kwemuviri. Kunyanya kuitika kwaari ndiko kudiwa kwake kuchigadzira hukama hwakavimbika, kufunga kuti mumwe munhu anogona kuva naye, uye ndiani? Munhu chii?
Kunyangwe zvisina ruzivo kwazvo muzvinyorwa zvepfungwa zvinozivikanwa kuti sarudzo yeramangwana reSatellite yehupenyu inokurudzirwa zvakanyanya nevasikana nababa vake. Pedyo, hushamwari, hwakavimbika, hwakavimbika hukama nemubereki huchabvumira mukuvhunduka kuti vadzore vanhu vakavimbika, kusingaperi, kusingaperi, hukama hwemurume.
Kana baba vasipo, akabva anyangarika pane imwe nhanho yekukura mwanasikana wake, akamisa mafambiro kana panguva yehukama nemwanasikana wake aive akaoma, kupokana, ipapo ichimanikidza kusanzwisisika kwemusikana, uyezve mukadzi wechidiki, kuti ave nehukama.
Kazhinji, semhedzisiro yechiitiko chakadai, mukadzi anouya kumhedziso yekuti zvirinani kusave nehukama nenzira inosangana pane kuva nemumwe wako asina kuchengetedzeka naye. Chero hukama hutsinye hunonzi, kwatinofunga kuti tinogona kubva chero nguva, kutengesa, kukonzera kurwisa, kupokana, kukanganisika, kukonzeresa tsika kana dzetsika.
Zvekurota kwedu, kurota kwakadaro kunoratidza kuti kungave kwakanaka kubata nevaya vaanoda kuona pedyo navo.
Uye kana zvakaoma kupindura iyi mibvunzo, zvakakodzera kubata nepfungwa pamusoro pevarume zvachose. Uye zvakare kupindura mubvunzo unoenderana nesarudzo yayo ndega. Izvo zvinokwanisika kuti iyi sarudzo haina basa. Uye kuti yedu yekurota inogona kuwirirana kuumba hukama.
Wakarota here kurara, uye iwe unoda Maria kuti uzvivharira pane yedu saiti? Wobva watumira mibvunzo yako netsamba: [email protected].
Maria Zemskova, Psychologist, Mhuri Inarapist uye Zvinotungamira Zvekudzidzisa Kwemunhu Kudzidzisa Center Mika Khazina