Sezvakavimbiswa, bhuku rechipiri munaKurume richave zvakare nemuenzaniso wekurara kwemurume. Mwedzi uno waive nerombo rakanaka kaviri, sezvo ini ndinoda disyembly yezviroto zvakatumirwa nevarume. Ivo vanosangana mafungire anonakidza, mifananidzo isina kunyatso kuuya nayo. Uye saka inoonekwa kuti ingangoita kurota kwese nemakomendi ekurota inyaya yakapera. Kurara kwanhasi hakuna kusarudzika.
"Mukurota, ndinogara mukamuri nemukadzi wangu ex. Nechikonzero chakati, kwandiri mwana wemwana, zvakanaka, kana kuyaruka. Ndinoyeuka chaizvo kuti muhupenyu hwangu chaihwo hwaive hwakadai pandakanga ndiri mukomana. Wangu-ex anoratidza kundifarira, iri mumhepo yepasi. Uye pane chipenga pakati pedu, ndinonzwa kufara. Uye anoona kuti ndinondifarira. Asi hazvisvike nyaya yacho, ndinonzwisisa kuti ikozvino murume wake iye zvino anozopinda mukamuri uye achindirova. Ini ndinomuka kubva pakutya. "
Zvichida inonyanya kubvisa inonakidza yehupenyu hwemafuro emafuti evana. Patinorima kurara nemutengi uyu, takawana zvarakanaka zvirimo. Semuenzaniso, chiratidzo chemwana chiratidzo chekusununguka kwechirume, kusakwana. Zvichida ichi chikamu chechiroto chinoratidza nguva yekurota maaive neyekuumbwa kwemazano pamusoro pake somurume. Uye chimwe chinhu chakarasika, nekuti murume mukuru pane dzimwe nguva anofarira pfungwa yake achiri kuyaruka. Uye kune vechidiki, mibvunzo yebonde iri pakutanga. Ndini ani? Ndiri chii? Ini ndinokwezva here? Nei Ndichindiramba, Urege? Kana nei ndakakurumbira. Chiitiko chekutanga chebonde uye chekutanga chiitiko chehukama ndechekuti, semutemo, pazera rino. Iyo inguva yekutanga, hapana chinhu chekuenzaniswa nacho, saka zvinoitika kune zvakakanganisika uye zvisingakanganwike, uye zvakare dzimwe nguva une mhedzisiro yenguva refu. Semuenzaniso, vazhinji vedu vanorangarira chiitiko chevachiri kuyaruka chekubika, vakomana, vanodheerera.
Zvinoitawo kuti, kurara kunotaura kurangwa kwehupombwe. Uye murume waaimbova, uyo anofanira kuvhuna uye achirova - mufananidzo unopenya pamusoro penyaya iyi. Zvakakosha kutaura kuti mune chokwadi chezviroto zvakaroora, saka kufarira, flirt uye kukwezva kune mumwe mukadzi kuri padanho rekubvumirana, kusataura zvimwe. Zvichida hope dzinoratidza kutya kwekunakirwa uye zvepabonde zvakaratidzwa nekuda kwekuti icho chiri chikamu chevanhu, zvisinei nekadzi uye chitambi mupasipoti. Zvakaoma kwazvo kutungamira yako simba rebonde chete pamunhu. Ini handina basa kuti zuva raizopenya mumwe munhu ari oga. Panguva imwecheteyo kuve pabonde uye zvinonakidza - hazvireve kuve slut nezvakaipa. Zvido, fungidziro, manzwiro anongova chikamu chezviitiko. Ivo vari kure nezvinhu chaizvo zvinoparadza mucheka wemhuri kana chero hukama hwekare-hwekare. Freud akapokana kuti munhu ane sexy ari kubva kune chimiro chake. Iyi simba inoyerera mazviri, seropa kana lymph, asi chete kuti dzidzidze isiri pasi peMicroscope, asi kuongorora maitiro, zviroto, neuriss uye chimiro chechirwere chepfungwa. Iyo yakasununguka simba iri rinopfuura kuburikidza nemunhu, hutano hwakanyanya mune zvese pfungwa.
Kurota kwedu kungangove nekurota nechiyeuchidzo chekuti hupombwe hwake ndega uye iye chete. Chii chinonakidza, chinoshanda, asi, semwana, anotya kurangwa nekuda kwekuratidzwa kwaro uye anoongorora verge yemvumo.
Basa rakanaka kwazvo rekurota kwedu.
Uye zviroto zvipi kwauri? Mienzaniso yezviroto zvako inotumira netsamba: [email protected]. Nzira, zviroto, izvo zvakanyanyisa kunyora mamiriro ehupenyu, asi zvakanyanya kukosha - manzwiro nemifungo panguva yekumuka kubva kurota uku.
Maria Dyachkova, Psychologist, mhuri yekurapa uye inotungamira kudzidziswa kwekuwedzera kwekudzidzira kudzidzisa Center Mika Kika Khazin