Masiku ano, m'malo mongolowa, pamaso pa citsanzo cirilonse, ndidzakuuza "mogwa", koma oyenera anecote.
Mwana wamkazi wa Freud auza abambo ake:
"Abambo, ndinawona malotowa usikuuno, ngati kuti mwanditanga ine." Ndakulitsa kale manja anga kuti agwire, koma pa nthawiyo amalume gustav amabwera ndikukulitsa nthochi yanga kwa ine. Banana Amalume Gustav anali wokhwima komanso wokongola, ndipo anu anali aulesi ndipo anali ataphulika kale. Chifukwa chake ndinatenga amalume a nthochi ndipo pambuyo pake ndinadzuka nthawi yomweyo.
Freud, Kusautsa:
- Mwana wamkazi, maloto alibe tanthauzo - amangolota ...
Ndipo tsopano loto la maloto athu. Mwaona mobwerezabwereza momwe tikufunira zobisika m'maloto a ngwazi zathu. Ndipo masiku ano, tatseka mwayi uwu, popeza malotowo pawokha adalota m'malo onena mosamalitsa: "Ndimasamukira ku nyumba yofanana ndi ntchito yanga. Ndipo tili palimodzi ndi amuna anga timapita ku Clairiirvoyant. Akuti kwa ife kuti mutha kuthana ndi mafunso ofunika kwambiri kwa banja lathu. Tikufuna zolakwika m'moyo. Mawu omwe ine ndikukumbukira momveka bwino. Pomaliza: Kugonana - kuthetsa mavuto. "
Chabwino, ndingawonjezere chiyani apa? Kodi ndichakuti malotowo adawona mkaziyo, ndiye, udindo wokhala ndi zolakwa, masewerawa, chidwi, chakumanani ndi mwamuna wake ziyenera kudzipereka kwa iye. M'malo moyembekezera zomwe wokondedwayo ndi wokondedwayo, kufunika kwa mawonekedwe omwe mwina sangazindikire, m'maloto, iye amalimbikitsanso kuti muchite bwino pankhaniyi.
Mwa njira, zovuta zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wofuna kugonana, kulolera kwa chidwi komanso kusakhala ndi moyo wathunthu m'mabanja muli vuto lalikulu kwambiri. Ndipo mfundo sizikhala zogonana motere. Kupitiliza ngati tifunika kugonana? Osati nthawi zambiri, kwenikweni. Kugonana ndi kwakukulu kuposa phunziro loti chisangalalo kapena kusakanikirana ana. Kugonana kumakhala kovuta kumene kumapangitsa kuti malingaliro awo awonekere kwa wina ndi mnzake, kuti athe kusangalala, ngakhale atakhala sizimakonda bwenzi. Pakatikati pa katswiri wa mvula yamkuntho, awiriwa amagwiritsa ntchito kugonana kuti awonetse "zabwino" mwa iwo okha ndikupereka chisangalalo china. Masewera ngati awa "pagulu" patapita kanthawi kotopetsa, chifukwa chake kugonana, ngati nsanja kukumana ndi enawo, chifukwa chofunikira kuti musangalatse mnzanuyo, kusiya chidwi chake. Gawo lotsatira pankhaniyi ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zofuna zanu, zokhumba zanu, zokhumba zanu, zokonda zanu, zokonda ndi zoyesa ndi zoyeserera ndizoposa zomwe mnzake amafuna - kukhutitsidwa kwa mnzake. Tikulankhula zokhudzana ndi kugonana, koma kwenikweni - ndizotheka kuyeserera m'zinthu zonse m'moyo. Kenako kugonana kudzakhala chinthu chinanso chokonda iyemwini ndikudzidziwitsa yekha za iye.
Tsopano tiyeni tibwerere ku Snovidita. Anamuuza kuti akhale pamoyo komanso m'maubwenzi omwe sanali olakwika kwambiri: Mtundu, Curaza, mawonekedwe aulere, mawonekedwe aulere komanso kusakhulupirira kwa bwenzi labwino kwambiri komanso losakhulupirira. Tikukhulupirira kuti amva yekha!
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin