M'moyo wa aliyense wa ife padali nthawi zina pamene kuyimba kuchokera kwa mnzake kunagawika usiku, ndipo mwina mwatonthoza, koma mwina sizinathandize.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupeza mawu ofunikira, nthawi zambiri sitili ndi mawu osakwaniritsidwa, koma amakhumudwa, ngakhale sitikufuna. Talemba mndandanda wa mawu otchuka omwe nthawi zambiri timagwiritsa ntchito kusangalala ndi munthu, koma m'malo mwake timabweretsa zowawa zambiri.
"Mwa wina ndi mnzake!"
Simungadziwe kuti ikupita kumbuyo kwa zitseko za nyumba ya bwenzi la bwenzi ndi munthu wakale. Mwina zinkawoneka ngati kuti pasakhale ndi aliyense wabwino, koma motero onse awiri akhoza kuvutika muubwenziwu. Popanda kupita kufotokozeratu, yesani kuthandizira bwenzi popanda kupereka kwanu ndi ubalewu.
"Sindinamukonde!"
Mawu awa kungogogomezera kuti nthawi zonse anali a kusankha kwawo, koma anali chete. Ndi njira yolimbikitsira bwenzi lokhumudwitsa, kuvomereza? Yesetsani kuti musamalimbikitse malo osokoneza bongo okhudzana, ndibwino kumasulira chilichonse chomwe tsopano chatsegulidwa musanasunge, koma bwenzi laulere.
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"Tsopano mutha kuchita zomwe mukufuna"
Mwina nthawi ina mwakumana ndi mpumulowu pamene maubwenzi oopsa, koma izi sizitanthauza konse kuti mnzanu amasangalala, mwina pakadali pano, osazindikira. Ngati munthu alibe chidwi chofuna kupita ndi "kuyesera gawo" mu kilabu, usamukakamize. Sonkhanani ndikukhala kuti mukakhale ndi vutoli limodzi.
"Muli ndi zofuna zambiri"
Mulimonse anzanu apamtima, zomwe mumakonda sizingagwirizane. Mutha kukhala ngati brunette wautali, ndipo bwenzi lanu ndi anyamata aku Scandinavia. Zomwezo zikugwiranso ntchito paudindo wa wamkulu: Simuyenera kutsimikizira ndi mtsikana kuti nthawi yotsatira muyenera kutchera khutu kwa mnyamatayo mosavuta adakopa chidwi cha mtsikanayo. Mnzanuyo ali ndi njira zawo zomwe amasankha, chifukwa chake pali zolakwika zomwe mkazi amayesetsa kumangiriza moyo wake ndi munthu.