Kukhala m'deralo kupsinjika kosalekeza, zimakhala zovuta kukhala munthu wabwino payokha. Zimatikhudza ife, komanso anzathu omwe timakhala tsiku lonse. Lumbirani ndikuyankha kwambiri m'mapapo ndiye choyipitsitsa kwambiri kotero kuti mutha kupirira zomwezi. Tikukuuzani njira zingapo zothandizira kuti musunge malingaliro ndikupeza yankho lavutoli pamutu "wozizira".
Yesani, ngati ndi kotheka, musalowe pagulu
Zimachitika kuti munthu akulankhulana bwino ndi inu pamaso pa utsogoleri kapena anzawo, komabe, mwa kukhala pawekha, akhoza kupita ku "inu" popanda chilolezo chanu m'njira zonse zomwe zingachitike Zimachulukitsa. M'nthawi zambiri, munthu akhoza kusokoneza zochita zanu. Yembekezerani zomwe zingachitike pokhapokha, popanda tanthauzo, ndikofunikira kuchitapo kanthu. Pofuna kuti musakhale ndi chipiriro chanu ndipo potero musalimbikitse ntchitoyo, ipotoza kulumikizana kwanu konse ndi munthu wozunza kulemba. Zingakhale zovuta kwa munthu m'makalata m'makalata, chifukwa pankhaniyi mudzakhala ndi umboni wa chitsogozo cha mtundu wosavomerezeka wa omwe ali nawo.
Osapita kukayankha nkhanza
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Osataya mtima ngati mwaponderezedwa
Inde, kuvomereza kuti ndinu oponderezedwa, komabe, muzikumbukira kuti kuvulala kumakhala nthawi zonse m'maganizo, komanso mtsogolo ndi magwiridwe antchito. Mavuto adzachitika pang'onopang'ono. Mukamvetsetsa kuti wina yemwe ali ndi mnzanu wakuwonetsa momwe ndimakhalira opanda chikondi, pitani kwa mtsogoleri wanu ndikufotokozera modekha zomwe zikuchitika. Monga lamulo, anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli akuchita zachiwawa. Mtsogoleri aliyense amadziwa momwe angawerengere ndalama ndikumvetsetsa zomwe mkhalidwe wopanda vuto umatsogolera ku gulu, chifukwa chake funso lanu lidzathetsedwa munthawi yochepa.
Khalani aulemu
Nthawi zambiri, wozunza samatsatira cholinga chokwanira, amangofuna kuti asiye nokha ndipo pakadali pano amayang'ana m'maso mwanu omwe ali ndi munthu wophulika komanso wosakhazikika. Musapereke munthu wozunza "wa vampire" za chisangalalo chotere. Sungani mawu odekha komanso mwaulemu, mutayamba kunyoza poyera, koma osanyoza, yemwe wolakwayo, ngati wopanda chipongwe, motero kuti palibe chikhumbo chamtsogolo.
Osatengera zowawa ku akaunti yanu
Monga momwe talankhulirapo kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyo, anthu ochepa omwe ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi nkhawa tsiku lililonse, makamaka ngati ntchito yanu imapereka kupsinjika pa psyche. Ngati munthu sangathe kunyalanyaza zakukhosi ndikuwonjezera mawu anu pa inu, koma zimachitika pakutanganidwa kwanu, tsekani maso anu ndikupumira kwambiri, yesani kulowa mwa iye kuwongolera monga, mwachitsanzo, inu. Komabe, ngati zinthu zitabwerezedwa pafupipafupi, musawope kuyika munthu m'malo mwake, koma, kachiwiri popanda kuyankha nkhanza.
Mumve ngati munthu ayenera kusiya
Zimachitikanso kuti munthuyo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kung'amba mkwiyo pa ena, ndipo wagwira mkono wanga. Izi zimachitika kawirikawiri ndi antchito atsopano omwe sanakwanitse kuti "ayesere". Kodi mumamvetsetsa bwanji kuti ziwopsezo kuti munthu amvetsetse - mutha kubwezeretsa. Monga lamulo, kamodzi kapena kawiri kapena kawiri ndikokwanira kuti wankhanza wa komweko apite kukasaka wina.