Pali ena omwe amasankha nkhani zawo zomwe asakatule. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera pa intaneti kuchokera pakuwona cholinga, osati chizolowezi, ndiye kuti kuchezera pamasamba ena kumachokera mwadala. Kodi kuyang'anira pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kwa anzawo akale kumatanthauza chiyani? A Galina a Galina Yanko ayankha funso ili:
Galina Yanko
"Atangophwanya ubongo pali zinthu zambiri. Nthawi zambiri, anthufe, anthu amakonda kumvera chisoni. Chifukwa chake, ngati takhumudwitsidwa pambuyo potilepheretsa kubwerera kudziko la chibwenzi, tikufunanso zakale zathu. Kuyang'ana malo ochezera a munthu wina kumakupangitsani kumva kuti mutha kuwona moyo wawo popanda kukhala m'miyoyo yawo. Chifukwa chake, timayang'ana malo awo ochezerawo kuti tiwone momwe akuchitira pambuyo potiletsa, pali zizindikiro za zomwe mumakusowani. Komanso, ndikuwona malo ochezera a munthu wina amatipangitsa kuti tizikhala olumikizidwa ndi munthu wina. Kuwona kale m'moyo wanu kungathandize kuona kuti mukudziwa zomwe amachita komanso zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wake. Anthu ambiri amaopa kusiyana, komwe kumayenderana ndi kusatsimikiza. Kukana kusatsimikizika Kwake, mutha kulowa patsamba lakale kuti mudziwe, zomwe zimakupatsani mphamvu yomweyo. Kapenanso mukuyembekeza kuti tsiku lina alowanso limodzi.
Vuto ndiloti munthu aliyense amakongoletsa mosiyanasiyana ndi kusiyana, ndipo ubalewo umakhala ndi phindu lililonse kwa aliyense. Mutha kuyang'ana tsamba la chidwi chakale kuti muwone zomwe akuchita. Kapena ndikufuna kuwona momwe akuchitira, momwe akumvera pakuchira pambuyo polephera. M'malo mwake, kuwona tsamba lakale ndi njira yofananizira miyoyo yanu. Amatha kukhala olimbikitsa pakusintha kwa umunthu watsopano ndi kuyenda, kapena kumatha kukuchititsani chisoni, nkhawa komanso chisoni chifukwa chakuti zidatayika.
Zomwe muwona sizingafune
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Wachinyamata wakale mwina amazindikira kuti mukuwunika. Ngati Iye akudziwa za izi, akhoza kupitilizani ndikuchinyalanyaza, kapena kutenga njira zina zowonjezera kupanga malire abwino kwambiri. Kungayimenso ubale wanu komanso kuchepetsa mwayi wolankhulana mtsogolo. Komanso, mwatsoka, imatha kukutsogolerani. Sizingatheke kukhala moyo wa munthu wina ndikuchita za Cybeti, ngakhale mutatsata zonse za EX. Zimakulepheretsani kukwaniritsa zolinga ndikugwira ntchito moyenera mu zakunja, osati pa intaneti. Njira yoyenera kwambiri ndikudzipatula ndipo osadandaula za malo ochezera ena okhudzana ndi zomwe kalelo. Amangotsekedwa pokhapokha ngati wina amadutsa mzerewo, apo ayi sizoyenera kuchitapo kanthu. Chotsani anzanu ndi olembetsa anu ngati mukulimba. Chifukwa chake simungathe kuwona malo ake ochezera. Pambuyo polekanira, mumafunikira nthawi kuti mubwere kwa inu ndikusiya zochitika, ndipo cheke chambiri cha malo ake amakhala ngati mukumangidwa. Patatha mwezi umodzi, mutha kubwezeretsa kulumikizana m'magulu ochezera, chifukwa panthawiyi mudzakhala kudziko lina, chiyembekezo chidzakuthandizanidi. "