Pafupifupi munthu aliyense amene mungamupezeko, komabe, pali ena omwe amangopanga chifukwa - alankhule. Nthawi zambiri, khalidwe lotereli limakwiyitsa kwambiri, makamaka ngati munthu alankhula popanda kuyima. Amakhulupirira kuti amayi amalankhula kwambiri, koma amuna ambiri samagona kumbuyo. Komabe, munthu aliyense ochezeka kwambiri ali ndi zoterezi.
Zomwe zimayambitsa chofunda kwambiri
Monga momwe talankhulira kale, mdera lathu zomwe zimanenedwa zimaperekedwa kwa azimayi ambiri. Sangayime. Komabe, ambiri opanda kanthu mwamtheradi sizimasokoneza kufanana. Mukakumana ndi munthu yemweyo, mumadabwa: Kumene izi zili mmenemu. Chifukwa Chomwe Anthu Ena Amasinthiratu Zofunika Kwa maola ambiri, pomwe ena adzasangalala 'kutsanulira' chilichonse chomwe chasamba posamba. Kukhazikika ndi mikhalidwe yomwe bamboyo adakulira ndipo adaleredwa ndikofunikira.
Kodi osayima pati "Gogar" amachokera?
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Mwina mwakumana ndi mabanja omwe mwana amaloledwa kupanga zinthu zambiri ndipo zomwe amachita sizochepa. Monga lamulo, makolo amatha kukambirana ndi mwana mwamtheradi zomwe zachitika masana, komanso zazing'ono kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, ana omwe akukula mu mikhalidwe otere amakhulupirira kuti osati banja lokha, koma tsatanetsatane wa moyo wake udzakhala ndi chidwi chozungulira. Sizosadabwitsa kuti anzawo ndi odziwa nthawi ndi nthawi amatopa ndi munthu yemweyo. Ndipo wosadziwika bwino kotero kuti womasuka koteroko amatha kufulumira.
Zimachitika mosiyana ndi izi: Banja limaletsa kukambirana mwatsatanetsatane. Izi sizitanthauza kuti mamembala am'banja ali amodzi wina ndi mnzake. Ayi, amakonda mabanja awo, samasokoneza malo anu payekha a munthu wina. Ngati muli ndi bwenzi loterolo, simungathe kumva zambiri za moyo wake kwa iye.
Zomwe zimakhala pachiwonetsero chambiri
Musaganize kuti munthu waluso kwambiri adzatsegula zinsinsi zawo nthawi yomweyo. Mwina, kotero iye, m'malo mwake, pofuna kukubisirani kanthu, kubisala zokambiranazo "Palibe". Sangakambirane ndi inu moyo wake, m'malo mwake muzilankhula za ena kapena pamitu yosokoneza.
Ngati munthu ali ndi chobisalira mphindi zochepa mphindi zochepa, mutha kutaya ulusi wokambirana. Akatswiri azamisala amakulangizani kuti muchepetse kulankhulana ndi anthu oterowo: osalowetsa nawo pakulankhula zopitilira theka la ola, mwinanso mumangoziza ndi mutu wamutu kapena wovuta kwambiri. Komabe, palibe chothandiza kuchokera kwa munthuyu simuzindikira, akuti kwa onse onse, koma mwatsatanetsatane sadzachoka.
Malilemu ambiri opanda kanthu sikuti amalowerera mofanana
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Chosangalatsa ndichani, machezawo amatha kulankhula pafupifupi mutu uliwonse - zilibe kanthu, amasungunuka mmenemo kapena ayi. Ngati mungayesere kukambirana mwatsatanetsatane ndi iwo, akhoza kusokonezedwa. Chosangalatsa china: munthu wofatsa akhoza kukhala ochezera. Amakhala wowopsa pamaso pa ena, zomwe zimayamba kulankhula za chilichonse chomwe chikuwona, kungotsitsa zomwe zikuchitika.
Sikuti nthawi zonse zokambirana sizikhala zovulaza. Akhoza kukhala munthu wokhala ndi psyche yonenedwa, yomwe ingakukhuzeni kuti muli ndi mavuto. Momwe mungazindikire zoopsa?
Anthu oterowo nthawi zonse amakhala ochezeka komanso ochezeka, koma mwa "kuphedwa" kwawo pazifukwa zina amalabadira.
Amapukutidwa mosavuta.
Kulankhula za iye, amayamba kupewa moyo wanu.
Anthu awa ndi odabwitsa kwambiri.
Ndiwolikulu abwino kwambiri, nthawi zambiri amafunikira thandizo la akatswiri.
Ngati mungazindikire muzodziwika pang'ono pazizindikiro, kuchepetsa kulumikizana kwakanthawi, simukufuna mavuto omwe ali ndi psyche yanu?
Kodi ndi chiyani chabodza kwambiri?
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Mtundu wina wa zochezera, wopanda vuto lopanda vuto, - miseche.
Sangathe kukhala ndi moyo popanda kukambirana za moyo wa munthu wina. Izi zitha kutchedwa Mania. Zachidziwikire, nthawi zina amapereka mavuto ambiri kwa munthu amene akufuna kudziwa chilichonse kuti afotokozere zambiri ndi "dziko", koma nthawi zambiri amangokwiyitsa ena. Vuto ndiloti ndizovuta kwambiri kuzionetsa zinthu zoyipa. Ingokumbukirani kuti mu Kukhalapo kwa munthu, komwe kuli ochimwa, muyenera kutsatira zomwe mukunena, apo ayi mutha kuthana ndi zotsatirapo zapamwamba za miseche yokhazikika pa mbiri yanu.
Monga lamulo, magulu amiseche amadzidalira kwambiri. Chifukwa cha zokambirana za ena, akuyesera kukula m'maso mwa ena.
Mulimonsemo, ngati mungazindikire kuyankhula kwanu, yesani kukambirana pang'ono ndi kumvetsera. Khulupirirani anzanu ndi anzanu angayamikire.