Nthawi zambiri, achinyamata omwe amadandaula za moyo wathanzi limodzi ndi makolo awo amathandizidwa ndi akatswiri azamisala.
Malinga ndi akatswiri, ngati munthu amene wafika zaka 30, amagawana malo okhala ndi makolo ake, adzakumana ndi mavuto omwe amatchedwa kuti amatchedwa kupatukana. Akungokhalira. Munthu ayenera kupatukana ndikuyambitsa moyo wake, chifukwa azamalonda ambiri amaganizira. Zachidziwikire, pali mabanja omwe mibadwo ingapo imakhala moyo mu moyo ndi kuwotcha sakudziwa, koma pali okwana. Mwacibadwa, ngati ali bwino, anthu otere safunafuna thandizo la psylogical, tikambirana za mtundu wina wa anthu - omwe akhala moyo wambiri ndi makolo awo, koma samachita chilichonse kuti athetse vutoli.
Chifukwa chake, akatswiri ochokera kwa psychology amagawa mitundu ingapo ya anthu omwe sanapatse njira yolekanitsa.
Makolo ndi ovuta kulolera mwana
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Mtundu woyamba. Dziko litachitika
Achinyamata a gululi ndi ogwirizana ndi makolo awo. Izi zimachitika pamene amayi kapena abambo ayika Chado panthaka ndikungokhala chifukwa cha iye. Mwana wawo akamakula, salola malingaliro omwe ayenera kupita ku ukapolo.
Zimachitika kuti mwanayo akumva kuti amakakamizidwa kusamalira banja lake, mwachitsanzo, ngati m'modzi watalamwa. M'mwezi uno, mwanayo amakhala yemwe anali mtsogoleri wa banja - amateteza kholo lachiwiri, salola kuwala. Monga lamulo, gawo ili limagwera kwa ana achichepere, omwe makolo "amasiyira okha.
Makolo a m'banjamo mwamphamvu amagwira mwana pafupi, osampatsa mwayi "kuwoneka" kudziko lapansi. Ngakhale munthu ali ndi mwayi wakusuntha, samulola kuti zichitidwe.
Kuyambira ndili mwana, mwanayo amadziona ngati cholumikizira komanso, kukhala okalamba, amakhulupirira kuti banjali lidzasiyana popanda iye, chifukwa chake ayenera kukhala.
Ngati munthu wina wodabwitsayo amasankhidwa ku banja la "madambo", adzatha kukhala ndi mlandu chifukwa chotaya makolo, ndipo kuthekera kwanu ndikuti abwerera.
Monga lamulo, atsikana omwe amagwira ntchito amakhalabe ndi makolo
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Nthawi zambiri, mayiyo amakhala "brake" yosuntha. Makamaka ngati palibe abambo. Kwa mkazi wotero, imfa ili ngati munthu wina wosakwatiwa ndikukhala yekha.
Ngati ndinu oposa 30 ndipo mukumvetsetsa kuti zinthu ziyenera kusintha, ingochitani. Simunakakamizidwa kukhala kapolo wa makolo, chifukwa nthawi zonse mutha kuthandiza achibale, mukakhala mosiyana.
Mtundu wachiwiri. Pindula
Mtundu Wina ndi Achinyamata omwe amakhala m'nyumba ya makolo Kuchokera pazachuma: Nthawi zonse pamakhala nkhomaliro komanso chakudya chamadzulo, simuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama paphwando.
Izi zimachitika pamene m'banjamo ndichikhalidwe chothandizana wina ndi mnzake, miyambo yamphamvu. Makolo sagonjetsedwa kwambiri, ndipo, zonse, zonse zili bwino. Koma ayi. Ndipo pano zimakhala ndi minongo wake.
M'mabanja oterowo "okhazikika" nthawi zambiri atsikana. Akuthamangitsa katswiri wazamisala atangofika pamenepa "30" ayamba motero, ndipo moyo wanu suyenera kudziwikiratu. Nthawi yonseyi, munthu amakhala ndi moyo: pali ndalama zokwanira, palibe mavuto ndi chakudya, simuyenera kulipira ntchito ndi ntchito zomangira nyumba komanso zogwirizana.
Akatswiri amisala amawonetsa mavuto ambiri mwa odwala omwe amakhala m'moyo wotere. Ngakhale anali ndi moyo wabwino popanda mavuto, achinyamata akuvutika ndi kusakhulupirika kwathunthu kudziko lapansi, kumawoneka kwa iwo kuti onse omwe angakhale nawo psyche awo amathyoledwa.
Ndikofunikira kuti banja lanu likhale logwirizana.
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Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, makolo sadzachita izi, ndipo chifukwa chake mtsikana wina kapena mtsikana saona kuti ali ndi moyo pachiwopsezo chake.
Monga momwe zinalili koyamba, mnyamatayo akufunika kudzipatula kuti apange umunthu wathanzi, thandizo la katswiri wazamisala ndi wofunikira.
Mtundu wachitatu. Onse m'banjamo
Atsikana pa mfundo yachiwiri, kusiya pansi pa khola la makolo, mabanja a mabanja ndipo mwadzidzidzi akumvetsetsa kuti tsopano ndiofatsa okha, komanso ana omwe awonekera. Mwacibadwa, amagwira mwamuna ndi ana ake ndikubwerera kwa makolo awo. Monga lamulo, zinthu ngati ngati ngati ngati ngati ngati zimenezi ziliri mizinda ing'onoing'ono, koma zomwe zikugwirizana ndi mibadwo ingapo zimayendetsedwa ku Megalopolis.
Mkazi wachichepere akufunika thandizo la amayi lomwe nthawi zonse limandiuza momwe ndingachitire ndi ana, momwe mungaphikire kwa mwamuna, momwe mungakonzekere. Ndiponso zonse zibwerera ku gulu lakale.
Mwamunayo mu banja loterewu amatha kukhala wopanda pake, ngati sakuvomereza kutsatira malamulo okhazikitsidwa. Mzimayi wopanda chisoni adzasankha nyumba ndi makolo ake kuposa moyo ndi mwamuna wake akuphwanya dongosolo lokhazikika.
Mulimonsemo, lingaliro lokhala ndi moyo padera liyenera kuchokera kwa womaliza, sayenera kupita kuti apange makolo ake. Kupatukana ndi gawo lalikulu lomwe muyenera kukonzekera.