Kuti mulumikizane kwakanthawi kochepa popanda kudzipereka, ndiye momwe mungapangire ubale wokhazikika ndi wovuta kwambiri. Mutha kukhala ndi mavuto andale komanso nkhawa za ana ndi mavuto omwe amafooketsa omwe angafooketse ndi Wosankhidwayo. Ngati mwakumana kale ndi wokondedwa wanu, yesani kugwirira ntchito limodzi. Ndipo iwo amene sanapezeko chikondi, Tikutithandiza.
"Amandiphwanya Mtima"
Popeza adapulumuka kamodzi wodwalayo wokondedwa, udzasamala - izi zimafotokozedwa komanso zabwinobwino. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuyang'ana izi ndikumvetsetsa kuti zolemba zingapo zopanda nzeru sizitanthauza kuti simudzakumana ndi munthu wanu. Osawopa kukumana ndi mavuto olakwika, chifukwa moyo umodzi wabwino sungakhale. Ndikwabwino kuphunzira wosankhidwa mosamala ndikuwerenga zizindikiro zowopsa zomwe zikuwonetsa psyche yosakhazikika, yomwe idzatsogolera kukhazikika. Kufana ndi munthu wokwanira sikungakubweretsereni kwambiri, chifukwa zimakulekanitsa, zikadzachitika, zidzachitika kuti zikankhidwe monkriti moona mtima komanso momwe mungakhalire.
Mantha anu ochokera kumayiko ena
Ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto kuchokera paubwenzi, tengani ma elaboucations pazinthu:
Kodi ndimasankha chisankho chiti chofunikira muubwenziwu?
Kodi ndidapirira zomwe zidandikwiyitsa kapena kukhumudwitsidwa, chifukwa chosunga ubale?
Kodi ndimakonza zibwenzi ndi zigawenga kuti zikope chidwi cha amuna tokha?
Ndabisira malingaliro anga enieni kuti mukhale bwenzi labwino?
Ndidapereka zochulukirapo, koma osamvanso chimodzimodzi?
Atayankha kuti "inde" funso limodzi, muyenera kukwaniritsa mutuwo kapena kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamisala yemwe angathandize kwambiri.
"Sindikufuna kuzolowera"
Nthawi zambiri mumalumikizana ndi munthu, kuyandikirana wina ndi mnzake. Atsikana ambiri amaopa kukondana ndi munthuyo mpaka atawona njira zoyambirira kuchokera kwa iye - zikuwoneka kwa iwo kuti bambo amapita nawo pa tsiku longoyembekezera kugonana. Ngati mukuganiza choncho, muyenera kugwira ntchito modzikuza. Amuna ndi omwe omwewo omwe akuopa kukanidwa ndi munthu yemwe amatha kuwululidwa mwachangu, ngakhale akubisa kumbuyo kwa chigoba "amphongo" Chofunika kwambiri. Pitani kwa munthu wokhala ndi mtima wotseguka ndipo mumve zomwezo kuchokera kwa iye - zimayamikiridwa kanthawi, osatinso chiyembekezo chokwatiwa. Nthawi zambiri madeti angapo okhala ndi munthu wosangalatsa amakhala wofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwanu kuposa ubale wautali wokhala ndi anyamata odalirika omwe alibe chilichonse chogawana nanu.
Lankhulanani ndi anthu osiyanasiyana ndikuwonjezera moyo wanu
"Ndiyenera kupeza njira yosavuta"
Pazifukwa zina, atsikana amakhulupirira kuti amuna okongola akuyang'ana okha - atsikana ocheperako okhala ndi tsitsi lalitali kwambiri. Ndikhulupirireni, nthawi zambiri mwamunayo saganizira ngakhale zokongola - kodi mumakonda kuganizira za maonekedwe anu? Amakumana, koma, musaiwale, atsagana ndi malingaliro. Chithunzi, utoto wa tsitsi komanso mtundu wamaso ungasinthidwe: Mutha kuyerekeza maonekedwe anu. Koma ubongo wabwino superekedwa kwa onse - kukulitsa kwa ambiri. Pimbirani, werengani mabuku apamwamba kwambiri, penyani mafilimu, pitani ku ziwonetserozo ndi zodyera za zakudya zosiyanasiyana, kulumikizana ndi anthu ochokera kudziko lanu ndi alendo. Kenako mudzakopa munthu amene angakhale ndi moyo wokumana ndi moyo wanu komanso kuchuluka kwake, osati kukula kwa matako.