Mkazi wamakono masiku ano amayesa kuchita bwino pamagawo ambiri amoyo. Ndipo akudziwa bwino zomwe bambo ayenera kukhala naye pafupi, amapereka mwayi wonse. Komabe, monga chowonadi cha moyo chikusonyeza, pali amuna omwe sagwirizana naye zabwino. Kodi nchifukwa ninji amayi samapewa "amuna awo"? Kodi amafunika kudziwa chiyani kuti akope ndendende zomwe angasangalale nazo? Pali mitundu ingapo ya magwiridwe awiriawiri. Ndipo musanatchule munthu "wake" ndi chiyembekezo chodzala ndi iye, phunzirani zodabwitsa za moyo wake ndikufananitsani ndi anu.
Mtundu wa Kugwirizana Kwa Kuphatikizidwa 1. "Manja ndi antchito"
Mkazi Wozunzidwa - Malnet kwa Amuna "IYE"
Mbiri 1: Bizinesi komanso mkazi wosungulumwa wokhala ndi banja lonse la amuna kale anaganiza zobereka. Ndinkafuna mtsikana, mwana atachoka. Atakhala mayi, adaganiza zopanga munthu wabwino kwa iye amene amanyadira. Anamufunanda kwambiri, namupititsa m'mabwalo onse, olembetsa olemba anzawo, adampatsa maphunziro abwino, kwa iye, amangokhala kwa Iye yekha, kwa Iye, ndipo anali wonyada Iye kuti agawane nawo. Iye anati: "Amayi yekha, komanso akazi ambiri. Amayi sakulangizani molakwika, mverani amayi ndi zonse zikhala bwino ndi inu! " Anaika mokwanira zofuna za amayi ake kuti asamukhumudwitse, chifukwa iye ndi kunyada kwanga! Wakwanitsa kale ku Instailation, nateteza munthu wake kuti ali ndi ntchito zasayansi, kufalitsa. Koma nthawi ipita, ndipo amayi ake akukonzekera kale dziko la ena ndipo ayenera kudutsa Mwanayo m'manja, popeza amafunikira chisamaliro. Kwa zaka zambiri, mwamunayo wazolowera kale, amayi ake akufuna kuti akhale mwana wamwamuna, monga lamulo, pa odziwana, "Dzanja" ndi mwana wanga, amamuphunzitsa chilichonse kuti amakonda, ndi kupatsa Mwana wake m'manja mwa manja.
Monga lamulo, azimayi awa ali osungulumwa kwambiri komanso achisoni, okhala ndi nkhope ya otayika, ozunzidwa, ngati kuti anali - mwayi wake womaliza. Akazi amtundu woterewa adzasangalala kutumikira, kusamalira ndi kudzipereka okha, chifukwa sakudziwa momwe angachitire ndikufunsa, pamene akukonzedwa ndi Cinderere syndrome.
Mtundu wa Kugwirizana 2
Mtsogoleri Wakazi - Maginito a Anthu "Mamajna Ana"
Mbiri 2: M'banja, komwe mtsogoleri wa Amayi, ana awiri akukula - mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi. Koma pazifukwa zina, amayi adaganiza kuti mwana wawo wamkazi chifukwa chibadwa anali odziyimira pawokha, ndipo Mwana ndi "Mchira wa Amayi". Ndimakonda kwambiri, timakonda kukumbatirana, kusamalira ndikulandila zonse - mosiyana ndi mlongo wake yemwe amachita zonse. Mnyamatayu wakula ndipo anakulira m'njira yoyendetsa bwino yomwe siyotha kupanga zisankho kapena kuti akwaniritse zotsatira zake. Ndi waulesi kwambiri, amakonda komanso amasangalala. Imakopa chidwi ndi azimayi ogwira ntchito (ngati mayi), omwe nthawi zonse amasilira komanso amasangalala. Amakonda kukhala pakhosi ndikupumira miyendo. Ngati zili zopindulitsa, amatha kumvetsera kwambiri, mwachikondi, anasangalala. Nthawi zonse pezani chifukwa chosachita chilichonse. Ayenera kukhala wolimbikitsidwa kwambiri kotero kuti anachitapo kanthu. "Simenkin Mwana" samachita chilichonse chochita! Koma amafunsidwa mosalekeza, ndipo mwaluso komanso, monga lamulo, zonse zimachitika.
Amuna oterewa amakopa atsogoleri ("mame"), azimayi osasangalala ndi khungu "sabwera"; Onsewa amadziwa ndipo nthawi zonse amapereka upangiri nthawi zonse, ngakhale zikawafunsa, kukonda 'komanso kuchita chilichonse paokha. Ali ndi ubongo - gawo la erogenous! Ndipo ngati amuna awo ampatsa thandizo lawo, ndiye kuti, monga lamulo, anati: "Ine ndekha!"
Mtundu wazogwirizana 3
Mkazi Wanzeru - Matsenga kwa Amuna "Atsogoleri Ochita Zojambula
Mbiri 3: Mnyamatayo Anakulira M'banja momwe Mama. Kuyambira ndili mwana, adawona amayi ake ambiri, akutopa, komanso ku Bayisito alibe chiyembekezo (zakumwa, nthawi zambiri amasiya ntchito, zosintha, nthawi zambiri zimasowa). Amanong'oneza bondo mayi nati: "Ndikadzakula, ndidzakusamalirani ndi kukuthandizani." Mnyamatayo anakulira ndipo anayamba kunyamuka banja kuti aphunzire kukhala munthu, popeza bambo ake si citsanzo comphukira. Amalemekeza kwambiri azimayi ndipo nthawi zonse amapereka thandizo lake. Amalota kuti mwa banja lake mtsogoleri wake anali, ndipo amachita zonse zomwe azimayi anali m'malo omwe amafunikira, ndipo adawapulumutsa ndipo anali ofunikira komanso ofunikira. Zimapita ku akatswiri a anthu: Walamulo, asitikali, asitikali, asitikali, ntchito ya zochitika zadzidzidzi, FSURDF, STRARDER, Woyang'anira dongosolo; Amapeza aphunzitsi amuna okhala ndi mikhalidwe ya utsogoleri kuti alowe m'malo mwa Atate wake ndikuphunzitsa kuti akhale Mtsogoleri. Kwa amuna amenewa ("atsogoleri ochita kupanga), palibe chomwe chimafunikira ngati munthu akakhalabe, ndiye kuti moyo wawo udalephera. Chifukwa chake amuna ayenera kuzindikira akazi olimba mtima. Nthawi zonse amafunikira kuti azilimbikitsa zochita ndikusilira luso lawo komanso zomwe amachita.
Ndi amuna amtunduwu, mzimayi wanzeru amagwirizana ndi mayi wanzeru yemwe amadziwa kudzoza moyenera ndikunyadira ndi munthu. Ndipo ngati mkazi mtsogoleri wagwera, ayenera kumwa bambo, kumwa, kapena kuyenda.
Mtundu wa Kugwirizana 4
Mkazi Wofooka - Maginito A Amuna "Atsogoleri Oona
Mbiri 4: Mnyamatayo anakulira m'banja, kumene Abambo ndi mtsogoleri, ndipo ndiye wolowa wake, akuyembekeza kuti bizinesiyo ipitilizebe. Ali ndi mikhalidwe yobadwa nayo pomwe ali wamkulu! Ndipo udindo wa mkazi wake ndi woona. Moyenera kuyenera kukhala namwali, kuti awonekere pamaso pake pamene iye amafuna, ndipo mumubereke mwana wathanzi. Mayankho onse akuluakulu amatenga, malingaliro a mkazi samafunsa. Ayenera kungokhala, kuwoneka bwino, nthawi zonse kukhala mukusangalala, popanda mutu, kumatenga nawo mbali polera ana osafunsa kuti: "Kodi mudzakuyembekezerani?" Nthawi zonse !!! Monga lamulo, azimayi awa sagwira ntchito kapena amapatsidwa ndalama ndi amuna awo, chifukwa ziyenera kufanana ndi momwe alili.
Ndi amuna amtunduwu, azimayi ndi ogwirizana ndi ofooka m'chilengedwe, okonzeka kusintha, osati mawu. Pankhaniyi, abambo ali ndi mikhalidwe ya utsogoleri yobadwa nayo.
Chifukwa chake dziwitsani manenelo, atsikana okondedwa! Ndinu ndani komanso zomwe zimakuchitirani zachipongwe ... kumbukirani kuti kudzisintha tokha, timasintha malingaliro athu, chifukwa chokopa anthu ena.
Ndipo ngati mutaganiza izi mwaganiza zosintha komwe mukupita, ndiye Pangani zotsatirazi:
1. Lembani zinthu zisanu za amuna omwe mudakhala nawo pachibwenzi, mupangitse kusanthula ubale wakale kuti mumvetsetse kuti mumakopa ndani.
2. Lembani 5 mwa "Makhalidwe Anu" Amunthu Wangwiro womwe mukufuna kukumana.
3. Malinga ndi "amuna" ake "amadzifunsa kuti:" Ndipo akufunika mkazi wanji? "
4. Lembani mkhalidwe wanu waukulu womwe ungasangalale ndi mwamuna.
5. Pendani mkazi amene amafunikira munthu wabwino komanso kuti mutha kupereka munthuyu. Dziperekeni nokha ngati funso, kutali ndi mzimayi wa mkazi wanu wangwiro ndi zomwe muyenera kugwira ntchito? Kodi muyenera kuphunzira chiyani osati zachiwerewere? Kusagwirizana ndi kudikirira kumabweretsa kusungulumwa.