Pakapita nthawi tikakhala ndi banja - zitha kukhala ndi zaka 20, chifukwa chikondi chatha, palibe chosangalatsa mu mgwirizano wanu, ndipo mwina patatha zaka 20 pambuyo pakulimbana. Koma nthawi zambiri sitingapeze mnzake wina, chifukwa akale amakhala m'mutu mwanga, kapena akuyenda tsiku, timamvetsetsa kuti ndimakonda wakale. Imadutsa miyezi ingapo, ndipo mumayambanso kulankhula, kenako mukufunanso kuyesanso. Kodi idzagwira ntchito?
Osabwereza zolakwa zakale
Kupezanso kofunikira kwambiri ndi kalelo ndikukumbukira zolakwa zake ndikuzibwereza kwa kachiwiri. Ndikofunikira kuwoneka mozama paubwenzi wanu. Palibe chifukwa choti musaganize kuti ubale wanu udzakhala wowoneka bwino mu buku la matsenga and. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu chachikulu munthawi yanu ndikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Sizingatheke kumanga ubale, kukumbukira zolakwa zakale ndi mkwiyo. Ndikofunikira kukambirana zamitundu yonse pasadakhale, chifukwa chomwe mungakhalepo osasangalatsa kapena mikangano. Muyenera kupita zonse zomwe zinali ndisanalowerere. Ingoganizirani kuti mukayang'ana m'moyo watha, ndiye kuti mutembenukire mu chiwiya chopanda mchere, monga mkazi wa Loti akuthamanga kuchokera ku Sodomu.
Mkhalidwe waukulu wogwirizananso ndi kalelo ndikukumbukira zolakwa zawo ndipo osabwereza nthawi yachiwiri
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Tengani mayankho
Osatenthetsa, muziganiza bwino zosankha zanu zonse mukakhala paubwenzi ndi wakale. Khalani odekha munthawi iliyonse ndipo musayankhule, ngakhale mutakhala mkazi wotentha kwambiri, pa zingwe. Kumbukirani izi ndikudzisunga m'manja mwanu, osapereka mikhalidwe ndi malingaliro kuti mutengere inu. Mabanja ena amakumana nthawi ndi nthawi yogonana. Sitingalangize izi. Mwanjira imeneyi, ndizotheka kuvulaza malingaliro ake - uwu ndi ubale wosamvetsa chisoni.
Sitikulangizani kuti mukwaniritse zakale nthawi ndi nthawi yogonana
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Chikhumbo chikuyenera kukhala
Chimodzi mwazizindikiro zofunika kwambiri kuti mutha kuyesa kupanga chikondi ngati nonse mukufuna kukhazikitsa chilichonse. Ngati wina ndi m'modzi wa abwenzi, iyi si chizindikiro chabwino. Nthawi yokwanira itatha, mudatha kuganiza mosamala ubale wanu ndikuzindikira kuti ngakhale mukudziwa wina ndi mnzake, muyenera kuyesanso. Ngati, litatha, mumakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, kupezekanso ndi zomwe kale kungagwire ntchito. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwapeza chidziwitso ndi munthu wina, komanso kuzindikirika muzochitika ngati chikondi chanu chenicheni.
Dala! Nthawi zina muyenera kuti muyambenso kukhala ndi nthawi yachiwiri kuti musiye phunziro la moyo.