Maholide ali kale pamphuno. Ambiri a ife timakondwera: Chaka chatsopano - kukonzanso mamita onse, kungokhala, sabata ya tchuthi, kumapeto. Ndipo mwayi uwu wokondwerera ndi kusangalala, womwe ndi wofunikira kwambiri munthawi yovuta ngati iyi. Zowona, ngakhale pachaka chomwe amakonda kwambiri ndipo palibe Khrisimasi yosakonda kwambiri: malinga ndi ziwerengero, masiku atamaliza tchuthi, chiwerengero cha omwe amadana ndi odwala omwe amadwala kwambiri. Kodi chifukwa chake ndi chiyani? Timamvetsetsa momwe tingapulumutsire anthu achikondwerero ndikusunga thanzi lathupi komanso thanzi.
M'banja lathu, Bustingle nthawi zonse inkayamba mu miyezi iwiri ndi theka usiku wamtengo wapatali ndipo ndinasiya masika. Ndipo mpaka pano: Pakati-Okutobala ambiri amakondwerera tsiku lobadwa la amayi, kenako, pambuyo pa Khrisimasi Yakatolika Hava akubwera, chifukwa chake tidalemekeza kwambiri. Kenako chaka chatsopanochokha, ndiye Khrisimasi, chaka chakale. Pamapeto pa Januware, agogo, mchimwene, mu oyamba, omwe makolowo amakondwerera tsiku laukwati, kenako agogo 23, mwachidule, ndikudziwa kuyambira ndili mwana Kodi "mpikisano wachikondwerero" ndi chiyani. Mu Kingrgarten, sindinasiye kukakamiza, guluu ndikujambula zaluso, kunyumba - kuphunzitsa ndakatulo tsiku lokhazikitsidwa ndi ola limodzi ndipo agologolo. Zinkawoneka kuti tikukhala ndi zochitika zina zingapo zofunika.
Ngati mavuto omwe akubwera chifukwa palibe chisangalalo chosangalatsa, koma alamu pakakhala nthawi yoima ndikumamvetsera
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Mutha kufunsa zoipa pano? Mfundo yoti ilipo pa tchuthi chinkandikhudza, inenso ndinayandikira pafupi zaka makumi atatu. Izi zisanachitike, ine ndimakonda kusokonezeka pafupi ndi kugwa, ndiye kuti nkhawa zimachitika pa Chaka Chatsopano cha Chaka Chatsopano, nthawi yozizira idali m'malo opsinjika, kubwerera ku kamvekedwe kanthawi koyandikira nyengo yotentha. Kenako zinawoneka kuti vinyo wathunthu wa kuzizira, masiku ofupikira, usiku wautali ... Ndipo nditatenga "ndikuikidwa" kwa zikondwerero za mabanja. Ndinayamika amayi anga, koma ndinanyalanyaza tsiku lobadwa langa, ndinakumana ndi chaka chatsopano ku Pajamas, osati tchuthi sichinatuluke ndi abwenzi. M'mawu, ine ndimakonda kuiwala zochitika zambiri komanso - za chozizwitsa! "Pakati pa February, aliyense akadwala matenda a avitaminosis ndipo amadwala, kumverera kwachilendo komanso thanzi (ndipo pang'ono kuti musawonekere kwa tchuthi chabanja, koma kenako).
Pambuyo pake ndidakumana ndi lingaliro la maphwando ambiri (omasuliridwa kuchokera ku Chingerezi "ambiri tusovok"). Imakhala yosangalatsa mwachangu, ndipo tchuthi chosatha chitha kukhala "zochuluka." Izi "zochuluka" zimakhudza mkhalidwe wathu wamanjenje, osaperekadi zokumana nazo zovomerezeka. Zikhala kunja, pachabe, timanong'oneza bondo kuti tsiku lobadwa (monga masiku ena ofunikira) "kamodzi pachaka"?
Komabe, "masiku ofiira a" Kandalanda "" amapangitsa kuti zisakhale zopanda pake zokhazokha za omwe kale adatumula. KODI munayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti anthu osungulumwa amakhala achisoni kukondwerera zochitika zokha, pomwe banja limayendera pafupi ndi okondedwa awo. Komabe, masiku ofunikira, omwe ali ndi mabanja, ofunikira amakhala ndi chivundikiro m'malo mosangalala pamapewa, ntchito yokonzekera tebulo, zosangalatsa za alendo, kuyeretsa ... Aliyense ali ndi mbiri yake yomwe ingathe kuphimba chisangalalo chowala ndi chiyembekezo cha chozizwitsa. Momwe mungachitire kuti musadzitaye ndikusunga kudabwitsa
Ndipo sangalalani?
Dziko silitha kugwa ngati mungaletse mpikisano wosangalatsa, zomwe onse ayenera kuyesedwa pa Chaka Chatsopano cha Chaka Chatsopano
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Kodi ndi nthawi yanji?
- Ngati, m'malo moyembekezera chisangalalo, mukumva kuti mtambo ukubwera pa inu, ndipo mavuto omwe akubwera sakupangitsa kuti tchuthi chomwe chikubwerachi chikhale mayeso anu. Mwina chaka chino chimamveka kuti mudumphe zosangalatsa zachikhalidwe ndikumvetsera?
- Ngati mukungoganiza za momwe Eva ya chaka chatsopano imagwirira ntchito, kukhala masiku ndi masabata, kusankha zovala ndi zowonjezera za zomwe zikubwerazo, kwa miyezi ingapo adazinyamula, ndikung'amba abale anu ndipo abwenzi, omwe "sachita molingana ndi mapulani" Kumverera kwa kukwera kwambiri, kudikirira kosavomerezeka kwa nthawi ya machesi, zitakhala, koma osangalala, akuwonetsa momwe mungasangalalire ndi moyo pano ndi pano.
- Ngati simukufuna chikondwerero, ngati palibe chokhumudwitsani, mphamvu ndi chikhumbo, palibe chilichonse chowopsa! Dziko silitha kuwonongeka ngati mungaletse mpikisano wothamanga, womwe, popanda chowonjezera, uyenera kudziwa chaka chatsopano. Ndikhulupirireni, sipadzakhalanso nthawi yabwinoko kuposa nthawi yoyambira kuti mudzipereke nokha mphatso yofunika kwambiri - kuthekera kosiya aliyense "wofunikira" ndikuchita zomwe mukufuna.
Atatu Ofunika "Osati"
1. Osadikirira. M'malo mwake, dikirani ndi malingaliro - upangiri wotere umapereka akatswiri azamisala kwa aliyense amene akufuna kufulumizitsa kubwera kwa maholide. Osatsegulanso chiyembekezo chachikulu cha Eva Chaka Chatsopano, mwinanso mudzakhala zokhumudwitsa. Iwalani za mawu oti "Momwe mungakwaniritsire, mudzakhala."
2. Osakonzekera. Pang'ono pang'onopang'ono, kulola bizinesi iliyonse ndi mapulani a Samnek - sichita luso, ndi luso! M'zaka zonse ziwiri "nthawi zonse" timakhala pa pensulo "kanthu kamng'ono chilichonse, nthawi zina ndikoyenera kuti zisungidwe zinthu ndi" chizolowezi "pokonzekera zikondwerero.
3. Osalondola. Pangani mphatso kwa okondedwa anu komanso mlendo - musayese kuwawongolera zikhumbo ndi zolakalaka kuti zisangalatse momwe angafunire. Khalani Mlendo Wothokoza: Ngati munaitanidwa kuphwando la phokoso, simuyenera kudandaula kuti muli ndi mutu kuchokera kufuula ndi nyali zowala.
Kwambiri
Aliyense wa ife akhoza kugwidwa mu "chikondwerero cha chikondwerero", pakakhala chifukwa china, mphuno, chisoni, kukhumba ndi kukhumudwa zimagwidwa m'malo mosangalala. Ndipo ngakhale chochitikacho chikafika pamlingo woyenera, mukakhumudwitsani, chisoni, kukhumudwa.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndikuti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta ku Haanda "nyengo yayikulu" kapena kunyalanyaza maholide m'dziko lathu nthawi zambiri kumakhala koyipa. Tsitsani "ora losangalatsa" mutha chifukwa chongoganiza movomerezeka, apo ayi simudzamvetsetsa.
Koma mukuvomereza, ichi ndi udindo waukulu - kukonzekera kuti patsiku lako wosakulimbikitsani, osakwiya, osatopa. Tinakhala usiku kuyambira pa Disembala 31 mpaka Januware 1, kotero kuti chaka chotsatira chachita bwino, timakhala opanikizika kwambiri kuchokera ku media ndi okondedwa athu komanso anzathu.
Msungwana wanga Rita chaka chilichonse anali wokonzeka kwambiri zikondwerero za dzinja. Anayamba kusankha mphatso patatha chaka chatsopano chisanachitike, mosamala komanso molingana ndi nthawi yabwino pantchito, tsiku lililonse atatha ntchito, kupita kumalo ogulitsira malo ogulitsira. Banja lonse linakakamizidwa kupanga zojambula ndi matanga, omwe kenako adakongoletsa nyumbayo. Sabata la X "lisanayambe kutsukidwa, kuvala mtengo wa Khrisimasi, womwe umakongoletsedwa ndi zoseweretsa (nkhani yake, mwachilengedwe. Tsiku loti tchuthi chisanayambe kukonzekera tebulo lomwe linali ndi mbale khumi, osati zochepa. Zosankha ziwiri za chill, zosankha zitatu za olivier (kuphatikizapo makeke, ndi makeke a khansa), zokhala ndi zotentha. kavalidwe (makamaka m'mitundu ya kubwera kwa chaka). Alendo okhutira ndi mabanja otopa pang'ono adadzazidwa ndi zikondwerero ndipo adadya, mtsikanayo adakhala pampando ndipo adagona pamenepo mpaka m'mawa. Kumayambiriro kwa tsiku latsopano la Chaka Chatsopano, Rita anali atayimitsidwa kale ndi kuzama ndi sopo wa mapiri a mbale. Ndinkachezera katatu kapena katatu ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikayang'ana chithunzi chomwechi. Pakufunsa kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani?" "Adamupeza manja ake modzidzimutsa:" Chabwino, chifukwa amalandiridwa ... tchuthi. "
Nkhani yomweyo idachitika m'banja lathu. Choyamba, agogo ake aamunawo anali malo omwe omwe adatikonzera chaka chatsopano pamapewa awo, osalola pakati pawo. Ndipo ntchito imeneyi ikagwa pamapewa anga, ine ndinangokhala ndi vuto la "ine. Ndikuganiza. Ndiye kodi ndikufuna kukondwerera? Ndikufuna zosangalatsa zonse izi: Kuphika kangapo, kumayendetsa ozungulira mabanja omwe samvera malangizo anga, a Paragne, omwe samangoyerekeza tchuthi.
Ndipodi, tikadzakula, matsenga nthawi zambiri amapezeka. Zimamveka bwino kuti dongosolo langwiro, lokoma kuchitira mtengo wa Khrisimasi ndi mphatso zazitali pansi pake si malingaliro okha pa chikondwererochi, koma ntchito zomwe zimafunikira mayankho. Ndipo mmalo mwa chiyembekezo cha ana chozizwitsa, timakhala ndi vuto la udindo, tchuthi chimasanduka chovala.
Kuti mupewe izi, ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse izi tchuthi chenicheni. Lemberani miyambo ndi zizolowezi zomwe mudasamutsidwa kwa achikulire okalamba. Ndizofunikira komanso zamtengo wapatali, koma siziyenera kusintha zomwe mukufuna. Yesani kumvetsetsa momwe mungafunire tsiku lino. Kodi mphatso yanu ingakuthandizeni bwanji? Kodi chisangalalo chingasangalale bwanji, chodekha? Konzekerani kuti zochitika zoyambirira zomwe mungangokhalira ... osanyalanyaza. Izi ndi zachilengedwe: muyenera kuyang'ana kupuma.
Kumverera kwa kukwera kwambiri, kuyembekezera kwa nthawi ya X, pomwe zikakhala kuti zikukondwerera, zikuwonetsa kuti mukuvutika ndi chizindikiro cha moyo wosadikirira
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Ndidachita "kuchokera kumbali ina": Ndalemba mndandanda wazomwe ndingachite chaka chatsopano komanso patchuthi. Anakhala wosangalatsa. Zinakhala pokhapokha ngati titagona pakama, ndikutenga olivier ogundidwa naye (kuphika anali mu mndandanda wanga "woyima"), penyani mndandanda ndi kugona. Ndazichita. Pofunafuna zovala zokongola komanso zokongola, atagona zovala zamkati zatsopano, ndinagona pabedi ndi chiwonetsero cha TV ndipo sindinadzuke madzulo onse. Mwina nditha kuyimbira tchuthi chimenecho chabwino kwambiri m'moyo. Komabe, chaka chamawa ndimafuna kupita kukacheza - ndipo ndinatsatira zikhumbo zanga. Ndipo kenako ndinabwera kwa ine kudziwitsa umboni: Tchuthi ndi pamene mungakwanitse kuchita zomwe ndikufuna.
Kuyambira tsiku ndi tsiku
... Koma mendulo, monga mukudziwa, mbali zonse ziwiri. Kodi mungakhale bwanji ngati mumakonda kuchita zinthu zonse zodzikongoletsera zomwe mukufuna, koma nthawi iliyonse mukachoka nyengo ino kuposa? Akatswiri azamankhwala, monga nthawi zonse, bweretsani ndemanga zotopetsa. Imakhala kuti ikulakalaka kulonjera, nkhondo ya mbime, tsiku lobadwa lapitalo ndi zochitika zina zazikulu (ngati adutsa, monga momwe mungafunire) - iyi ndi chikhalidwe chathu. Tikukhala m'dziko loyerekeza, kuyenderana masana kumapeto kwa sabata, tchuthi chokhala ndi ma marathons, masiku ndi usiku, pomaliza. Ngati mukukumbukira phwandolo ndikulota za kupitiliza kwa phwandolo, koma nthawi yomweyo pitilizani kukhala ndi moyo, kutenga ndi kusangalala kwakanthawi, izi ndizomveka komanso zabwinobwino. Koma ngati milungu ndi miyezi idutsika ngati chifunga, pomwe mukuyembekezera "iks tsiku", Ichi ndi chifukwa chaganizidwe kale.
Amuna asychorapists amakumana ndi izi kawirikawiri: Makasitomala awo ambiri sakhala ndi moyo wokhazikika pakati pa zochitika zofunika kwambiri pakati pa zochitika zofunika kwambiri, Chaka. Pambuyo pake, adayamba kudikirira Khrisimasi, ndiye kuti chete kuyembekezera pa February 23 ... mawu oyamba pano "amazizira". Vuto la anthu omwe amakonda kwambiri tchuthi ndikuti sangathe kupeza nthawi zosangalatsa mu imvi tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, izi m'moyo wathu zimakhala zochulukirapo! Ndipo chimatuluka ndi chiyani? Zomwe timadumphira masiku wamba ambiri ngati kuti ndikuletsa kukhoza kusangalala mpaka chikondwerero chotsatira.
Palibe chodabwitsa kuti iwo omwe akuvutika kale ndi ine mwa ine mwa ine ndi vuto lalikulu la maphwando amakumana ndi zenizeni. Ali ngati mu chitoliro cha utali cha khumi ndi chimodzi, kuwombera zomwe zingatheke kutchula tchuthi.
Ponyani malingaliro anu apakale pazomwe Hava ndi tchuthi chotsatira muyenera kukhala. Amayang'ana kumbuyo ndikuwulula zomwe zikuchitika pano ndipo tsopano!
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Ngati mwazindikira dziko lotere, ndikofunikira kuti mubwererenso kwa omwe alipo ndikuphunzira kukhalabe nanu komanso ena pano. Poyamba zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri, ngakhale zowawa. Mutha kukhala osabereka komanso opanda chidwi, osagwirizana ndi ntchito ndi abwenzi. Ndikukumbukira momwe mnzanga wakhalira, mnzake wa Vlad, adazindikira kuti moyo wake wonse udali "maphwando," monga adafotokozera, ndi masiku opanga matope pakati pawo. Mukakhala kuti mikodi yopita kudziko lapansi inatsala, ndipo anakumana ndi moyo weniweniwo. "Ndimakonda kupita kudzenje," anaulula. Tinakumana pambuyo pa mliri woyamba mliri unayamba kutha. Vlad anali wokondwa komanso wokondwa, anamveka ngati atangobwera kumeneku kapena anakondwerera tsiku lobadwa ake. "Ndinkayenda bwino kwambiri chifukwa cha kukondwerera komwe ndinayamba kuwongolera tchuthi. Tsiku lililonse".
Mzanga, popanda kumvetsetsa, adagwiritsa ntchito mwayi wogwira ntchito, yomwe imatulutsa mkatimo mkati mwa "dzenje" kuthokoza. Iye ndi wosavuta komanso wonyozeka. Chofunika cha iye ndichakuti, osadikirira zifukwa zogwiritsira ntchito, zomwe zimaperekedwa kumapeto kwa sabata kapena masiku ofunikira, khalani ngati tsiku loti tsiku lijali. Kuuziridwa ndi nkhani yodziwika bwino, ndidaganiza zoyesera. Kwa mwezi umodzi, "motero" adalamulira chakudya chokoma kuchokera ku malo odyera, adagula zinthu zazing'ono zazing'ono, adalola kuti azifunidwa mu bafa la thovu ... ndipo mukudziwa chiyani? "Eva New Eva (yemwe ali ndi" Sindikakhala ndi nthawi, sindingathe kukonzekera tebulo, mphatso zanga, zomwe ndandiyang'ana kuyambira pa Disembala, sindinandiwonetseko.
Akatswiri azamankhwala amati kuthekera kopangitsa maholide kuti asiye okhateke, okonzedwa, odzala ndi chimwemwe ndi mphamvu kuti akhale ndi moyo, ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zakukula. Ponyani malingaliro anu apakale pazomwe Hava ndi tchuthi chotsatira muyenera kukhala. Amayang'ana kumbuyo ndikuwulula zomwe zikuchitika pano ndipo tsopano! Sangalalani ndi chimphona ndikuphika, osayiwala kumvetsera ndi kumva. Ndipo, zoona, ndikubwera inu mukubwera!