Onupolators amapezeka m'miyoyo yathu kumadera onse, koma owopsa ali pano, pafupi ndi ife. Awa ndi makolo athu. Nthawi zambiri opatsa kholo-kholo amapereka kuyamwa kwambiri - mwana wake, chifukwa samasamba chilichonse chokhudza izi ndipo, koposa, osapita kulikonse, ndipo wamkulu amadziwa. Mwana sakumva kwakanthawi kuti vutoli lili kutali, koma mulimonse momwe amadzivutikira, omwe akukumana ndi abale ake. Mwana wotereyu amakula ndi phokoso lamisala yonse, kuti athetse zomwe zili zosakwana chaka chimodzi muofesi ya psychotherapist. Masiku ano tinaganiza zonga kuti malembedwe angawerengeredwe poizoni komanso momwe angathanirane ndi zowawa zotere.
"Koma mwana wa Tamnashin ..."
Zoseketsa zoseketsa, zomwe zidawoneka pamaneti angapo obwerera, zenizeni sizosangalatsa. Solomo anali kuti "mwana wamwamuna wa bwenzi la amayi" ali bwino nthawi zonse kuposa inu, ndipo inunso, ndiosowa kwambiri. Ndondomekozi nthawi zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito poizoni kuti: "Iwe ukuyang'ana kumene Sasa adalowa! Simungaloledwe mkati. "Ndipo onse mu mzimu pambuyo pa amayi atalankhula ndi mnzake, yemwe mwana wake adakwanitsa kuyunivesite yotchuka. Nthawi zoterewu, kunyalanyaza kwathunthu kwa mwana kumayamba, kholo likuyesera kuti 'lizithana ndi mavuto "osokonezeka, potero ndikupangitsa kuvulala kwambiri komwe wamkulu nawonso angathane ndi wamisala wake.
"Nthawi zonse ndili bwino!"
Mayeso a kholo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chidwi ndi Narcissus. Mtundu uwu ndi wosowa, koma mwina ndi m'modzi mwa mitundu yosasangalatsa ya makolo oopsa. Mawu ofanana ndi achibale oterowo adzakhala: "Ndizachilendo, mumakonda mwamuna wanu ngati china chake, ndipo ndimayang'ana kwambiri kuposa inu." Palibe chopanda vuto pano - pamakhala kudekha kwa mwana wanu, kuti ndikwabwino kuwoneka bwino m'maso mwake.
Kholo loopsa nthawi zonse limalepheretsa zoyesayesa zonse za mwana
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"Ndiwe wachimwemwe kwambiri?"
Makolo amtunduwu amabweretsa misampha yamtsogolo komanso anthu osokoneza kwambiri. Ana mu mabanja oterowo sangakhalepo, ngakhale zofooka za m'munsi ngati kudya maswiti chakudya, kholo limaloza mlandu wonse. Mwanayo nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito zonse za kholo, kale, ngati kuli nthawi, ndikuchita zomwe zili ngati iye, koma mwachilengedwe, sizimangokhala ndi ntchito zina popanda chidziwitso chake.
Kodi pali njira yothetsera ubale wa paixi ndi kholo lanu?
Gwiritsitsani mtunda
Njira yosavuta yochepetsera mavuto a kholo ndilotali. Nthawi zambiri, mwana amakhala wovuta kupatukana ndi abale awo, ngakhale atakhala m'nyumba yake, koma ali woyenera kuyamba kufunafuna njira zopewera ndi anthu oopsa, mumayamba kumva bwino, komanso malingaliro obwera chifukwa chobwerera. sichikuwuka.
Pezani thandizo
Monga kuthandizidwa ndi kudzoza kungakhale ngati abale ena, komanso abwenzi abwino omwe adzapeze mawu oyenera komanso pang'onopang'ono, koma mabala anu amachira. Mutha kuuza ena okondedwa mwa mzimu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti malingaliro osalimbikitsa sangakudyani kuchokera mkati.
Osawopa kulumikizana ndi katswiri
Tikuopabe maofesi a akatswiri amisala ndi psychoyalysts, ngakhale nthawi zambiri iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera mavuto anu. Ngati pali mwayi wotere, pezani katswirina pamodzi ndi makolo anga, mwina sazindikira kuti kuvulaza nthawi yonseyi kukugwiritsani ntchito ndi njira zawo zoleredwa.