Amakhulupirira kuti atsikana ambiri amakana kugonana ndi, komwe nthawi zambiri amakhala chifukwa choranda kwa amuna. Komabe, komabe, momwe mnzanu sakanakakamira kuyandikira, pali nthawi zina zomwe zikuyenera kukupangitsani kuti mupange kulumikizana kwambiri.
Munthu alibe zolinga zazikulu
Amuna oterewa amakonda mawu ngati "inu abwino kwambiri, wokondedwa, koma sindikutsimikiza kuti tili ndi chochita nafe," pomwe akuumirira kugonana. Inde, mwina mumamukonda kwambiri, komabe, ngati mungapangitse mapulani a ubale uno, mutha kukhumudwitsa zotulukazi: mungodzikhumudwitsa zake: zimangomva zake, ndiko kugonana, ndipo mudzakhala nokha ndi maloto anu osweka.
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Kugonana tsiku loyamba
Amuna ena satsutsana nawo ngati mungavomereze kupitiliza tsiku loyamba kunyumba kwake. Zowonadi, azimayi ambiri amakonza gawo lotereli, koma m'mawa upitenso kunyumba ndipo sungathenso kukumana ndi munthuyu. Chifukwa chake malingaliro ofukula tsiku loyamba ayenera kukuchenjezani ndikumvetsetsa kuti munthu amafunikiradi kwa inu. Osafulumira ngati munthu akukusangalatsani, adzadikirira ndipo sadzaumiriza kuyandikira tsiku loyamba.
Ndinu opezeka kwambiri
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Ndinu achichepere kwambiri
Tsoka ilo, atsikana amakono amaganiza kuti ngati sagona ndi anthu ambiri, adzatengedwa ngati ali ndi cholakwika. Mu funde ili, atsikana ambiri amasemphana ndi zikhumbo zawo ndikuvomera kugonana ndi omwe safuna, koma chilengedwe sichimamvetsetsa. Kumbukirani, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi chikhumbo chanu. Simuyenera kukwaniritsa zoyembekezera za abale ndi anzanu.
Simukudziwa bambo
Kwa masiku ochepa ndizosatheka kumvetsetsa yemwe kwenikweni ndi munthu. Palibe amene anganene pasadakhale zovuta zomwe zimasokonezeka mwakuthupi komanso m'maganizo zidapulumuka munthuyu ndipo zitha kukhala ndi iye yekhayo. Kugonana kuchokera kwa inu sikungapite kulikonse, ndipo za chitetezo chanu ndikofunika kuganiza osati kuthamangira.
Mukukhulupirira
Mwinanso lingaliro loti kukula kwa nsapato ndi kutalika kwa zala zikunena za zabwino zotheka, sizisintha, pomwe azimayi ali okonzeka kuzikhulupirira. Kumbukirani kuti wovina wabwino sanadziwe kugona. Chikhulupiriro pazizindikiro zimatha kusewera nanu nthabwala yankhanza.
Mulimonsemo, musanaganize zogonana ndi munthu watsopano, kuyerekeza chilichonse ndi kutsutsana, mverani malingaliro anu, ndi okhulupilika kwambiri.