Popeza anali kucheza ndi mnzanu watsopano, ife, monga lamulo, mwachikondi ndi munthu wachikondi ndi munthu - amakhululukidwa pa chilichonse, ndipo zinthu zina zimadziwika ngati mawonekedwe okongola. Komabe, ngakhale sitimaphunzira kuzindikira mavuto omwe ali ndi mavuto mpaka nditasankha kudzipereka ndi ukwati, kuchuluka kwa mabanja sikudzachepetsedwa. Lero tidaganiza zopezedwa nthawi zina zomwe kulibe anthu okhwima pafupi ndi inu, komanso mwana wamkulu.
Amayi nthawi zonse amabwera
Zachidziwikire, pokhudzana ndi amuna, mutha kudziwa zambiri za momwe munthu angakuchitireni, koma chikondi chambiri kumbali zonse - amayi ndi mwana - amatha kukhala cholepheretsa kumanga banja lolimba. Ndipo amayi ake amadziwa zake mwangwiro za izi, motero musayesenso kukangana naye - nthawi yomweyo amakhudza ubale wanu ndi mwamuna. Ngati mwazolowera kudzilamulira kwathunthu, khalani okonzeka kupirira ndi kukhalapo kwa munthu wachitatu m'moyo wanu - amayi ake, mwa ana ake satha kumanga ubale.
Mwamuna wotere sangathe kukupatsani chitetezo
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Samatenga udindo
Ndipo sikuti chifukwa chosafuna, Iye ndi Elemeremary sangathe kupirira ndi kuchuluka kwa maudindo omwe amagwera pa onse omwe ali pachiyanjano. Mwamuna wotere nthawi zonse amamuwona kuti amadzudzula pamavuto ake, osati kuti sikungakhale inu. Simungadalire ndikudalira thandizo pamavuto - limawopa mosavuta.
Sanakhale ndi ndalama
Ndiponso, osati chifukwa samazipeza, nthawi zina munthu woweta mwana amatha kukhala wokongola kwambiri, chowonadi chingamuthandize kumuthandiza kapena abale kapena abale, koma sizofunikira kwambiri. Taphunzira, zimatha kupita nawo mosavuta, ndipo kukula kwake kwa ndalama zake nthawi zonse kumakhala koposa kwanu - kudzikundikira kwa kupeza kwakukulu sikungathe kuchita bwino. Kodi mwakonzeka ndi amayi ake kuti amuthandize pachuma? Zosakayikitsa.
Sakudziwa momwe mungakankhire
Munthu aliyense wodziyimira pawokha amamvetsetsa kuti ndi opambana, kukonzekera ndikofunikira kwambiri. Sikofunikira kumanga mapulani kwazaka zambiri mtsogolo, komabe, ngati munthu sakukonzeka kuyankha, zomwe zidzachitike m'moyo wake m'miyezi ikubwerazi, onetsetsani kuti pafupi ndi inu ndianar weniweni amene ali ndi zaka lero. Kodi mufunika kuti ku America pa moyo ndi mwana wamkulu pa moyo ndi wotani?