Babu wani mutum na farko da ya fara magana da katsewa cikin kamun ciki, yana jayayya da wannan ta muhawara daban-daban. Kowane mace da kanta ta yanke shawarar yadda ake yin hakan idan ba a canza su ba, amma "kan" ba za su iya karfafa hali ba. A cikin wannan kayan, mun yi la'akari da batun taurari waɗanda ke yin magana don adana juna biyu - bi da su a matsayin wuce haddi don yin tunani game da tambayar, amma kar a dauki gaskiya a farkon misali.
Valeria Gai Gai Jamusawa
A cikin sabon sakin "taka tsantsan, sobchak!" Mai watsa shiri ya yi jayayya da bako na shirin, Darakta Valery Gai Jamus. Yayin yin fim, yarinyar tana cikin watanni na ƙarshe na ciki, kuma a watan Nuwamba akwai yaro na uku. Valeria da gaske ya amsa kalmomin Sobchak da ba a bukatar tattarawa: "Wannan yana da Rotting, m fushin na Apocalypse! Wannan rayuwar mai ban sha'awa ce, dabba. Kuna zaune a cikin firam na alade idan kun tafi bayan jima'i da ɗaukar ciki! " Hakanan, da shahararren sun yi magana da sarkin haila, duba wannan "fitilar dan adam".
Yanana Poplavskaya
A cikin shafi na marubucin na gidan yanar gizon yanar gizo a kan batun 'yan wasan tsakiya na zubar da ciki da ƙarni ko kashewa, shi ne kalmar nan da na kira zubar da ciki). Ina son mutumin da yake tunani, ji, mai imani - don zubar da ciki! " Amma haihuwar Poplavskaya zubar da ciki ba ta yarda ba saboda tsoro na zubar da ciki. Misalin wasan ucress yana haifar da batun lokacin da ta haifi yaro na farko: wata mace ta kwance kofa, da baƙin ciki bai yi ba wai kawai saboda rashin yarda su lalata lafiyarsa. "Ba zan iya tunanin yadda za ka iya haihuwar yaranka ka ba maraba da marayu ba," Zhana ya fusata.
Jack Nicholson
Kodayake a cikin sanannen farin ciki "Hollywe" ba a dauki rayuwar ɗan yaro ba, a zahiri, dan wasan Hollywood yana aiki da zubar da ciki. Wani mutum yana ba da misali da tarihin nasa: Mama ta sami juna biyu, yayin da yake saurayi. Granny Jackb ya hana ta zub da zubar da ciki da goyan bayan 'yar duka ciki, alhali ba ta haife yaro lafiya ba. A lokacin da, a cikin hira da mujallar dutse ta mora, ya ce masa, "[idan kuma da Etheel sun dage wajen yanke hukunci, ba za a haife ni ba. Waɗannan matan suka ba ni rai. "
Celine Dion
Mawaki-Kange sun zama yaro goma sha huɗu a cikin iyali. Da farko, mahaifiyar Dion ta fusata lokacin da ya koya cewa tana da ciki. Koyaya, ba ta je ga zubar da kai ba nan da nan, amma yanke shawarar magana da wani firist na saba'in - ya lallashe ta kada ta yi kuskure. A cikin wata hira da post na kasa, Dion ya ce: "Da zaran [mahaifiyarta] ya mamaye bakin ciki da gaskiyar cewa babu wani magana game da zubar da ciki, tana ƙaunata sosai kamar sauran yara."
Me kuke tunani game da wannan don ko a kan?