Kowace mace tana neman tallafi a cikin dangantaka da wuya wacce za ta ce girmamawa a cikin ma'aurata yana cikin wuri na ƙarshe. Koyaya, yana da sau da yawa daga cikin wannan mace lokaci zuwa sau ɗaya dangane da mutumin da bai sanya abokin tarayya cikin komai ba. Mace ta fara da alama cewa dukkan mutane duka suna nuna hali iri ɗaya kuma akwai zaɓuɓɓuka biyu a nan - ko dai mace tana jin kunya, ko kuma ta ce ba ta da masifaffi a cikin mutane. A zahiri, irin wannan mata ba su san irin waɗannan maza ta hanyar yin takamaiman shirin ba. Me yasa hakan ya faru, muka yanke shawarar ganowa.
Kyakkyawan = rauni rauni
Daya daga cikin mashahuran dalilai da yasa mata da wuya suka kula da wani mutum wanda za a iya bayyana shi a cikin kalma - cute. Amma wannan nau'in ne da zaiyi wa rayuwar rayuwar mahaifarku kuma koyaushe zai zo koyaushe ga ceton, da za ku iya cewa, goyan baya. A hakikanin gaskiya, yawancin matan da ke shirin ruga zuwa ceto, amma a lokaci guda suna watsa wayo a zahiri, wanda ke cikin tushe ba daidai ba. A sakamakon haka, matar ta rasa mutum mai mahimmanci, fi son gina dangantaka da girman kai da kuma nuna ƙwararrun abokin aiki, wanda daga baya yake kawo ɗayan wahalar.
Yana da kyau sosai
Babu wani abin mamaki da cewa sha'anin abokin tarayya da kuma abokin tarayya mara kyau ya san yadda ya ƙarfafa ƙarfin zuciya, wanda mata za su ci gaba da ƙarfin gwiwa, wanda ke fitowa daga irin waɗannan mutane. A wata ma'ana, mace ta hade da irin wannan mutumin da wani mukami daga fina-finai ko littattafai, da kuskure romantizing mutum mai wahala a zahiri. Yana da mahimmanci a ware gaskiya daga tatsuniya daga tatsuniyar abokin tarayya ya ce cewa an lalata irin wannan dangantakan, musamman ma ba zai so ya canza girma ba, musamman idan ba zai so ba canji.
Girmamawa - tushen dangantaka
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Kyakkyawan bayanai
Kamar yadda muka ce, wani mutum wanda ba a hana shi ya ba da damar yin godiya da wannan ba, yin imani da cewa mace yakamata tayi godiya da ita da ita. Daga nan, mafi yawan maganganu masu ban mamaki sun fara, wanda wata mace tana fama da amsa ga wani abu, wanda ya hura mutum har ma, ya juya dangantakar wannan gidan. Mawapulator koyaushe yana daidai, a cikin ra'ayinsa kawai, kawai yana da hakkin yin magana da yanke shawara, ya kamata kawai mace ta yarda kawai. Da farko, wata mace ce ke nuna irin wannan dangantakar da wata muhimmiyar ma'ana ta hanyar amincewa ta Masallacin Masana'antu, amma ta daɗe, ba kyale shi da cikakken mahalarta dangane da dangantaka.
Ƙarancin girman kai yana jawo hankalin "ba daidai ba" maza
Mafi yawan lokuta marasa lahani ga mazajen wata mace wacce ba ta tabbaci cewa zai iya samun wani abu mafi kyau. Kamar yadda kuka fahimta, dalilin karar a wannan yanayin ya zama mai ƙarancin kai na mace. Ana samar da irin wannan tsarin halayyar halaye a ƙuruciya, lokacin da yarinyar tana da tsauraran mahaifa wanda ke ɗaukar duk mafita da kuma rufe duniyar waje. Sau da yawa, wata mace tsawon rai ta wanzu tare da fahimtar cewa akwai wanda zai magance matsaloli, komai yadda zai kula da shi.