Waɗannan kalmomin sun fara wasiƙar ɗayan masu karatun mu. A zahiri, komai ba haka bane. Mafarkin, wanda aka aiko wurina, aka bayyana ta wannan hanyar: "Ina cikin abokan gaba, ɓoye. Na harba a goshi wanda yake so ya bayyana ni. Da farka. "
Mai ban sha'awa, gajere da m mafarki.
Abubuwan da muke jinta suna da kyau gano adadi mai mahimmanci wanda ke faruwa a cikin rikicinmu.
Misali, jaruntin mu yana cikin yanayin barazanar.
Idan muna cikin yanayin tattaunawa, zai yiwu a gano abin da ainihin ƙungiyoyi a rayuwarta kuke magana game da, tare da wa abokan gaba "na abokan gaba" aboki "
Yawancinsu suna da alaƙa da juna, da farko kallo, mai son aminci. Amma a zahiri, muna tsammanin yaudarar: A cikin ƙungiyar aiki mai yawa yana da ƙarfi, gasa tana da ƙarfi, bagotage na yau da kullun.
Wasu lokuta bamu ma lura cewa dole ne mu ciyar da sojojin don yin tsayayya da wannan nauyin: don jimre wa zargin adireshinmu, zargi, wulakanci na sirri.
A cikin mafarki, jarfa sun harbe goshin sa zuwa wani wanda ya sanar da cewa ita ce "Dan hanya", ɗayan, ya bambanta da yawancin.
Tabbas, barcin ta ta nuna rashin ƙarfi, wanda yake da wuya a gare ta a rayuwa don bayyana kai tsaye, a. A cikin mafarki da ta harbe, ba tare da tunani ba.
Wataƙila mafarki ya gaya mata cewa lokaci yayi da za mu iya magana a cikin adireshin, kai tsaye, "harba a goshin", kuma kada ku ɓoye a goshin "kai tsaye", kuma kada ku ɓoye da tafiya da kusan.
Zalunci, ba shakka, ba shine mafi kyawun hanyar gano dangantaka ba - amma tabbas mafi inganci.
Wani lokaci yakan zama dole don kare kansa, kare kanka ko kuma nace a kan shi. A cikin al'adunmu, zalunci ne na al'ada ne a kashe, yana da alaƙa da rashin ƙarfi, bugawa, zargi. Koyaya, wannan ba hanyoyin bayyana shi ba. A cikin ilimin, akwai ma da manufar "ƙungiyar" - wato, bayyanar da kanta a bayyane take, tabbas. Wannan kuma aiki ne mai tsauri, a lokaci guda - babban fasaha. Wannan, a gefe guda, ikon bayyana fushi, da kuma a ɗayan, - don sanya shi a bayyane ga abokin gaba zuwa yadda yake a hanya ko ta iya jin ainihin saƙon.
A bayyane yake, mafarki a cikin maganganun faɗakarwa ya gaya wa mafarkinmu.
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Mariya Zemskova, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam, malamin ta'adda da jagororin horarwa na cibiyar Horar Horon Keɓaɓɓiyar Tsaro na Zamani na Zamani