Yi kwana lafiya! Bari mu fara da gaskiyar cewa wannan mafarkin ya aiko wani mutum. Abu ne koyaushe. Abu na biyu, ya tayar da batun rashin daidaituwa don canzawa - yana da zafi koyaushe!
Zan yi gaba in ce marubucin bai yi muryar da monologu na ciki a kan wane darajar da ya ba wa waɗannan mafarkin ba. Abin da ke barajiyayya a gare shi, kuma me ya sa ya dace yanzu. A takaice, na san cewa yana cikin 'yan shekaru a cikin dangantaka da yarinya wacce kuma ta ambata a cikin wannan mafarkin. Don haka:
"Ina mafarki mafarkin da nake cikin hutu gida tare da budurwata, a cikin babban ginin tare da tarin ɗakuna. Ina dauke da wannan ginin kuma a kan dakuna tare da wasu irin Lady, a wani lokaci Ina ziyartar ra'ayin in canza budurwata. Kuma a wannan lokacin akwai wasu irin porridge, ba lalle ya fito ba, amma yarjejeniyar ta kasance, kamar yadda suke faɗi. Sabili da haka, a zahiri, zan fuskanci budurwa bayan wannan tare da babbar hanyar laifi da tunani: don gaya mata ko a'a game da wannan taron. Kwanan nan, taken tare da cin nasara a duk mafarkin mako guda kusan, amma a yau akalla wani abu ne tunawa. "
Kamar yadda mafarkin bai rantsar da tambayarsa ba, bari muyi kokarin muryar da tambayoyinsa zuwa kaina da ɗaure tare da abun cikin barci. Ta yaya ya zama na yi mafarki? Shin zan yi magana kamar wannan? Yaya karfi ne, kuma za su yi tsayayya da wannan gwajin?
Me nake lura da dangantakarmu? Me yasa kuke jin yadda laifin laifi don bincike da gamsuwa da wannan ƙarancin a gaban abokin tarayya na?
Tunda batun canji ya tashi sau da yawa tare da mafarki a cikin wannan shafi, wannan lokacin da nake son ƙara wani sabo, kuma kada maimaitawa.
Wataƙila, mai da hankali daidai kan wannan fannin cewa don gamsar da wasu buƙatu a wajen dangantakar da ke cikin mafarki), mafarki yana fuskantar laifi. Mun ɗauka cewa irin wannan tsari ya wuce mutum lokacin da na kayar da abinci a abinci mai sauri, da sanin cewa yana jiran abinci mai sauri a gida, wanda shine abinci na gaske. Kuma jin laifin alamomi alama ce ta cewa bukatar ta san cewa ba ta da kyau, ba da gamsuwa ba. Misali, wani mutum ya yi imani cewa yana jin yunwa, amma a zahiri ji "yunwar" wani shirin. Ya yi fushi, ya yi farin ciki ko baƙin ciki. Yana buƙatar rama waɗannan tunanin da wanda bai san yadda ake yin jurewa ba, kuma abinci mai sauri ya zama ƙoƙari, amma ba a yi nasara ba, a cikin kwanciyar hankali. Ka san wannan?
Zan iya cewa a hankali tunanina cewa mafarkin mafarkin da yake nuna tsari iri ɗaya, amma maimakon abinci, jima'i yana da matsakaiciya. Jima'i - a matsayin wata hanya mai araha ga wani, gamsar da hankali, kwantar da hankali, rama wahala wahala da ƙararrawa. A wata ma'ana, ya fi sauƙi a kiyaye asirin daga ƙaunataccen wanda na canza shi. Akwai wani abu da za a yi. Kuma bayyananniyar ma'anar a gaban hanci na 24 hours a rana: kada a kama ku kuma kada kuyi wani rauni.
Ina bayar da shawarar mafarkanmu don gano wane irin kiran a ciki yake ji da gaske? Me ke kula da shi cewa bai ba da hankali ba yin barci kuma ya haifar da wani wahala?
Wataƙila ba batun cinyayya bane, amma wannan dangantakar ba ce ta aiwatarwa ne kawai. Wani abu za a iya aiwatar da wani abu a cikin wata ƙungiya, a zaɓi zaɓi jima'i. Zai yiwu har yanzu akwai batutuwa batutuwa, kalubale a rayuwa, kuma yanzu mafarkin bai yi kuskure ba, kuma yanzu mafarkin "kamar yadda ba za ku iya haɗuwa da waɗannan motsin zuciyar ba, amma don bauta wa tsoron nan kasancewa fallasa.
Af, ma'anar laifin ana la'akari da laifin da yawa, ciki har da cikin rayuwa, amma a lokacin da mutum ya fahimci cewa bashi da wasu hanyoyin jirgin, misali, maimakon kai Gwaji, an tsunduma cikin neman amincewa da ƙaunatattun.
Ina mamakin abin da kuke mafarki? Misalan mafarkinka sun aika da mail: [email protected]. Hanya, mafarkin suna da sauƙin bayyanawa idan a lokacin farkawa a lokacin farkawa daga wannan mafarki.
Mariya Dayawa