Wani masanin da ba a zata ba, ranar farko mai ban mamaki, wata rana mai ban mamaki, mai ban dariya, yana wucewa cikin ɗakin kwana. Kuma da safe, kamar babu abin da ya kasance. Sarki ya bace, ba barin alamar ba. Alas, girlsan mata da yawa a rayuwarsu suna fuskantar irin wannan yanayin.
Masana kimiyya sun sami bayani game da irin wannan halin mutane.
Dalili na farko shine hormonal. Bayan jima'i, matakin tesosterone matakin a jikin mutum ya fadi. Yana buƙatar lokaci don dawo da shi. Ganin cewa a cikin mata hormone kara oxytocin kara kuma tana buƙatar "ci gaba da liyafa". Wani mutum ya yi tunani a hankali ya yi ƙoƙari ya tsere - jikinsa ya riga ya cika aikinsa.
Dalili na biyu shine ilimin tunani. Odly isa, wakilan wakilan mata masu ƙarfi kamar yadda yake aiwatar da hukunci, kuma ba da mallaka ba. Bugu da kari, yana iya zama dole a gare shi kuma ana bukatar zama dare daya, saboda gamsuwa na bukatar jiki na jiki. Da safe bai tuna da sunanta ba, har ma da magana da ita, don yin magana da shirye-shiryen ci gaba ... yana da sauƙin tserewa.
Na uku shine zamantakewa. Ta taɓa Cinderella daga Bala Dare dare na iya juya zuwa wannan mawaka. Wannan shine ainihin batun lokacin da jima'i dalilai ne na yin jima'i. Wani mutum kawai yana fuskantar rashin jin daɗi a cikin abokin tarayya saboda haka ganye.