Ana tambayar irin wannan tambaya sau da yawa mata waɗanda suke tunanin a cikin tauraron dan adam na rayuwar maza waɗanda suke da tushe na albarkatun ƙasa da dukiya. Bi da bi, zan yi kokarin amsa da kuma bayyana wannan tambayar, a gare ku, masoyi, dangane da aikinmu da hotunan halayen mutane waɗanda suka yi mani hotunan kowane tambayoyi.
Don haka menene mata, kuma menene sharuɗɗa za su zabi wadatattu da masu nasara ga Sahabbansu?
Ya dogara da yawancin dalilai na ciki da na ciki waɗanda ke kewaye da irin wannan mutumin. Don fahimtar wannan bangaren, ya zama dole a magance ilimin halin dan Adam na wannan mutumin da kuma tsarin dabarun rayuwa, wanda yake a yanzu.
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Zabi na Sahabbai a cikin mawuyacin mutane da nasara sun dogara ne:
1. Daga Vector Lawcorchanyencor, wanda ya kafa hali da dandano, abubuwan da aka zaba.
2. Zabi ya dogara da maƙasudin abin da ake buƙata.
Wataƙila a daidai lokacin da kuke buƙatar kyakkyawan hoto mai rakiyar taron, wanda a matsayin hologram ya kamata ya yi tunani ko jaddada nasarar ta da matsayinsa. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, wannan wani samfurin samfurin samfurin bayyanar, da kyau-roomed, wanda ke nufin yana nufin cimma sakamako da ake so.
Ko mutum ya ɗauki mace don ƙirƙirar dangi. Akwai sauran abubuwan da ake so anan: ba kawai bayyanar ba, har ma da abin da mace take wakilta. Ya kamata ba wai kawai yana nuna al'umman da ke ciki ba, har ma sun iya haifar da yanayin ciki a cikin gidan. Anan ne mafi sau da yawa muna haɗuwa da son zuciyar don matar za ta sami nasu sha'awa, sha'awa ko kasuwanci. Yana da kyawawa cewa ta taso, da fasaha tallafawa tattaunawar. Anan zaka ji mai zuwa: "Ba na bukatar doll, ina bukatar rayuwa, na gaske." A karkashin manufar "na gaske" - sha'awar ganin motsin rai, albarkatun mace, da kuma dumi.
3. Zaɓin Sansani ya dogara da wane mataki na nasara ne wannan mutumin
A wasu matakai na ci gaban mutum mai nasara, hotunan mata da abubuwan da ta zaba na iya canzawa.
Idan wani mutum ya mai da hankali kan aikinsa gaba daya - wannan yawanci mataki na zama mutum ne. Saboda haka, da mace ta hoto, zai zabi gurbataccen mara hankali ga "ba mai nutsuwa daga manyan burin," koyaushe, in ya cancanta, "ya kasance a hannu." Don gudanar da daidaito irin wannan mace, wasu albarkatu ma an kasafta su - "kamar yadda ya kuduri". Babban aikin matar a wannan matakin ba tserewa ba ne, amma ka kasance kusa da abin da ake kira, a nesa na "elongated hannun". Wani hoto gaba ɗaya na mace na iya zama kusa, lokacin da wani mutum ya riga ya kirkiro wani abu kuma zai iya motsa mai da hankali ga wani abu, a matsayin zabin, don dangantaka, dangantaka da yanki.
Don haka, taƙaita ayyukan da ke sama: matakai daban-daban, mata daban-daban mata ne daban-daban. Da wuya, amma har yanzu yana yiwuwa a sadu da irin waɗannan matan da suke da mutanensu a matakai daban-daban na samuwar nasara. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, waɗannan dabi'ar sassauƙa, masu haƙuri, mai hikima, kayan aiki, mai da hankali ga mutum na gudu. Sanin yadda za a ciyar da lokacinsu da amfanin su yayin da suke jiran gwarzon su)
4. Zabi na mata sun dogara da matakin ƙarfin mutum da kuma digiri na ciki.
Wannan shi ne babban rabo daga mutumin da zai amfana lokacin da zai iya yin zabi tare da zuciyarsa, ba biyayya, ga jama'a. A nan mutumin ya riga ya ji 'yancinsa da' yancin zabar mace rai, ba tare da la'akari da abin da muhallin zai faɗi game da shi ba. Yana da ƙarfi da ƙarfi kuma zai iya gaskata zaɓinsa. Kyauta ce daga belu ta Socius ta beli ta kuma sauraron duniyar sa ta ciki. Kuma a cikin hoton mace, yana neman "aboki mai rai."
Don haka, yayin yin ma'amala da mazajen nasara, kuna buƙatar fahimta: Wanene a gabanka, cikin wane yanayi, da kuma a wane mataki na ci gaba shine mutumin nan. Kuma mafi mahimmanci shine tuna cewa dangantaka mai ƙarfi ita ce dangantakar gaskiya da darajar juna.