Tareason shine mafi mashahuri kuma sau da yawa haifar da rabuwa da kisan aure. Tabbas, abin da mutane mai raɗaɗi da mutane wasu lokuta da ke da sauƙin watsa su fiye da rayuwa cikin jira ko barazana cewa zai sake maimaita.
Alan da Barbara Piz, likitocin Amurkan, yi jayayya cewa maza da talauci a cikin layi daya, amma mata, akasin wannan, da gangan kiyaye wannan asirin. Kuma idan mata basa son yin hakan a bayyane take, to, abokin aikinsu zai iya tunanin abin da ke faruwa. A lokaci guda, maza suka canza sau biyu. Haka kuma, dalilai, tura wadancan da sauransu a dangantakar juna biyu da dangantaka daban-daban. Guda iri ɗaya sun ce jikin mutum ya samar da jikin mutum mai alhakin so. Godiya ga wannan hormone, sun zama mummunan rauni kuma masu lalata, suna neman wuri a cikin mace. Tare da isowa na abokin tarayya na dindindin, ci gaban wannan kwayar cutar ta dan kadan yakai raguwa, ma'auni, amma baya zuwa ko ina. Mutumin yana buƙatar sake cin nasara, nema, gwada sha'awoyi da sha'awa. A saboda wannan, abokin tarayya dole ne ya "yaudare shi kuma." Amma mafi yawan lokuta, lalata ba ya faruwa ne saboda wasu rayayyun rayuwa: ƙulli a wurin aiki, yara, rayuwa, asarar tsari. Matar kuma tana cinye hormone tana da alhaki, ƙauna, ƙirƙirar gida. Tunaninta da burin ta da burinta niyya ne wajen karfafa iyalai da dangantaka, galibi ba ta yin tunani game da abin da ya zama marassa karfi ga abokin tarayya. Saboda haka, maza sun cinye mata a gefe. Aƙalla wannan ya bayyana kusancin ilmin halitta.
Bangaren mata su ne, akasin haka, dalilai na asali da hankali. Mata suna zuwa "hagu" saboda dalilai da yawa: jin cutar mijinta, so ya tabbatar wa kansu cewa har yanzu suna buƙatar maza. Ko rama ga cin amanar abokin tarayya.
Ilimin Ilimin Iyali ya nuna cewa Haikakkiyar ta yi kira don taimako a cikin hulda aure. Abokan hulɗa suna fuskantar da yawa a cikin dangantaka (mai yiwuwa ƙauna, mai yiwuwa, aminci, sabuntawa, hanyar ci gaba da sanya shi "Hanya mai aminci zuwa wani. Sau da yawa, Treason yana aiki azaman maimaitawa da alaƙar rikice-rikice. Duk tausayawa da ba a haɗa shi da sha'awar sa na uku, nisa tsakanin ma'aurata yana ƙaruwa kuma ya zama mafi aminci. Ana tsara yawancin aure a cikin cin amana, ba da damar abokan da zasu daina da kuma kula da dangantakar kirki, girmamawa da kuma tabbataccen dangantaka. Matsalar kawai ita ce kasancewar irin wannan dutse don sinus, azaman haɗin ɗaya da layi ɗaya, kada ku kyale abokan hulɗa da juna. Don asirinsu, suna biyan kusanci da kusanci, wanda za'a iya kirkirar da abokin tarayya.
Batun ba shi da sauƙi don canza ilimin. Ga dukkan abokan tarayya dole ne su yarda da cin amanar hanya ce ta magance rikicin da ke cikin dangantakar. Kodayake bangaren da abin ya shafa ya karkata wajen zargin abokin tarayya cikin azaba da rauni na yanzu da gafara sun amince da irin wannan halin da mutum ya canza, kuma na biyu suka yarda da wannan.
Wanda ya canza, ya zama dole a sami da gaske don yin saduwa da dukan zafin da ya runtumi abokin aikinsa. Kada ku yi kokarin fitar da shi, a bayyane ya alkawarta, da fatan za a daure shi. Kawai gane gaskiyar cewa sai ya canza rauni, wanda koyaushe zai kasance tare da su zuwa mataki daya ko wani.
Haka kuma, abokan tarayya dole ne su dauki gaskiyar cewa wannan taron ba zai taɓa yin alaƙar su iri ɗaya ba. Kuma idan duka biyun za su kasance a shirye zuwa manya don yarda da waɗannan canje-canje, to, hadadden mai yiwuwa ne.
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Stars suma suna fuskantar aurar da kafirci, saboda abin da wani abin kunya ta rushe. Misali, sanadin kisan aure Moore da Ashton Katcher ya zama mai cin nasara: 'yan wasan kwaikwayo wanda ke cikin sanannen otalan otal a ranar aurenta da Demi. Na ɗan lokaci, ma'aurata sun yi kokarin kiyaye iyali, amma a ƙarshe, Moore ba zai iya gafarta mata cin mutuncinta cin amana ba.
Kuma a nan wasu matan taurari - David da Victoria Beckham - suna tsaye da juna. Kafofin watsa labaru suna bayyana jita-jita game da tarin bayanai masu yawa, amma matansa da zarar an yi tunanin kisan aure. Koyaya, a sakamakon haka, ma'auratan sun yanke shawarar sasantawa: Ga Victoria, mafi kyawun kayan aiki daga aure shine haihuwar wani yaro.
Mariya Zemskova, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam, malamin ta'adda da jagororin horarwa na cibiyar Horar Horon Keɓaɓɓiyar Tsaro na Zamani na Zamani