A cewar yawancin 'yan mata, jima'i da safe ya fi kowane caji, kuma akwai gaskiyar ta. Koyaya, yana da ban mamaki, ba ma'aurata da yawa suna yin kusanci da juna. Idan kun fi son safiya maraice, muna hanzari in faɗi yadda za mu yi jima'i da safe, wataƙila kuna sane da ƙauna bayan barci a wata kusurwa ta daban.
Bari hasken rana
Wataƙila babbar matsalar jima'i na safe - don yanke hukunci a kansa lokacin da nake so in je barci baya. Don haka ya tashi daga jiki, yi ƙoƙari kuma ku lalata labulen. Haske mai taushi ba makanta, amma zai kasance makafi kamar agogo mai ƙararrawa.
Kada ku ji tsoron amfani da kayan wasa
Yana faruwa cewa abokin aikin bai yarda da kusantar da safe, fi son zuwa karin kumallo ko ci gaba da jog ba. Abin kunya ne, amma ba duk an rasa: Yi amfani da rawar jiki. Zai yiwu a dubaku, wani mutum ba zai iya kamewa ba kuma zai ci gaba da kasancewa tare da ku a wani rabin sa'a.
ba mutane da yawa suna son safiya
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Yi duk marasa kyau
Ofaya daga cikin manyan dokokin jima'i na safe - babu buƙatar rush. Samu sha'awar maraice, kuma a cikin mintuna na farko bayan farkawa da kuke son karin magana da sumbata. Mafi kyawun manufa ana ɗaukar hoto "a gefe": don haka mutum ba zai ba ku wani rashin jin daɗi ba, saboda shigar azzakari ba zai zama mai zurfi ba.
Tafi shawa
Me zai iya zama mafi kyawun rashin yarda da rai a cikin hannun ƙaunataccen mutum? Koyaya, kar ku manta don kiyaye matakan tsaro: sha'awar rigar da zata iya ƙare da abin cikin baƙin ciki. Saboda haka, pre-sa wani rug rug a ƙasa a wuraren da ruwa yake so. Bugu da kari, kar ka manta da grab lubricant: Ruwa mai zafin rai yana jefa dabi'a, saboda haka ƙarin danshi ba zai cuce ka ba.