Daidai ne, jima'i bai kamata ya kawo wani motsin rai ba kuma jin zafi musamman. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, tsoron jima'i ya wuce bayan na farko tuntuɓar jima'i, idan babu shinge - ba ilimin ƙwaƙwalwa ba - ba ya zama. Ko ta yaya, masana ilimin Adam kwarai suna fuskantar} arfafan manya, mutane masu nasara ga wanda ya kusanci mai mafarki mai ban sha'awa. Mun yanke shawarar magance dalilan wannan sabon abu.
Menene wannan matsalar?
Divologists suna kiran tsoron jima'i Eotophobia. A lokaci guda, rikicewar, da kuma in ba da wuya a sanya wannan matsalar, imani mai dorewa an kafa shi wannan jima'i ba zai iya yin komai ba wanin motsin rai. Ko da sumbatar mutane a cikin sufuri na jama'a suna haifar da eotophobes mai matukar rashin jin daɗi waɗanda za mu iya magana game da ƙoƙarin jima'i don yin ambaton kyawun jima'i.
Ta yaya tsoron kusancin kusancin kusanci?
Etoophobia na iya bayyana kanta gaba ɗaya daban-daban da ba ta dace ba ga yanayin tashin hankali. Koyaya, mafi sau da yawa tare da wannan Phobia mata ne waɗanda suke juyar da matsaloli gaba ɗaya game da tushen tsoronsu - Vaginich, kullun zafi da kuma sauran matsalolin na Gaggawa. Abubuwa da yawa na iya ba da gudummawa ga ci gaban rikice-rikice, wanda shine shine mafi mashahuri, zamu tantance shi gaba.
Factorarancin ilimin halin mutum
Kamar yadda a yawancin matsalolin iliminmu, tushen tsoro zai iya ɗaukar ra'ayin mazan jiya. Iyaye suna fatan yaransu mafi kyau, sabili da haka suna ƙoƙarin kare shi daga farkon sadarwar matasa, wasu kuma suna hana kowane yunƙuri na saurayi don fara komai dangantaka. A sakamakon haka, wani dattijo ba zai iya kawar da shigarwa da aka sanya a cikin ƙuruciya ba. Idan matsalar ta fara isar da mummunan yanayin tunani, ba tare da neman kwararru ba zai iya yi.
Kada kuyi tsammanin matsalar da za a warware ta kanta
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Fasalin jiki
Kamar yadda muka sani, jan hankalin yana da alaƙa da asalin hormonal. Bangaren Murancin Hormonal yana da matukar m, sabili da haka wani yanki mai kaifi a cikin matakin Androgens na iya haifar da kyama ga duk abin da ke hade da jima'i. Wani dalili na iya zama cututtukan cututtukan cututtukan ƙwayar cuta iri-iri, kamar bambance bambancen cutar ƙugu ko kumburi daban-daban. Kowane watanni shida, ana bada shawarar ilimin 'yan ilimin' yan jinmin su sha wani karamin jarrabawar kwayar cuta ta hanyar gano matsalar a farkon matakin.
Kewaye
Ba asirin ba ne cewa yanayinmu ya shafi yanayinmu wanda muke ƙoƙari mu dace. Kowace rana mun ji game da cin zarafin abokansu ko kuma abubuwan da suke bayarwa, idan kwarewarmu ba zata iya samun nasara ba - Shin ina da kyau a gado? Wataƙila abokin tarayya na gamsuwa, amma ba a gane shi ba? Ribarin iska da kanta a kan wannan, da farko yana haifar da isasshen jihar, sannan kuma ciwon ciki wanda ke toshe jan hankalin.
Me za a yi?
Yana da mahimmanci nan da nan a fahimci farjin zai dade. A matsayinka na mai mulkin, duk wani ƙwararren ƙwararrun a fagen ilimin halayyar mutum zai iya taimaka muku. Babban abu ba don ƙara ja da mafita ga matsalar ba kuma gane cewa a cikin ƙungiyar da aka ƙaddamar ba zai wuce ba.