Duk mun san yadda ke rinjaye ga psyche yaron, sabili da haka ya zama dole don kusanci duk wani alhakin, yi tunani sosai game da duk abin da kuke so ku gaya wa yaranku sosai. Yau mun yanke shawarar magana game da mafi cutarwa jumla don tsarin ilimi.
"Kada ku ci shi, za ku yi zafi"
Mai daukaka kan halaye masu cutarwa na wasu samfuran, kawai za ku yi wahayi zuwa kawai cewa kawai za ku yi wahayi zuwa kaɗai kawai, a cikin irin wannan yanayin zai sami sha'awar canza abubuwa masu amfani. Gargadi ta musamman ita ce ta nuna iyayen 'yan matan matasa masu ba'a suna fuskantar masu ba'a game da bayyanarsu. Maimakon tsananin cutar daga fakitin kwakwalwan kwamfuta, karanta jerin samfuran da amfani da amfani tare da yaron.
Yaron yana da cikakken haƙƙin hali a cikin yara
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"Kada ku kira"
Wataƙila mafi mashahuri magana da kowane iyaye yake amfani da kowane mahaifa. Mafi yawan lokuta ana iya ji ga yaron, saboda gwargwadon iyayen guda ɗaya, "amma bayan fewan shekaru waɗanda iyaye zasu fuskanci matsalolin tunani game da matashin maza. ajiye komai a cikin kansu. Psyche yana da iyakance mai zaman lafiya, ba kwa buƙatar samun shi don ƙarfi.
"Duk abin da kuka ce, 'maganar banza ce"
Kowane yaro yana da taken wanda zai iya magana da ma'ana, kuma yawanci iyaye ba su goyi bayan sha'awar yaransu. Akwai sabani, saboda abin da yaron ya tilasta wa neman fahimta a wajen gida, kuma waye ya san inda zai same shi. Ko da ba ku da sha'awar abin da ke ƙoƙarin isar da kai, a maimakon haka, a hankali fassara taken, duk da haka, in ba jariri yin magana.
"Kada ku nuna hali kamar yaro"
Ta yaya yaro zai yi hali, sai dai ga yara na yara? Iyaye da yawa ba su da tunani game da shi. Tabbas, tsohon yaron ya zama, mafi yawan aikin sun faɗi akan kafadu, amma ba lallai ba ne don ya nemi ɗan saurayi, yana sanannen kansa da ƙarfinsa, don nuna kansa da ƙarfinsa kamar yaro - cikakken dama.