Ba tare da yin jima'i mai inganci da na dindindin ba, yana da wuya a ƙaddamar da ma'aurata waɗanda ke shirin gina dangantaka mai ƙarfi, sannan ƙirƙirar dangi. Wani lokacin a cikin binciken jituwa sun bar shekara, a wannan lokacin ma'aurata suna iya rasa sha'awar juna. Za mu gaya muku daga waɗanne kayan haɗin) akwai rayuwa mai gamsarwa.
Ƙauna
Ee, wannan abu ne mai sauki. Idan babu soyayya a cikin biyu, amma kawai so, a ƙarshe lokacin zai zo lokacin da aka harba da ji da ji. Bugu da kari, mutanen da suke ƙauna ba wai kawai game da kansu ba, har ma game da kwanciyar hankali abokin tarayya. A cikin irin wannan biyu, son kai ba zai yiwu ba, musamman a gado, inda ya zama dole don amincewa da rabi na biyu. Ka yi tunanin daidai abin da ji yake ɗaure ku biyu, idan akwai matsaloli a gado, wataƙila shari'ar tana cikin zurfin ji ne?
Aminci
Ka yi tunanin na biyu cewa mutumin da kake hauka, yana haifar da yadda yake ji kawai a kanka, har ma ga wani? Muna da tabbaci a cikin irin wannan ma'aurata, ba lallai ba ne don yin magana game da rayuwar jima'i, saboda duk sojojin sun tafi don magance matsaloli da tuhuma akai a cikin kafirci. A sakamakon haka, irin wannan mutumin baya haifar da wani abu ban da son kai. A lokaci guda, mutane da yawa sun yi imani da cewa binciken don nishaɗin da ke taimaka wa maƙasu sha'awa lokaci guda, duk da haka, a zahiri, ba komai ba "hagu" ba zai yi ba kawo. Kada ku yaudari.
Kada ku ji tsoron gwaje-gwaje
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Bambancin ra'ayi
Cutar jima'i na jituwa ba zai iya zama mai ban sha'awa da annabta. Idan ba ku yanke shawara kan gwaje-gwaje ba, hakan yana nufin cewa akwai matsala cewa akwai matsala a cikin dangantakarku, wanda sannu a hankali ke lalata kusanci, saboda ba zai ba ku damar bayyana duka biyun ba. Yi ƙoƙarin neman hanyoyin shawo kan matsalolin da ba dole ba a gaban juna, a ƙarshe, kowannenku a cikin gado ya jagoranci jan hankalin, wanda ke nufin rashin tabbas kafin abokin aikin bai kamata ya tashi ba.
Kula
Kamar yadda muka riga muka fada, son kai baya bada gudummawa ga fitowar jituwa. Jima'i yana da mahimmanci ga musayar wani rai wanda ya nuna halayyar bangarorin biyu, lokacin da abokan tarayya suka yi kama da kansu, kuma a wannan yanayin wani zai kasance mai gamsarwa. Yi la'akari da sha'awar abokin tarayya, domin idan babu gamsuwa da aƙalla ɗaya daga cikin bangarorin, kuma ba kwa buƙatar tattauna rayuwa da kuma bayar da dabaru yadda zai iya a inganta.