Duk, duk mutane duk mutane suna kasancewa cikin hadaddun su, wurare masu rauni. Amma mata da maza sun bambanta sosai. Idan muna game da hadaddun mata ne, matan, game da komai an san su, to ba abin da ke da fahimta tare da maza. Ana jin bene mai karfi, ba su "ƙyanƙyashe" a gaban madubi, kada ku yi kuka game da rayuwa. Ee, kuma ba karɓa ko ta yaya don magana game da hadaddun su ba. Wani mutum koyaushe yana son gabatar da kansa a matsayin mutumin da ke da tabbaci wanda kawai ba zai iya ba. Amma har yanzu suna.
Na farko wanda - Rashin ilimin halittar jiki . Ga kowane mutum, yana da muhimmanci a ji makamashin maza, ƙarfi, amincewa. Masallacin mutum ne gaba ɗaya manufar halayen da aka ƙaddara a cikin mutum mutumin. Kamar yanke shawara, alhakin, nauyi, mai hankali, kwanciyar hankali ... duk wannan bayyanar halaye na maza da gaske, ba tare da abin da ba zai ji cikakke ba. Idan babu wasu halaye, hadaddun mutane suka bayyana a cikin rashin halaye.
Karfi na jiki da tsari . Ee Ee Ee. Saboda wannan ne matasa da yawa suka fara tafiya cikin makarantun rocking, kujeru motsa jiki da agogo rataye a kan fadi. Don duba ƙarin makale, tare da cubes "outflow" a kan latsa, babba da ƙarfi baya, a guje tare da hannaye da gindi da kuma gindi mai tsafta. Bayan haka, yana jan hankalin mata sosai. Sakamakon haka, waɗanda ba su da irin waɗannan siffofin da tilastawa suna da matukar hadaddun, ƙoƙarin gyara matsayinsu ta kowace hanya.
Kayan kayan aiki. Kowa ya san cewa mutum shine mai kai. Duk da haka a cikin gandun daji na dutse suna min abinci, wuta, gina a gida. A halin yanzu, komai ya canza, amma babban aiki na gaba ɗaya ya kasance iri ɗaya. Wani mutum yana min dina. Yana da mahimmanci a gare shi ya sami damar samun kuɗi don kanku, da nan gaba don samar da danginku wanda zai zama babban goyon baya. Wani mutum daidai ya fahimci wannan kuma yana ƙoƙarin samun kuɗin shiga. Idan saboda wasu dalilai ba ya aiki, hadaddun mutane sun bayyana.
Matsayi a cikin al'umma. Ga wani mutum, ba masu kuɗi kawai ba suna da mahimmanci, amma kuma hanyoyin samun kudin shiga. Mazaunan aiki, aiwatarwarsa, matsayinta. Yana da mahimmanci a sami matsayi mai nauyi a cikin al'umma, a tsakanin mutanen sa. Kowane mutum zai nemi wannan don jin daɗin jin daɗin jin daɗinsa, yana jin mahimmancinsu.
Balaga. Yana da mahimmanci a lura cewa mata sun fi dacewa a hadadden ra'ayi. Zuwa mafi girma, saboda gaskiyar cewa suna son kula da soyayya da maza, kamar yadda ka sani, son idanunmu. " Amma idan ya zo ga kusancin jiki, mutum yana da matukar muhimmanci kada ya buga fuska. Batun ba ma cikin adadin "namiji na mutunci", amma a cikin ikon isar da wata mace mai dadi. Zai saka wa dukkan karfinsa, kauna da tausayin dangantakar jima'i don samun yarda daga matar ƙaunataccen mace. Kuma wannan yardar tana da mahimmanci. Idan akwai matsaloli a kan wannan ƙasa, mutumin yana da matukar fuskantar su.
Rabawa. Sakandare, ba ɗabi'a bane mai dacewa Ka ce: kira na farko, kira na farko, gabaɗaya, ɗauki matakin farko. Amma mu, mata, galibi sun ki, ba ma tunanin yadda yake ciwo zai iya zama maza a wannan lokacin. Bayan haka, a ainihi, kowa yana jin tsoron ƙin, ba tare da la'akari da jinsi ba. Maza kawai sau da yawa suna nuna yunƙurin sanin su, ku sami masaniya - kuma galibi sau da yawa suna karɓar gazawar. Bayan duk, a gare su, da kuma ga mata, zai iya zama da wahala a hadu da tunani, ɗauki nufin a cikin dunkulallu kuma ya fara aiki. Kuma lokacin da abin da aka ƙi ƙwayoyinku shima ya ƙi - aƙalla mara kyau ne, a matsayin matsakaici - yana ciwo. Kuma da yawa irin gazawar, wani lokacin sosai m, a cikin asusun mutane. A sakamakon haka, ƙi ne babbar matsala, mutane suna tsoron shi da ƙarfi sosai, idan wannan ya faru sau da yawa.
Rikicin Tsakiya na Tsakiya. Wannan zamanin yana da rikitarwa ga mata da maza. Ya fara ta hanyoyi daban-daban a hanyoyi daban-daban, ana gaskata cewa a cikin shekaru 35 zuwa 50. Maza suna tsoron waɗannan lambobin gaba, saboda sun fahimta: dole ne ya taƙaita wasu sakamako, wataƙila wani abu don canza wani abu, don fara wani abu. Wannan ba gaba ɗaya bane cikin tsari tsarkakakke, maimakon, tsoron shekaru masu girma. Tsoron tsufa don rasa sha'awa daga mata, wanda ba a bayyana shi a cikin sana'a ba. Zuwa kusancin wani zamani a maza na iya inganta wannan hadaddun.
Kamar yadda kake gani, da kuma bene mai ƙarfi yana da raunuka. Koyaya, sun san yadda za su boye su kuma kar su ba mata mata da ba da damar tunanin game da wasu "almara". Yana son mutanenku, har ma da wuraren da ba zai bayyana ba.