Duk muna son sauraron tatsuniyar tatsuniyoyi game da Cinderella, wanda kyakkyawan yarima ya faɗi cikin ƙauna da kallo na farko. "Wannan soyayya ce!" - Mun yi tunani, duba "mita uku da sama" nau'in fina-finai. Amma akwai waɗanda ke da taurin kai, ba zai yiwu a ƙaunaci mutum da kallo ba - kuma, a ƙarshe, masana kimiyya sun tabbatar da cewa sun kasance daidai. Ya yi nazari kan sabbin karatun da ke tabbatar da shi.
Ta yaya muke tunanin soyayya
"A lokacin da lokaci ya zo, wani mutum zai bayyana a rayuwar ka, wanda ya ga kamar yadda yake nema sai ya ce, '' yan matan su shiga cikin rayuwarsu, yayin da 'yan mata zasu shiga ciki Mahaifiyar kirki mai ta yau da kullun kuma Uban da zai yiwu cikakken uba na 'ya'yanta zuwa bakin tekun. An yi jayayya da gaskiyar cewa rayuwarku da ci gaba ta ci gaba ya kamata ya tsaya a kanku da fari, ba za mu yi ba. Amma tare da gaskiyar cewa saman an ƙaddara lokacin da ka ga wani mutum ya dace muku, ba za mu yarda ba. Ko da kuke tunani game da ma'ana, da yiwuwar dacewa da halayen namiji tare da youra'idodin wani kyakkyawan mutum shine mafi girma, mafi sau da yawa kuna haɗuwa da mutane dabam dabam. Don haka zauna a gidan, kamar rafunzel ya yi, ba daidai ba ne - zaɓa mutane! Kuma yanzu mun juya zuwa mafi ban sha'awa - bincike.
Kar a yi nadamar kadaici, nemi wani mutum ne
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Masana ilimin kimiyya sun amsa soyayya a farkon zangon farko masu shakku
A cikin jerin bincike, yin jima'i da abokan aikinsa sun sa hannu game da tunanin mutane game da ƙwarewar daban-daban na dangantakar su, gajere na digirinsu da na dogon lokaci. Misali, sumbata ta farko, jima'i na farko da sauransu. Ya juya cewa ikon hankalin mutane dangane da abokin tarayya daidai ne ga duka dangantakar gajeren lokaci da na dogon lokaci. Daga baya ne kawai, masu binciken suka ga bambance-bambance tsakanin dangantakar da dangantaka, wanda ya ƙare. Amma yaya soyayya a farkon kallo? Wace irin ƙauna ce a farkon binciken? Wani bincike mai illa ", wanda aka buga a cikin Journ ALDING na kimiyya" ya nuna bayanan sirri "ya nuna cewa mutane da yawa sun yarda cewa sun sami wannan ji. Amma a zahiri, nazarin ya tabbatar da cewa wannan jin "ƙauna" hakika kawai ma'anar jan hankalin jiki ne - ya fi kama da sha'awa. Kuma mutane da yawa waɗanda suke magana game da "ƙauna a farkon gani" ga abokin aikinsu na yanzu, kawai kawai suna tunanin yadda suke ji a farkon tarurrukansu da wannan mutumin.
Masu son rasuwa da ji da zurfi
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Yaya kuke son waɗannan sakamakon? Shin ka yarda da soyayya da na farko duk da kimiyya? Rubuta ra'ayinku a cikin maganganun da ke ƙasa kuma ku faɗi abin da wasu tatsuniyoyi da muke buƙatar murkushe.